I agree with this and the points that @Janiie makes.
Of course he’s a massive sleaze. Vile creature. And of course the spotlight should be on him.
But while the PA does clearly say no at several points, there are still plenty of fishing type messages and faux innocence. For example - telling him she has nothing on underneath her pjs. Sending him a photo of her wearing Spanx leggings and then asking him why he’s so interested in her leggings. Really?!
Plus there are plenty of indications that they’ve had a physical affair that she’s now stopped. Interesting that the only screenshots leaked are those that paint him in a poor light. I’d like to see the full conversation as I strongly suspect there are times when she shows more interest in flirty/sexual conversations.
To be clear, he’s married, she’s not. But just like Geri did, she’s had an affair with a married man. He’s also her boss. Really fucking stupid thing to do, quite aside from being immoral. Is it that hard not to shag another woman’s husband?! Maybe the mixed messages from her are why he persists - even though at other times she’s clearly saying no, she also seems to enjoy making provocative comments. And why is she regularly sending him photos of what she’s wearing?!
I think she wanted to be a “proper” girlfriend and not just a secret shag.
He’s an absolute toad but she’s not an innocent victim here. She seemed very comfortable telling him “no” at times so I’m not buying the whole “afraid to lose her job” explanation. Of course he’s the one to point the finger at, and rightly so, but she’s played her part in this continuing, imo.