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What’s the scariest unsolved mystery you know?

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Mimmy352 · 02/09/2023 18:17

Whether it’s personal or well known, which unsolved case makes your brain sound like dial up?

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Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 16:50

Pebblesflintstoneandbambamrubble · 02/09/2023 20:12

Claudia Lawrence
She lived near a member of my family-she had to walk past his flat up past the house ud moved out of a week earlier,past my parents and vanished

Lots of people have been arrested but got nowhere

I used to drink in the nags head as a teenager-its very close to home-how dose someone just vanish?

Her poor family-not knowing

My ex

It was normal to say something like 'see you tuesday' and not see him for 18 months-hed Bob back up and life would go on

Anyway,he was round my house about 9 years ago to see our dc-had a cuppa,promised he'd send some stickers to dc and said goodbye-nothing unusual/acting like he was going to vanish

He left,saying he was going to his mums house,got to the end of our street,turned the corner and just vanished

His family have put up a few half hearted appeals up saying they've not seen him for over 13 years (so someone's either lying or have their dates wrong)

It's just odd to think we waved him off,watched him get to the end of our street-never to be seen again

Part of me would love to know what happened to him-for my dc-they don't know what's happened to dad,and that's not fair to them

I can't answer honestly when they ask

Oh goodness, that’s terrible for you and your DCs. Sometimes the not knowing is worse than anything. A family friend went through something similar, but the person missing popped up after about 12 years. Unfortunately the person had passed (naturally) but finally knowing where she had gone, and that she had chosen to leave, was some comfort.

I hope you and your DC find answers someday, and I do hope they’re positive answers if possible

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ManuelBensonsLeftBoot · 03/09/2023 16:52

SurprisedWithAHorse · 03/09/2023 16:46

But if that's what happened, his remains would have been found.

The river seems likelier. Poor boy could wash away without a trace.

I'm not familiar with the case at all so I have no idea - I was responding to the suggestion that if he was hit by farm machinery his body would end up in meat products. It would be crop harvesting machines not meat grinding machines. I can't think of any kind of meat processing that would involve a) deliberately reducing carcasses to nothing b) would be done by moving around fields.

Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 16:53

MouseMinge · 02/09/2023 20:35

Sorry if this has already been said but thankfully it's not "real".This used to scare the living shite out of me for years especially because I have a nerve thing that makes my thighs tingle and sometimes burn. I was convinced that I was going to spontaneously combust.

Anyway, it's something known as the wick effect. The cause of the fire can differ, often a cigarette. The burning person may not put it out because they've already died of natural causes. The heat intensity is low and they burn like an inside-out candle. The low intensity heat makes their body fat melt into their clothing. The clothing acts as the wick. It all sounds pretty horrendous but if we accept that they're almost certainly already dead which is why they do nothing to stop the fire, it's just a bizarre and rather horrible thing. There is little to no damage around the victim because the heat has been so low.

Thank you for this info! I was always skeptical about it, but it just seemed so odd and creepy. As a child (not now) I always had images of someone just going about their lives and then just horribly burning. At least the people this phenomenon happens to are already deceased and unaware.

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Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 16:56

wordlesie · 02/09/2023 21:10

My friend at university disappeared. This was 7 years ago and it made the local news then. He took a cab into a park and theres CCTV of him in the cab, then he got out and was never seen again. No trace. We expect he went there to meet a grinder date as it was a popular place for gay men to meet up.

He was an international student from a very poor family from an underdeveloped country and his parents spoke no English. It only made local news for a month then nothing since. His mother was so desperate trying to find him, but ran out of money and had to return home. His father died shortly after. I google his name frequently but theres nothing. No-one is looking for him it seems and it's very sad.

That’s absolutely heartbreaking. His father passed never knowing, and his mother cannot do anything more than she already has. To think, they probably thought he was set up for a better life away from their hometown. Just awful.

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Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 16:59

menopausalbloat · 02/09/2023 21:30

Does anyone watch the missing 411 docs where people vanish in American National Parks?

I’ve not seen the docs but I’ve heard some of the stories covered by MrBallen on YouTube.

