Welcome, @TattyOne, and thanks for sharing your mundane cat, washing, and horrid landlord news. Apologies to any other newcomer I've missed. The thread is moving very fast, and I'm in a spin about all of the wedding issues at the moment.
Cookie, the wedding planning turned a bit rough today. The place we went to visit was very run down. Neither the WP or I would recommend it to DD. Then DH found out that the place he and WP had planned to visit next Tuesday is not available on DD's date. They had mistakenly told DD that it was. They do have a smaller facility on the same property, but it would require cuts to the guest list as it can only seat 115 people. Of course, her fiancee's family massively took the piss with their list, so they can make the cuts needed without touching our list or the friends the couple wants to invite. The WP still has a few other places to look at.
To answer your question about the venue, they want a church ceremony, with the reception someplace rustic. We hadn't thought of a hotel as there aren't many that are suitable in the area. We live in an area called The Hudson Highlands that is borderline suburban and rural, with more rural as you get further north. Because the area is quite historic there are some nice places to have the reception, but DD's timeline for next June is very tight. She's been as stubborn as a mule quite set on the date, but she may have to reconsider, given how limiting it's turning out to be.