@DreamTheMoors I'm so sorry to read this, it's devastating 💐 I hope my words caused no harm or offence and if they did please accept my most sincere apology because I'm a clumsy worded fucker at the best of times.
I was raped very young myself, I don't know who did it and for most of my life I blamed myself for putting myself in a vulnerable situation, I was almost 18. Only now almost 20 years later that I'm realising that nobody but him was to blame.
Bad things happen to all girls and women, regardless of their situations i appreciate that massively, my main concern has been with grooming. With your loving homelife you'd have been less likely to have been groomed than say someone like Virginia who's dad I recently (after reading this thread) I believed drove her to certain places or one of my childhood pals with absolutely inept parents were.
Rape and a long campaign of sustained sexual abuse tend of have different victim profiles with rape simply being "wrong place, wrong time" as its major factor. One off rape, as opposed to domestic rape or similar, is literally a lottery for girls and women.
Both are fucking abhorrent and the perpetrators of either need to be fed alive to lions, fuck em.
Again @DreamTheMoors, I'm sorry for your ordeal, I hope you recovered as much as you could and are healing from trauma, if like me you have those moments and you're back in time, give your 15 year old self a big hug from her pal Lwren 💐🫂