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Is there any chance of a single woman getting a 2 bed housing association house ?

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loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 20:39

I'm 35 and I'm currently in a 1 bed flat on band 3 (general needs )
I've been on housing list for 7 years now (same housing list my flats with )
I'm bidding on 2 bed houses and getting up to 20th position
Sometimes 15th ish
Do you think I'm wasting my time ?
What's the chances of me getting a 2 bed house ?

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EmeraldTheSeahorse · 26/10/2023 22:15

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 22:09

I wonder those in social housing who agree that people without children should only be allowed 1 bed.
So when your kids turn 18 and move off for uni etc ... you and your partner can leave your rented accommodation house (as you don't need it now ) and move into a 1 bed flat ?
Obviously those in social housing only

Yes they do! My council say 3 people can live in a one bed without classing it as overcrowded

ActDottie · 26/10/2023 22:15

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 20:43

It's because I'm in a upstairs flat
I hate it
Doesn't feel like home
I would love a house
Through housing association is the only way I can ever afford it

Then rent privately.

My husband and I rented a teeny tiny upstairs flat (300 sq ft) for years to save for a house on the private rental market.

If you want a house then make it happen by bettering your career prospects and saving for it.

NeverHadHaveHas · 26/10/2023 22:15

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 21:51

These properties are advertised and if you bid and come highest your offered it.
So if I do bid and get it ...it's because I'm higher than the other person.
So I'm not taking it away from another person.
They have properties weekly specifically for band 1 who are homeless -they never go on the website as they are allocated directly to those in need.
Loads of viewings I've been too only a few turn up
Just unfortunately they've been ahead of me on the list

It’s ‘you’re’ not ‘your’.
If you’re going to be snarky about spelling, sort your own out.

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OnlyFoolsnMothers · 26/10/2023 22:16

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 22:09

I wonder those in social housing who agree that people without children should only be allowed 1 bed.
So when your kids turn 18 and move off for uni etc ... you and your partner can leave your rented accommodation house (as you don't need it now ) and move into a 1 bed flat ?
Obviously those in social housing only

Well yes that’s why we had the bedroom tax introduced.

Bedrooms are for sleeping residents of the home. People actually expect a housing form to ask after your hobbies “oh you like sewing, now where will you put that sewing machine let’s allocate you another room”….lord and they say people are entitled!

SleepingStandingUp · 26/10/2023 22:16

I'm surprised you're eligible to bid on them OP, have you checked the eligibility criteria? 2 bed houses are like gold here and are usually solely used to decant families from flats into.

Might be worth looking at mutual exchanges? Or a ground floor flat in a different area?

Comedycook · 26/10/2023 22:16

funbags3 · 26/10/2023 22:14

Everyone deserves decent living conditions whether you're single or have a family. Unfortunately, housing in the UK is dire.
From what you've said, just keep bidding. You'd never get one in the area I live but you might very well get lucky.

Yes everyone deserves decent living conditions. I'm not sure if the definition of decent living conditions constitutes having a guest bedroom?

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 22:16

@NeverHadHaveHas I'm only sarky with people who have a shitty attitude towards people and social housing

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PortalooSunset · 26/10/2023 22:17

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 22:10

@Comedycook you clearly have an issue with it
My housing association thankfully doesn't
It's just a matter of how long you wait
I'm hoping it's not much longer

Why did you start the thread then @loandbeholdd? You've clearly already decided you know what the answer is Confused

Turmerictolly · 26/10/2023 22:17

It sounds like you are moving up the list slowly over time. Position 15-20 sounds very good. In most local authorities you wouldn't be entitled to a 2 bed as a single person but it sounds like your LA works things differently and perhaps doesn't have the huge housing demand that a lot of other authorities have. You just have to be patient.

housedramas · 26/10/2023 22:18

I work in the sector. Unless something comes up that they literally cannot give away, at which point you'll be assessed for affordability anyway, you have zero chance. You'll get to the top of the shortlist and they'll just skip you and keep skipping you. Too many families in TA or overcrowded at the moment.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 26/10/2023 22:18

Honestly OP I don’t think you should stop at a 2 bed house- go the whole hog and put your name on the social housing list for a mansion, you deserve it!

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 22:19

@Turmerictolly I think If I was in London /the south I would never have even got a flat /bedsit
Im keeping everything crossed
I know it's a really long process

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SleepingStandingUp · 26/10/2023 22:20

cocksstrideintheevening · 26/10/2023 21:33

I own my own home, have twins in a two bed. I'd love to go on the list and get a 3 bed but you know, real life not a fucking chance.

