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Noshowlomo · 21/11/2023 16:11

@WaitingImpatiently74 I’m sending you and your family all my love. This must be the worst time for you all xx

nocoolnamesleft · 21/11/2023 16:12

WaitingImpatiently74 · 21/11/2023 16:02

Please stop guessing. One of the boys is related to me and people guessing what is/has happened is rather unpleasant and unnecessary. The aim of this thread was to raise awareness not to speculate.

I'm sure most on here are hoping/praying for the best. Thinking of you, and all the families.

TickingTocking · 21/11/2023 16:13

And the fucking emojis. This is real life, not time for emojis. I’ll never forget on the NB thread a sicko posting ‘this is getting interesting’ with the eyes emoji. A real low.

NettleTea · 21/11/2023 16:13

WaitingImpatiently74 · 21/11/2023 16:02

Please stop guessing. One of the boys is related to me and people guessing what is/has happened is rather unpleasant and unnecessary. The aim of this thread was to raise awareness not to speculate.

Im really sorry you are going through this

DugInLikeAnAlabamaTick · 21/11/2023 16:14

what is NB?

penjil · 21/11/2023 16:15

ThickSkinnedSoWhat · 21/11/2023 15:52

Unless this came from a reputable and confirmed source, please do not post conspiracy theories like this.

What makes it a "conspiracy theory" because it's not come from a major news article?

LondonLass91 · 21/11/2023 16:15

NoraBattysCurlers · 21/11/2023 15:58

I think it's a bit inappropriate of one of their girlfriend's parents even speaking to the media.

I agree. Unfortunately, some cannot resist their opportunity for fifteen minutes of fame.

I absolutely agree, I thought how bad that was when I read it.

thelittlestrhino · 21/11/2023 16:16

DugInLikeAnAlabamaTick · 21/11/2023 16:14

what is NB?

Nicola Bulley, the poor woman that drowned at the start of the year.

Stephisaur · 21/11/2023 16:16

DugInLikeAnAlabamaTick · 21/11/2023 16:14

what is NB?

Nicola Bulley (the woman who drowned in the river earlier this year)

LondonLass91 · 21/11/2023 16:16

I really feel for their families, it must be tortuous x praying for good news.

grass67 · 21/11/2023 16:17

People will always talk and speculate, i's human nature. It's especially disturbing when you have teenage boys of your own.

There was a fatality in my village, two young boys racing, they closed the village down completely, but of course everyone knew and it was all over Facebook, long before any announcement.

It's tragic and my thoughts have definitely been with the families today. i'd love to be wrong and for a happy ending.

Stephisaur · 21/11/2023 16:17

@WaitingImpatiently74 I am so sorry that you and your family are going through this Flowers

DogInATent · 21/11/2023 16:17

I think it's a bit inappropriate of one of their girlfriend's parents even speaking to the media.

The utter naivety of MumsNetters not understanding how the tabloid/gutter press works and how they get these statements.

ThickSkinnedSoWhat · 21/11/2023 16:18

penjil · 21/11/2023 16:15

What makes it a "conspiracy theory" because it's not come from a major news article?

I did not mention a major news article. I mentioned a reputable and confirmed source, such as the authorities.

SofiYol · 21/11/2023 16:18

LondonLass91 · 21/11/2023 16:15

I absolutely agree, I thought how bad that was when I read it.

Did she speak to the media, or was she commenting on the police post clarifying information when the boys were classed as missing?

One family member has already found this thread, maybe it should be left now. The majority of posters have been respectful but there is an undertone of judgement, speculation and posters saying what those close to the boys should and shouldn’t be doing. It leaves a really bad taste in the mouth.

longlostauthor · 21/11/2023 16:19

DogInATent · 21/11/2023 16:17

I think it's a bit inappropriate of one of their girlfriend's parents even speaking to the media.

The utter naivety of MumsNetters not understanding how the tabloid/gutter press works and how they get these statements.

precisely - I doubt she approached the media to make a comment. She was likely put on the spot and had no idea what was best to do / say and so was honest and human.

VivaDixie · 21/11/2023 16:23

@WaitingImpatiently74 I am sending my love and hope for a positive outcome xx Flowers

lesdeluges · 21/11/2023 16:24

I wish those who think the discussion should be closed down would not click on the thread, and just ignore it.

For the rest, most of us are interested, concerned and wishing/hoping that this has a good outcome. Of course there will be speculation, comment and judgment etc. but that is the nature of discourse on an open forum like this.

It is human nature to be curious.

LydiaTomos · 21/11/2023 16:25

So sad. Four bodies have been found according to North Wales Police.

GinAndJuice99 · 21/11/2023 16:26

Confirmed now. Tragic news.

SofiYol · 21/11/2023 16:26

@lesdeluges did you miss the part where a family member has commented stating that the point of the thread was to raise awareness this morning and asking for the comments and speculation to stop?

Does your wish to “discuss” trump their request?

LydiaTomos · 21/11/2023 16:26

Sadly, we can confirm four bodies have been recovered from a car which appears to have left the road on the A4085 at Garreg, near Tremadog.

Supt Owain Llewelyn said: “At present, this appears to have been a tragic accident, and our thoughts are with the family and friends of the four young men at this very difficult time.

“This has been an extensive search involving a number of different agencies and volunteers, and this is sadly not the outcome that any of us would have wanted. We would ask that the family be afforded the appropriate privacy and respect.”

Investigations are ongoing to establish the circumstances that led to the car leaving the road.

fashionqueen1183 · 21/11/2023 16:27

So sorry for their families. Just awful

lollipoprainbow · 21/11/2023 16:27

Oh lads 💔💔💔

SheIsStuck23 · 21/11/2023 16:28

I feel so sad, what an incredibly awful tragedy. My thoughts go out to all their families, I can’t even imagine the heartbreak they must all be in. RIP to all of the boys xx

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