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Why is Rebecca Loos the villian still, she wasn't the one who was married!

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Longingforthesummer · 05/10/2023 15:04

I remember at the time how DB came out of it all smelling of roses and remember Loos said she has no choice but to tell her side of the truth. She's still the villian and he's still come out of it smelling sweet!!!

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StaunchMomma · 05/10/2023 21:06

I hate the narrative of the OW 'not being the married one' - it's an absolute cop out for really shitty behaviour.

I do think he got an easy ride but that doesn't mean Loos deserved it easy at all. She knew what she was doing and she milked her 5 minutes all the way to pig jizz! Lovely woman 🙄

LadyBird1973 · 05/10/2023 21:40

I had forgotten that RL was the family's PA - that was a real betrayal

AhNowTed · 05/10/2023 21:45

I well remember Sharon Osborne telling her to "keep her knickers on" on national TV.

This from the woman who sold her children's childhood and privacy to the highest bidder.

Just like the Beckhams.

OneFrenchEgg · 05/10/2023 23:10

To a pp I read a comment that theorised they were doing the documentary to seem more relatable as the kids weren't doing so well in carrying on the fame game. Which made me laugh.

DysonSpheres · 05/10/2023 23:33

To be a bit fairer to Loos, this was during the absolute height of Kiss and Tell and fixation with footballers wives. And every other bottom-basement 'glamour model' was on the make with stories about a footballer, celebrity, MP they'd slept or had affairs with. It was seem as almost virtuous at the time, spun as if Kiss 'N' Tell girls were performing some sort of national service to the country.

I'm not actually sure if those - what, a couple of decades? - were a better time for women in the media than now or not🤔. Certainly you could argue that, for the first time, notice was taken not just of powerful men, but the women associated with them, and who inhabited their worlds, regardless of the status of those women. Liz Hurley as Hugh Grants very attractive plus one became big, as did equally, for a short time Divine Brown the prostitute he was caught with. Divine, made good on the money for a while. Objectively, it was a good time for mistresses and 'fast' women.

Loos simply capitulated on that. You could argue that she was always going to be used for sex and then dumped, but convinced herself it was going to be more and wanted renumeration for the hurt. These days you hear about many women (and men) being shut up by NDA's and/or pay-off's and a lot doesn't come to the light. Is that good or bad? Does it empower women with little status or disempower them?

I personally despise affairs and OW. But, taking traditional morality out of it, if true, David was willing to risk a huge public mess and very public humiliation of his wife for a few shags. The Beckhams learned from it. Their image is very tightly controlled now.

There are rumours he still cheats, but I have no idea if these are anything other than Tittle Tattle.

StowOnTheWold · 06/10/2023 00:53

tothelefttotheleft · 05/10/2023 20:36

How would she have earned money? She wouldn't be employed as a nanny ( was she a nanny?) again.

Rebecca Loos married a Norwegian doctor had kids and is living her best life in Norway.

Victoria has David. Sharon has Ozzy.

I think Rebecca has the happiest ending.

GodDammitCecil · 06/10/2023 01:07

The second mistake she made was using it as an opportunity to turn herself into a reality tv star.

I don’t think she sees that as a mistake. In fact, quite the opposite. Without her reality TV stint, she wouldn’t be happily married to her husband, with two kids.

MiddleParking · 06/10/2023 03:09

griegwithhimandhim · 05/10/2023 18:47

Of course not. When one moves in certain social circles, one keeps one's trap firmly shut.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 dear God

RosaKim · 06/10/2023 03:13

I do feel for RL. He had so much more power than her. I do think she probably regrets some of the graphic details though - didn’t she reveal the size of his penis?

panelbottle · 06/10/2023 05:47

because she sold her storyThere was no need to do that

Perhaps it was going to come out & she wanted to control the narrative a bit or make some money as her career would be over.
Of course she capitalised on it after she could hardly go back to what she was doing. Obviously going with a married man is wrong but things are never black & white.

