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How old were you when your periods stopped

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NCTDN · 23/11/2023 07:34

Just curious as I'm 51 and they're still regular.

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Lexiconofloveliness · 23/11/2023 11:35

I was 54 when I had my last one. I'd been on the pill due to PCOS and periods had pretty much disappeared. I stopped taking it during lockdown at 51 and periods came back but were erratic. I went six months without one but then had a few but they just stopped and am nearly 18 months free of them. It's a joy as I started at 12.

MadamVastra · 23/11/2023 11:40

I was about 43 or so when I started hrt and didn't have periods for a few years then they came back sporadically. Last April like a few pp have said I had the most horrendous flooding periods that lasted weeks and and had a week or two free then flooding again with pain, I had previously never had this. After that I have not had anymore so I hope
thats it! I am 51. I also changed my hrt from utrogestan to provera and I feel that suits me better as well

MadamVastra · 23/11/2023 11:42

Also if you stop before 50 it's 2 years without a period before you are considered menopausal, over 50 it's 1 year

well that's my understanding anyway

steppemum · 23/11/2023 11:48

Thank you for this thread.
I am 56.
I have no idea where I am on the menopause trail becuase I have been on the mirena coil for years and years. My mum stopped in her early 50s.

I have actually just started a thread asking - how do I know if I am post menopausal or not?

How do I know if I can still get pregnant.
I am not encouraged by those saying that they were still having periods aged 58!

NCTDN · 23/11/2023 11:49

I'll not sure that I'm glad I asked ! 51 isn't that old then and I really hoped the end was in sightGrin

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billycat321 · 23/11/2023 11:51

Periods stopped at 50. I suppose I had a menopause. Too busy with a special needs 7 year old son to notice!

CharlotteBog · 23/11/2023 11:54

MadamVastra · 23/11/2023 11:42

Also if you stop before 50 it's 2 years without a period before you are considered menopausal, over 50 it's 1 year

well that's my understanding anyway

I have never come across the 1 or 2 year distinction. Where did you hear this?

EmpressSoleil · 23/11/2023 12:00

Hopefully 54! That's how old I am now. Last period was in June so still some months till I'm "official" although they had slowed down for a year or two before that, so every 2-3 months instead of every month.

I really, really hope this it! During peri they have been awful. So so heavy and painful. I will be ecstatic if I never have another one.

RuthW · 23/11/2023 12:00

They were 7 months apart for 2 yrs

doublec · 23/11/2023 12:02

A few months before my 44th birthday. Haven't had one since - am 49 in a few months time.

My older sister is 52 and is still menstruating regularly.

Toolongtohols · 23/11/2023 12:04

CharlotteBog · 23/11/2023 11:18

I hope this doesn't jinx things for me.

I am 53. Last period was in April. I'm really hoping I can go for the whole 12 months needed to put me into menopause rather than perimenopause.
I know of more than a few people who got to 9 or 10 months period free and then BOOM - the mother of all periods arrived, as if their womb was having one final clear out, AND you have to start the clock again.

I have had a couple of years of irregular periods (long gaps, short gaps, painful, barely nothing - just annoying really). Symptoms are manageable atm - phases of night sweats and hot flushes, poor sleep, I've always been highly strung and emotional and latterly had a period of circumstance-related depression so it's hard to know whether stuff like crying with frustration at things being moving in the supermarket is hormone related, just being tired, or just being me (busy lone parent and sandwich filling).

I do tonnes of exercise which I know doesn't mean I'll avoid meno problems, but it definitely helps me emotionally.

I know a few people that had that mega period and that was the last one . For me it was the penultimate one 🤞

doublec · 23/11/2023 12:05

MadamVastra · 23/11/2023 11:42

Also if you stop before 50 it's 2 years without a period before you are considered menopausal, over 50 it's 1 year

well that's my understanding anyway

Absolutely this, hence the many surprise babies in women's 40s. I believe that contraception is advised even in one's 50s if still menstruating.

Jewelspun · 23/11/2023 12:08

adriftabroad · 23/11/2023 11:33

Those saying they cannot wait for them to end.

Be careful what you wish for.

I had no problems with my periods until I was in my late thirties. I had started my periods when I was 9 a couple of months before I was 10.

When I was 39/40 my period were regular but became very heavy. So heavy that on the first day of each one I would soak through a pad in seconds. I never used tampons.

I would have to book the day off work for the first day of my period each month if it fell on a week day. It didn't work out too badly as I would start on a Saturday or Sunday. The first day was just constant flooding.

This went on for a few years with the NHS being absolutely useless and I paid for a private consultation and he wanted to push a Mirena coil on me and I said no way. I had an hysteroscopy but nothing untoward was found.

Then I got an Ovarian cyst which got to a certain size and was rapidly growing and they decided to take it out and at the same time give me an ablation.

The cyst had shrunk when they operated and that's a different story but the ablation was truly one of the best things to happen in my life. No more periods. I got my freedom back and no more sitting in the loo for ages just bleeding out once a month.