I don't think you should get a two bed op, perhaps a different one bed but you don't need a two bed.

You can go on the list, you just need to go into rented accommodation. Of course people with private homes can't go on the list. Why would they house you so you can rent your house out to someone else?

If there's a ton of two beds which they struggle to let, they may well give them to single people who are paying full rent rather than people who's get hit by the bedroom tax. It all depends on what's abundant. If the criteria states single people, X, Y, Z then op has as much right to apply as anyone else on the list.

Lifeetc · 26/10/2023 22:21

@loandbeholdd
I didn't have a shitty attitude with you.you took it how you wanted.
I explained my housing situation.

housedramas · 26/10/2023 22:22

Register on homeswapper too, this might help you move to a nicer area/bigger flat maybe?

PumpkiPie · 26/10/2023 22:22

Comedycook · 26/10/2023 22:16

Yes everyone deserves decent living conditions. I'm not sure if the definition of decent living conditions constitutes having a guest bedroom?

A few weeks ago someone on here thought it was reasonable that their retired parents in a 3 bed HA had a guest room and a crafts room ffs because "they had worked hard" so why should they downsize.

The op is no different to those living in HA where their family has long flown the nest but feel like they need spare bedrooms. The whole system is a joke, we don't need to build more houses, we need a good reshuffle.

Lifeetc · 26/10/2023 22:22

Ohh.nooooooo I should have used a capital letter and didn't I do hope you understand with my terrible error

loandbeholdd · 26/10/2023 22:24

@Lifeetc you posted a picture of a £100,000 house
When I had clearly stated I couldn't afford private rent hence looking for social housing
So please don't pretend that was you being helpful ....

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Turmerictolly · 26/10/2023 22:24

That is certainly true, only the most vulnerable are being rehoused in London (usually after a very long stint in a hotel room or single room in a shared house). It's pretty grim. A lot of local authorities send people to the north to be rehoused as they have more availability. It might not feel like it, but you are in a very lucky position.

uncomfortablydumb53 · 26/10/2023 22:24

I never use this word but you're sounding entitled and unappreciative
HA tenancies are secure and with no DC you are not entitled to a 2 bed except in rare cases of medical need( for example Home dialysis)

sadeyedladyofthelowlandsea · 26/10/2023 22:24

LaurieStrode · 26/10/2023 21:07

Rolling my eyes at the mean remarks to OP.

She hasn't saddled society with kids she can't afford to raise, so she should content herself with any scraps. But the "families " are oh-so-deserving of larger and better dwellings.

Just another example of rewarding the least prudent among us.

Funnily enough, had I foreseen 20yrs ago that I'd end up unable to continue in my very high-paying job owing to severe PND, and that my exP would turn out to be a violent, abusive arsehole who left me & the DC homeless & penniless, I might have been a bit more 'prudent' too.

But don't forget to hoik your judgeypants just that bit higher up your arse crack. Believe me, the mild discomfort you'll feel is nothing compared to what we went through - and none of that was the fault of my DC. They didn't deserve less than what I've had to fight for for them.

They have at least turned out to be wonderful, decent, compassionate people.

funbags3 · 26/10/2023 22:25

@Comedycook I completely understand where you're coming from.
I live in a 2 up 2 down. My daughters share a room. One of them has DS and really ought to have her own bedroom with her disability. I consider myself lucky to even have a roof over my head though. It's almost impossible to get social housing where I'm from.

Canisaysomething · 26/10/2023 22:26

I honestly hate not having a room for visiting friends etc

Point them to the nearest air b n b like the rest of us. You are living in a dream world OP. I don’t know a single friend (40 now) who has ever been able to afford to live by themselves, let alone live by themselves and have a spare room.

Ladyj84 · 26/10/2023 22:26

Be careful of swap 2 friends did and big mistake for both they ended up loaning to move asap to a private rent there's usually a reason swaps are wanted. I doubt you will ever get a house thru council,home finder,housing association and will always be bidding tbh

2023shady · 26/10/2023 22:26

Lifeetc · 26/10/2023 22:01

I genuinely do not understand how you can work full time and have no children but can't afford the rent of £500 pcm.

I work FT
My mortgage and service charges are £600pm
Add on everything else from gas, electric, contents insurance, internet, car insurance, food, petrol etc and my bills including food come in at around £1575. Yes I'm paying off some debt but everything has gone up
Living alone and paying a mortgage on min wage is pretty tough sometimes

Last month after paying everything I had £5 left. People will say oh well you've paid everything but that was it, there was no money for a cinema trip or even enough for a bath bomb and I was "I've worked 40hrs a week to.. exist"

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