Was that for me? Definitely not, I've been to his house. But I'm very low on his list of priorities. It's work, his parents, his adult daughter, his hobbies, and his pet sheep, in that order. I am last, and he has let me down on a number of occasions when I've invited him to things, or he's said he's coming to see me, and then not let me know he's not coming till the last minute. Quite fed up with it all now. I still haven't heard from him today, and I feel like I'm going to have to make a big choice about my pregnancy. It wasn't like this when I first started going out with him, it's just deteriorated since the spring.
His daughter is another problem, as she wanted us to split up, so he told her we had over a year ago. 🤦🏻♀️ Obviously that wasn't true, which is going to cause more problems.
And yes, I'm terrified of doing this on my own, I'm autistic and I've had problems with my mental health in the past. I don't think I'd be able to cope.