So yes some of us are pleased our wish came true.

doublec · 23/11/2023 12:08

Frostine · 23/11/2023 08:19

Had a natural early menopause 39 . I wasn't offered hrt and because the symptoms of it wasn't too bad , so therefore did not ask to go on them.
Sadly I now have clitoral atrophy ( it's basically shrivelled away to nothing ) and I'd hate to think what my bone density is like, so I kind of feel I was failed by my gp at the time who should have suggested I went on it .

Never too late for Vagifem if you're suffering with vaginal atrophy. Absolutely brilliant stuff. My oncologist practically mentioned it in his first breath during our first appointment. (Was actually already using it anyway, so know how restorative it is).

SingingSands · 23/11/2023 12:10

Mine started spacing out (only 4 a year) at 36 and then stopped at 40.

Turns out I had a pituitary tumour, and now I'm back to having periods - horrible, heavy, with much shorter cycles meaning I'm on my 14th period this year.

Wish I could stop for good.

WhatWouldJeevesDo · 23/11/2023 12:13

I’m 56 and they are irregular but I know I’m about to have another. Apart from anything else, the night sweats have stopped for the moment and I’m sleeping through the night.

Barleymilk · 23/11/2023 12:14

I'm 52 and had my last one in June, I'm hoping that's it.

maddiemookins16mum · 23/11/2023 12:15

I was 58. 44 years of it was enough.

doublec · 23/11/2023 12:15

Londontown12 · 23/11/2023 08:45

I’m 47 and on the hrt patch everol sequi so still having regular periods will this affect when menopause hits and how will I know my natural cycle has stopped will it stop on the patches ?
sorry so many questions x

Because eventually your periods will stop for good. This is menopause. You're still in perimenopause, a transition phase that can last anywhere from a few months to a decade.

HRT isn't responsible for the continuation of your periods, and if you stopped, they would still continue until whatever time your body is ready to stop. This will be when your ovaries are no longer releasing eggs (your FSH levels will be sky high at this point). As no eggs are released, then progesterone won't be produced either. Your oestrogen levels would have declined too, although interestingly, this could be the last part of the equation to go haywire. But ultimately, it's a combination of all these hormones.

SmokeyToo · 23/11/2023 12:21
  1. After several years of horrendous, erratic, heavy periods that went on forever. Wish I'd been smart enough to demand a hysterectomy!!
charabang · 23/11/2023 12:22

I was 50. They just stopped. No erratic patterns; just stopped. I was very fortunate and haven't suffered from any menopause symptoms apart from a 6 month period of time leading up to my periods stopping when I felt complete and utter exhaustion. Now 56 and very happy to be done with all that.

Boiledeggandtoast · 23/11/2023 12:25

Mine stopped at 54 and I was delighted as I'd had 10 years of torrential bleeding, flooding and severe anaemia in the run-up. I'm 62 now and although I still get hot flushes and have to get up in the night for the loo, I never felt as well as I do now when I was having periods. Good luck to all those still in the throes of periods, in my experience they are literally a bloody nuisance.

adriftabroad · 23/11/2023 12:27

doublec · 23/11/2023 12:15

Because eventually your periods will stop for good. This is menopause. You're still in perimenopause, a transition phase that can last anywhere from a few months to a decade.

HRT isn't responsible for the continuation of your periods, and if you stopped, they would still continue until whatever time your body is ready to stop. This will be when your ovaries are no longer releasing eggs (your FSH levels will be sky high at this point). As no eggs are released, then progesterone won't be produced either. Your oestrogen levels would have declined too, although interestingly, this could be the last part of the equation to go haywire. But ultimately, it's a combination of all these hormones.

If you are on sequential you keep having "periods".
They are withdrawal bleeds like the pill.

Not real periods.

I am 53, 10 years post menopause and still have these types of"periods" as also on sequential.

I do not like continuous. It is not as safe or as body identical.

JFT · 23/11/2023 12:29

adriftabroad · 23/11/2023 10:15

45 menopause.
Last period at 43. Just stopped.

53 now and definitely eat a third of what I did 10 years ago.

Just not as hungry and have completely gone off anything unhealthy (and meat)

Same weight. Always have been.

Are you on any HRT?

I'm 53 with no signs of menopause yet (ie still regular cycle and no hot flushes or anything) and my mum didn't have her's til age 56.

I'm having major surgery and hysterectomy next week. So I'll go straight into surgical menopause. I know menstrual cycle affects my hunger as I get ravenously hungry / binge eating in the week before bleeding starts. I'd be glad to get rid of that but if HRT helps then I'll be asking for it.

doublec · 23/11/2023 12:31

adriftabroad · 23/11/2023 12:27

If you are on sequential you keep having "periods".
They are withdrawal bleeds like the pill.

Not real periods.

I am 53, 10 years post menopause and still have these types of"periods" as also on sequential.

I do not like continuous. It is not as safe or as body identical.

I took the same HRT patches as you until I went to see an actual specialist - I actually know a fuck of a lot about HRT, patches, menopause, perimenopause etc. etc. etc, far more so than any GP I have seen.

It's your FHS levels which will be most indicative of whether you've reached menopause or not. And once your periods stop, they move you over to Everol Conti...

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