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Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 28: Calmly through the day

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MissConductUS · 20/12/2023 16:59

I've started a new one. Please join us and share the boring and mundane things happening in your world. It will be calming for all.

Here is the link to the prior thread:

Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 27: Calmly through the day

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I've started a new one. Please join us and share the boring and mundane things happening in your world. It will be calming for all. Here is the link...

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Tilllly · 18/02/2024 06:48

Thanks @Mumtobabyhavoc
Black coffee pls

I had breakfast in the wide awake cafe - full English

Tilllly · 18/02/2024 06:50

Trying not to wake this little ball of fluff

Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 28: Calmly through the day
HelenaJustina · 18/02/2024 10:53

Sprouts it was 6th circle of hell warm poolside yesterday and math I find wearing my glasses helps also makes it more likely I can pick out DC2 at great distance

The weather was horrendous overnight and DH and DC had to divert off the motorway due to a closure. So DH is saying that he’ll do the full day. I’ll check in with him at lunchtime but I’ve got plenty to do at home so won’t fight too hard to take over. He’s bought a Sunday paper to peruse so will be quite happy.

Deathraystare · 18/02/2024 11:43

Had to smile at the thought of a Calgon bath! In UK Calgon is used to put in washing machines to get rid of limescale!

The talk of Roundabouts/i9slands made me smile too. I lived for a while in Essex in the UK and was told it had the most roundabouts there! Which I can well believe.

Right, first I will tell you all about my 2 fashion faux pas. Two Saturdays ago I needed to get to the launderette. It was overflowing because I had not been working = no pay. Anyway, as usual, although I got up in plenty of time, I was sitting on my bed half-dressed watching stuff on You tube. I quickly threw some jeans on and then decided to find a top. I remember putting one on a hanger and took it out. It looked a bit long but I prefer long tops. I put it on and of course, it was a night shirt! I could not be arsed to change it, so out I went, with a coat on the top.

However, while my washing was being done, I normally pop to the cafe so I did and took my coat off. I suppose it could have poses as a sort of dress but I was not unduly bothered. Years ago would have died with embarrassment, but it really is true, as you get older you really don't give a fig for what people think!

Cut to Friday morning, the day of my friend's funeral. I had a lovely gothic 'celestial' print blouse from Hell Bunny I was going to wear and I had had the presence of mind to put a black cami underneath as it was quite sheer. Only when I went to put it on, it was a knee length slip instead! Nope I did not change and did not tuck the slip in my pants either. It wasn't too bad but just looked like an extra layer. Anyway, the funeral went off fine and it was a lovely sunny day so that was alright.

Sorry to hear some people not well. There is a lot going around. @Tilllly* *does your hand shake when you have had morphine? MY friend's did. I thought it was the shock of the diagnosis but she told me it was the morphine.

I at last received my DBS. I was stopped from working while they waited at work for the form to come back. I came into work this morning, not to work but to scan it. I thought I needed to send it on to them, but on re-reading something they sent on Friday, they do not need it. However, I will keep the forms in my desk and have scanned it to myself in case anyone does actually need it. It is also safer here at work than at home as it would no doubt get lost!!

Tilllly · 18/02/2024 12:12

No @Deathraystare
In fact I've been very lucky with no side effects really

My oncologist recently increased the dose and I can feel a bit drowsy / woozy* after the liquid dose but that's all

*or as my friend says "smacked off your tits"

bizzey · 18/02/2024 14:00

thanks for the well wishes !

Feeling much better , though cough is still lingering but doesn't hurt now .

Well apart from my hip bone ???

Don't think there are any muscles in there to pull so I must have pulled/strained a layer of fat instead with all the coughing 🤣🤣!

But ....kitchen and long cupboard are sorted and back to normal....and neat !!

Not sure how long it will stay that way !

Sitting room and bathroom done...though bathroom only had a
" slap and tickle " type of clean ...not a full one !

The grouting really needs a good going over !

I want to make banana bread now !

Is it really easy ?

Deathraystare · 18/02/2024 14:06

@Tilllly that sounds great!

Oh and frozen bananas if you eat them straight from the freezer is like a ki d of 'emerge cy ice creàm'! Ɓut if you leave it too long it goes brown and mushy.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/02/2024 15:19

Bizzey, banana bread is super easy to make! I make it all the time. I may have posted my recipe here and am hapoy to do so again if you like. 😊
Helena, did you stay home and enjoy the house to yourself? I remember buying newspapers and until last year my mum got the paper delivered, but it became so thin that it wasn't worth it for the subscription price.
Death, I'm really sorry your friend passed away. 💐
You made me smile with your post otherwise and reminded me of something I just searched to share with you. I hope it makes you smile, too. 🩷😊

https://www.scottishpoetrylibrary.org.uk/poem/warning/

Warning by Jenny Joseph - Scottish Poetry Library

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple / With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me. / And...

https://www.scottishpoetrylibrary.org.uk/poem/warning/

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/02/2024 15:22

Also, Tilly, Death, blend frozen banana with some berries and yoghurt for a quick "frozen yoghurt ."

