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Shocked193731 · 08/09/2023 21:29

My friend who is 8 months pregnant had to get the train somewhere earlier this week. She walked down the whole aisle, obviously very visibly heavily pregnant, and not one person offered her a seat. After then standing around, eventually somebody - who was sitting on a window seat (!!!) - gave it up to her.

Visibly pregnant, in this very hot weather, and she said that everybody just chose to ignore her. Not only does this make me sad but also really angry.

Please, if you can and you see a pregnant woman struggling, give your seat to her without hesitation.

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Donotshushme · 09/09/2023 06:11

Hasn't she got a tongue in her head?

She needs to be a big girl and ask for a seat. I've had twins. I got to the point i could barely walk due to pelvis pain. If she was struggling that much she would have asked.

NotMyDayJob · 09/09/2023 06:22

babysharkdoodoodedoodedoo · 09/09/2023 04:29

When I take a train I am buried in a book. I don’t even glance up at my fellow passengers. I’d not have noticed. She should have simply asked. Or reserved a seat? Being pregnant doesn’t mean your incompetent and can’t speak or book tickets does it?!

Being able to post on the internet doesn't render you incapable and incompetent and unable to rtft where you would have discovered it was a train that didn't take reservations, yet, here we are.

If you want to exist in a thoughtless bubble where you can't even be bothered to glance up at your fellow passengers, that's on you but no need to be rude and at least own it.

NotMyDayJob · 09/09/2023 06:24

Donotshushme · 09/09/2023 06:11

Hasn't she got a tongue in her head?

She needs to be a big girl and ask for a seat. I've had twins. I got to the point i could barely walk due to pelvis pain. If she was struggling that much she would have asked.

Good for you. You do realise everyone is not you? She shouldn't have to ask. That's the point of discussion.

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ButterCrackers · 09/09/2023 07:45

NoSaladThanks · 09/09/2023 04:45

I got on a busy train with my lovely elderly dad a couple of years ago. We sat down and a stop later, a pregnant woman got on.
My dad being the gentleman he is, immediately stood and offered her his seat.
She verbally tore his head off!!
Which made me want to physically take her head off!
I told my upset dad to never, ever offer his seat again, pregnant or not.

The world needs more people like your dad. How kind and thoughtful. The younger generation of men could learn a lot from him. The woman who shouted at your dad - how nasty.

ALongHardWinter · 09/09/2023 13:47

jugggugg Not sure went wrong with my post,but my 🙄was meant to be in response to the poster who said she shouldn't have travelled! I wasn't rolling my eyes at the fact that the OP thought it would have been nice if someone had offered her friend a seat.

comedownwithme · 09/09/2023 14:02

Donotshushme · 09/09/2023 06:11

Hasn't she got a tongue in her head?

She needs to be a big girl and ask for a seat. I've had twins. I got to the point i could barely walk due to pelvis pain. If she was struggling that much she would have asked.

I have a tongue in my head and I wouldn't be able to ask someone to stand to give me a seat.

I realise this is probably outwith your thinking ability level so I won't waste my time explaining but a small clue - not everyone is the same.

The only 'big girl' you resemble it the class bully.

user1499114292 · 09/09/2023 14:58

I happily offered my seat to an obviously pregnant lady, who accepted with thanks. The man next to me then jumped up, as I stood up, so a rather jolly game of musical chairs took place with much good will… it does happen, it just doesn’t make a good story.

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