Highandlows · 06/10/2023 07:11

Horrible woman. Any hate towards was self inflicted. I do not have sympathy for her. I loathe people who sell stories to the press. They can go down very quickly.

griegwithhimandhim · 06/10/2023 09:00

MiddleParking · 06/10/2023 03:09

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 dear God

It is true though - when you know what you know but can't say so, sometimes threads like this can be very frustrating.
Never mind.😂

panelbottle · 06/10/2023 09:13

Tbf he was gorgeous at that time, I would have likely not said no!

Minesril · 06/10/2023 09:39

Was there ever any proof that it actually happened?

Didn't Victoria wear a gorgeous corset dress thing when it first came out. As someone who also rarely smiles I've always quite liked her.

NameChangePoP · 06/10/2023 09:42

Octobermeterreadtime · 05/10/2023 15:11

She can't claim any glory when she wanked off a pig... And I don't mean DB..

Utterly brilliant comment, and so true! 😂

Toooop · 06/10/2023 09:44

There was a picture of them sitting in a bar together looking very close, the pic is on the DM I think. I know it's not proof but it looked a bit too intimate.

MiddleParking · 06/10/2023 09:45

griegwithhimandhim · 06/10/2023 09:00

It is true though - when you know what you know but can't say so, sometimes threads like this can be very frustrating.
Never mind.😂

Are the things you know but can’t say so in the room with us right now?

panelbottle · 06/10/2023 09:57

Didn't Victoria wear a gorgeous corset dress thing when it first came out. As someone who also rarely smiles I've always quite liked her.

Was that the black dress when they were posing for photos? I remember watching her on TV & I thought it was true because of her body language. She was incredibly twitchy & nervous. They didn't sue her or the papers.

panelbottle · 06/10/2023 09:59

If it wasn't true they would have denied it on the doc but they skirted around it.

TrashedSofa · 06/10/2023 10:27

Boudicasbeard · 05/10/2023 20:50

I think it was the betrayal that made her come off as a bitch. She wasn’t some random he met in a club- she was the family PA so had a relationship with David and Victoria and the children. She was in a position of absolute trust and sold VB out to the papers for a pay day. She revealed lots of intimate chats they’d had and really stuck the boot.

So I find it impossible to have any sympathy with her. He was the married one but she was also part of their household and knew VB.

I reckon she imagined that she had grand plans to be the next Mrs Beckham and the spiteful interviews and selling her story were here revenge.

This, plus I wouldn't say he came out of it smelling of roses either. Even with his no doubt expert and very expensive PR, people knew what had happened.

For someone who was as much of an arsehole as she was, RL did pretty well out of it.

DeclineandFall · 06/10/2023 10:54

I wasn't v keen on the Spice Girls or VB but I remember watching a documentary about VB back in the day with my friend and thinking she was lovely and feeling sorry for her as the few interactions she and DB had on camera he came across as a nasty arsehole that played on her insecurities. So I've liked her since then. Him not.
RL is just another young girl who got involved with a powerful man who then threw her to the wolves and she decided to make a few bob out of it. Doesn't make her great but makes him look worse.

AllWeWantToDo · 06/10/2023 14:12

She was 26 , hardly a young girl

Toooop · 06/10/2023 17:58

Reminds me of the Imogen Thomas and Ryan Giggs affair.

ChChChCherryBomb · 06/10/2023 18:00

PurpleMonkeys · 05/10/2023 15:16

I'm sorry to say it, I am an abhorrent person, but if someone shags someone when they know that person is married, they're as big of a cunt as the married person.

They may not owe the married persons partner loyalty etc, but they're still 50% to blame for the shagging going on.

Couldn’t agree more!

AhNowTed · 06/10/2023 19:40

@ChChChCherryBomb

Doesn't explain why SHE'S still seen as the villain, and HE'S gotten away with playing happy families, brand Beckham making millions, and courting a knighthood for all its worth.

But hey, didn't he queue for the queen 🙄.