MissConductUS · 18/02/2024 15:31

Tilly, our female cat is also named Daisy. She doesn't like having her picture taken, so I usually post pictures of Mingus, our handsome ginger boy. I hope you're feeling okay today.

It was -6 C when I woke up this morning. The deep snow cover we have now is keeping things cold.

DD has gone to church with her fiancee. She wants to return to uni tonight as she has an early crew practice tomorrow that she doesn't want to miss. DH promised to make Mongolian Beef for her (one of her favorite dishes) and have an early dinner. Our future SIL is going to join us for dinner. DH and DS have just picked up cupcakes from the posh bakery for dessert, so it should be a festive meal.

My car is going to the Subaru dealer for service tomorrow, so we'll drop it off later today, and then the men will make dinner.

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HelenaJustina · 18/02/2024 16:41

I have stayed home Havoc but have the other 3DC here so not exactly to myself. I’ve cleaned the kitchen, made a veggie chilli for lunch, made the lunchboxes for tomorrow and put the bins out, I’ve provided drinks and snacks to use revising DC and dropped DC3 to 3hr gymnastics training. Sitting down for 5 minutes…

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/02/2024 17:03

Helena, oh yes ...4 dc. I forgot! How do you coordinate everything? ie activities
Math, how did you do it with 5?
🤔🤔🤔

HelenaJustina · 18/02/2024 17:13

With military precision! It would have been easier if they had the same hobbies but they each have a different sport or two so there is a lot of time spent ferrying people all over the place. DH and I can be a bit ‘passing ships’ if we are not careful to stop and connect every so often.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/02/2024 17:49

Helena, do you avoid having dc in different activities at the same time? How do you manage that, especially when they can't be left alone?
ie I want both dc in gymnastics, but both will be at age requiring parent participation. So, will have to book different days. Same with swimming. 🤷‍♀️

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/02/2024 17:53

Have made banana walnut choc chip pancakes for breakfast. Just experimented with my recipe, actually, by adding ground walnuts to batter. Put sliced bananas in pan and dolloped batter on top then dotted choc chips on top.

Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 28: Calmly through the day
HelenaJustina · 18/02/2024 18:48

So it’s much easier now they are 10-16 as all activities are drop-off. If at the same time, either DH takes one and I take another or one has to wait while I cross town to get them (eg 2 8pm pickups 2 miles apart)

When they were littler, I couldn’t afford things like baby gymnastics. We went swimming regularly to a parent and toddler session, and the instructor would take one of my DC as the example child! Or we only went in the baby pool, or at weekends when I had two adults. Or I would do baby things when the toddler was at preschool.

They did dance classes but that was drop off and from age 3. They didn’t miss out by not starting with a parent any sooner. We did toddler groups and messy play etc, most things geared towards the toddler and the baby came along for the ride!

Mumtobabyhavoc · 18/02/2024 19:32

Thanks, Helena. Good to know. 😊

bizzey · 18/02/2024 20:19

I am so very happy that I had 3 very lazy DC's who didn't want to do anything 🤣🤣!

Though I did have to ferry DS1 around to extra boosting maths things on a Saturday morning to different universities...

After the first morning a chat with his friends mum helped ...

She was always going to stay due to using the uni library...or something...and was always going to be getting a bus to the main bus stop that all of them needed .

1st time she waited ..and put Ds in his correct bus !

I said to ds ...you are doing an extra extended maths enrichment course ...surely you can read the bus numbers !

"Xx " does not need to wait till you get on the correct bus 🤣🤣!

We ended up doing 4 different universities in London..

I took him just for the time constraints...

But I always thought ...getting home is the easy part !

bizzey · 18/02/2024 20:22

Ds3 did do a Saturday drama class for a while 😮!

And got the lead role in their little performance 😮😮😮😮!

And not only learned his lines ...he had remembered everyone else's as well 😮😮😮😮😅🤣!

Someone was meant to say something to him ...forgot ...and he whispered their line to them !

Trouble is....if he takes frozen chips out of the freezer ...he forgets to put the bag back after !!

Interesting memory process !

bizzey · 18/02/2024 20:39

Mind you .... thinking 🤔🤔 about it ...my memory skills are very dubious at the moment !

I decided to do a chicken stir fry ..

I looked into my newly organised long cupboard at the new shelving units I had put up/ and re-organised....and could not see the Wok.

