Hi everyone,
I just got this message from my ex-husband that quite frankly pissed me off. I don't know what to reply.
For context, my ex-husband and I are legally divorced and have been separated for the last fifteen years.
My son insisted I let him move into the annex temporarily as he doesn't have money and nowhere to go.
I stupidly accepted.
He has no money as far as I'm aware, although he's been very evasive and secretive around a trust fund he and his sister got from his father's inheritance.
He refuses to apply for any financial help or get his retirement money and refuses to move out of the house. Although our daughter offered to help him find a place and help him get his finances sorted.
I feel I have no choice but to give him money and do his shopping.
I left to travel to my pregnant daughter's to help her out as she is currently alone with a toddler and is due in the next couple of weeks. I am quite skint myself at this point and only left him and my son with enough to cover essential shopping and did a full shop as well.
He texted me this:
"Unfortunately, when you left, you didn't leave any money for me. This means I cannot buy food or cigarettes.
Can you think of a solution to this problem?"
I find it very cheeky but don't know how to reply.
I'm tired of this situation and want to get rid of him to be honest.