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How would you react if you saw a 3 yo trying to deliberately step on a cat's tail?

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TotesDelulu · 15/04/2024 14:26

For context, child is 3.8 (4 this summer), the parent is my friend who was out of sight at the far end of the garden (it's a big garden) making a phone call. Cat is 15 with arthritis and was snoozing in the sun.

I was inside washing up and looking out if the closed kitchen window when I saw child looking down at floor and moving strangely. I stood on tiptoes and moved to the side to get a view of child's feet and realised they were trying to step on the cat's swishing tail. I yelled "[CHILD] STOP IT, YOU DO NOT STEP ON THE CAT'S TAIL" extremely loudly through the window just as the child's foot came down on the end of cat's tail. Child jumped backwards then looked round to see who had shouted. I went and opened back door, crouched down and said "[Child] I need to talk to you" at normal volume and in a normal tone of voice but child ran off toward friend who had heard me shout and come to see what the problem was.

Friend has now got the hump and gone home because a) they don't shout and b) child claims not to have been stepping on tail. I don't usually shout either especially not at other people's DC, but child was outside, no parent in sight, windows and doors shut, and I was worried for my poor old cat and wanted to intervene fast enough to prevent a tail injury!

I am absolutely 100% certain that's what child was doing, I would never have shouted had I not been certain.

So how would anyone else have reacted?

OP posts:
aperolspritzbasicbitch · 16/04/2024 10:15

@onwardsup4 🤣 her friend getting arsey with her for raising her voice to stop a child stomping on an animals tail is pretty moronic.
She's far from being levelled and rational.

Pancakeorcrepe · 16/04/2024 10:29

Omg this would make me so angry. I would be pissed off at the friend for not stopping her child and I would go berserk at her not believing me. I would probably never want to see her again after that.

RytonTarget · 16/04/2024 10:32

I would have done exactly the same as you. Parent was not parenting at that moment and you (naturally) wanted to protect your elderly feline child.

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Coffeeismysaviour · 16/04/2024 10:34

Is this the plot of The Slap 2: the Cat's tale

See what I did there Grin

EG94 · 16/04/2024 10:40

i get on ridiculously well with my friend so I’d of probably shouted “oi you horrible little shit, do not stand on her tail or I’ll stand on you” 😂 then my friend would of come round the corner and would of said don’t stand on the cats tail or I’ll let auntie Laura stand on you. My friend knows her kids can be little sods and we wouldn’t fall out because she trusts me and vice versa. I’d say your friend is treading a dangerous path with the my kids an angel line.

PamPamPamPam · 16/04/2024 10:49

I think you handled it perfectly OP-a little scare will do the child some good and they'll think twice before behaving like that again. And your poor cat needed you to advocate for it which you did so that's nice.

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