I thought...ohh you idiot bizzey ...you put it in the 3rd unit further in....took some stuff out ....
No ....it is just the drill and other stuff I don't need day to day ever

Turned out ...I had put it on a very accessible shelf ...right in front of me ..

But I had put it in a bag and a layer of bubble wrap so it would not get scratched 😅😅.

I think I should have made a list of what I had put where !

bizzey · 18/02/2024 20:46

@Mumtobabyhavoc ...I would be very interested in you recipe if /when you have time .

What nuts could I put in it ?

DS has weight issues and he is on a nut protein thing at the moment .

I am adding extra carbs and calories to his food ....but he is obsessed with protein at the moment .

Could I add some normal peanuts
?crushed/ground ?

Or a spoonful or 2 of peanut butter to the mixture ?

I have a machine ince I have worked out how to use it !

And a loaf tin ...not sure on size .

It might be something he would nibble at .

Lemonsandlemonade · 18/02/2024 21:44

Miss C what is Mongolian beef?

Havic - pancakes look amazing .

Bizzey - peanut butter pancakes made me think of these https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/peanut-butter-pancakes.

DS is better but extremely tired and finding self settling a challenge.

Back to work tomorrow -

Peanut butter pancakes recipe | BBC Good Food

Try pancakes with a sweet, crunchy peanut butter sauce – perfect for Pancake Day, a weekend brunch or even dessert

https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/peanut-butter-pancakes

bizzey · 18/02/2024 22:22

Lemonds ...thank you ..I have added it to my home screen... which seems to be full of recipes for ds !

I am not a cook ...but apart from maple syrup...I think I have got all the others. 😮😅.

Earlier Ds wanted to know why I had switched to low sodium salt...

I said sodium is not good for the heart...

He said ....there is nothing wrong with my heart ...
😞🤔😀😅🤣🤣!

I looked at him and said ....
Sweetheart....you have had more cardiology appointments in the last year than your grandmother who has diagnosed heart problems and angina !

I should have just transferred it to a pot and he wouldn't have known it was the low sodium stuff !

He then went on about the benefits of sodium....🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Penguinsa · 18/02/2024 22:29

Lovely fluffy ball Tilllly Hope you are feeling OK.

Lovely food as always Havoc

Glad DBs came through Death

Cleaned and sorted the kitchen and dining room, and watched One Day on Netflix. Labelled endo tests.

mathanxiety · 19/02/2024 00:24

Havoc - living close to the school for middle school age sports helped a lot. They had practices and home games for the various sports in different seasons at home (basketball and volleyball) and carpooling was fantastic for sports requiring travel to pitches (soccer) and to away games for b-ball and volleyball. My car seated eight, so I often just dropped off or picked up a large number of kids and their bags of equipment. It was interesting being the fly on the wall/ behind the wheel.

I discouraged soccer all the same, as it was very time-consuming, outdoors in uncertain weather, and half the pitches were a good distance away. There was a lot of carpooling for parties too, especially parties at places like Monkey Island or paintballing venues.

For high school sports, getting them to the school for early morning practices wasn't fun, but carpooling made a big difference. Between them all, they did swimming, water polo, badminton, and football. For home meets, they stayed in school and played whenever the opponents showed up in their busses, and for away meets, they boarded busses and sallied forth. I picked them up whenever they got home (usually 9-10pm), or they got a lift.

I moved closer to the high school when the three youngest were going, and they could walk to and from practices and games.

When they were small, they did swimming lessons in the public pools in summer, and I went to the baby pool with the baby of the day. I also did swim and gym at the YMCA with DCs 1 and 2. Baby DC2 (and DC3 in turn) slept in the carseat poolside while I helped DC1 (and later DC2) in the pool but at age 4 the kids were expected to be in the water by themselves with the teacher and staff. I don't remember doing the YMCA with DCs 4 and 5. Probably too busy.

We did ice skating too - that was a massive pita because lessons were too short to drop off and run, so I spent more time finding a place to park, hoisting small children and babies out of car seats, walking to the rink and getting skates on than the lessons themselves. I have vivid memories of sitting on the cold metal bleachers trying to keep DD3 from killing herself for half an hour while DD2 'learned the snowplough stop' out on the ice, and the horror of realising DD3 was chewing a mouthful of gum she had found stuck to the floor. She had an unerring eye for gum. She was also the one who liked to eat sand.

T-ball was a fun family sport, played on school fields, so younger siblings could amuse themselves on the school playgrounds while the games went on. They all played baseball or softball after T-ball - same fields, same playgrounds, and as the years went by, same families. It was nice to take the folding chairs and spend two hours nattering with teammates' parents. We always started off the season bundled in winter coats and ended up sharing sunscreen.