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Goldcircle · 03/09/2023 17:00

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Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 17:04

Childhoodmemories · 02/09/2023 21:31

Ben Needham
The boy in America whose body was found in the 50s and he's never been given back his name

This one always affected me. I stumbled upon the photo of him online when I was quite young. The website had no warnings or safety precautions in place for hiding such an awful image. It broke my heart to see how badly that poor little baby had been treated.

When they finally identified him, I cried for him. I went around for weeks just thinking of little Joseph, and talking about the case. I’m not sure why I kept talking about it, but it was like I wanted people to know who he was. He had been so casually discarded in his life that I guess I wanted to tell people he was important?? I don’t know.

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Louise303 · 03/09/2023 17:05

TheresNoPiccalilliInThisJar · 03/09/2023 12:05

Mary Bastholm (most definitely murdered by Fred West but he would never confirm it probably because the burial site would expose more victims).

Angel Meadows lady in Manchester. She was found wrapped up in a carpet by a construction worker. Her clothing suggested that she died in the 70s but she was found in the mid 00s. Apparently her body wasn't even that well hidden just nobody had noticed it.

Susan Thomas from fallowfield Manchester. She was around 8 years old and had gone to play in Platt Fields park nearby. Her body was discovered by the animal petting area. She was fully clothed, had been strangled and though semen was found on her coat it wasn't considered to be sexually motivated. Ian Brady and Myra Hindley were questioned about it but they denied involvement (I guess they were asked about most missing children from Manchester in the 60s).

I really hope the angel meadows case is solved I used to walk past where she was found on my way to work. She was found with carpet from a ford cortina I know one elderly man thought she was a barmaid he met in a Manchester pub. He said she had bruises and that she had no family in the country if it was the same lady.

BigMandsTattooPortfolio · 03/09/2023 17:08

Missing 411 is fascinating as is the follow up documentary, ‘Missing 411 - The Hunted’.

The Jamison Family Deaths is another mysterious case from the US. The Jamison family was Bobby Dale, his wife Sherilynn, and their daughter Madyson. The Jamisons were planning to look at a 40-acre plot of land in Oklahoma that they were considering purchasing to build a new home and start a new life.

The family's truck was found abandoned, with the family's dog inside almost starved to death, along with their phones, IDs, and a large amount of cash. The family was nowhere to be found and a massive search was deployed to find the family.

In November 2013, a group of hunters stumbled upon the skeletal remains of the Jamison family. The remains were near where the truck had been found. The bodies were severely decomposed and the cause of death was impossible to determine. Investigators did find a hole in Bobby Dale's skull, which could have been caused by a bullet.

There have been many theories but the deaths still remain a mystery.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jamison_family_deaths

Jamison family deaths - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jamison_family_deaths

Blanketpolicy · 03/09/2023 17:10

The toddler who stayed in the street two down from ours, Sandy Davidson - just 3 years old when he disappeared from his garden in the 1970s and has never been found.

I was around 8 when it happened, we had not long moved into the new build council estate and still remember the searches and parents talking about it, our dad used to go out with our dog along the river/fields. I don't think there were ever any leads to where he might have gone, just theories.

Pickingmyselfup · 03/09/2023 17:13

All of them have been mentioned so far but all of the children ones play on my mind a lot. Some of them could perhaps been avoided but a lot of them were really awful.

The Sodder children...2 not accounted for. The ladder missing, the water button empty, the car engines not working (I think that's right) It seems as dodgy as anything and why were no remains found? Didn't the police try and pass off a cow heart as a human? If so, why? A cover up, laziness?

The Beaumont children. One child going missing is understandable, 3 all together not so much. Did they all go somewhere together willingly? If so, why did none of them think it wasn't a good idea? I kind of stick to the safety in numbers and think if my 2 are together they fare better than a single child. One of them would surely raise the alarm if something didn't seem right.

In terms of Madeline Mccan? Was this the first night the kids were unattended? How did someone know the doors were unlocked? Luck? Scoping the place out?

Andrew Godsen I feel got an offer to meet someone in London and from there either met a grisly end or changed identity.

Asha Degree I feel like was meeting someone or running away from an awful home life. I can't imagine many content kids choosing to leave the house in the middle of the night (in a storm?) for no reason.

Nothing Donaghue was definitely some kind of cover up. Wasn't he found naked in a storm drain? How did he get there? Why was he naked? Suicide? I just don't think many young teenagers commit suicide.

PollyThePixie · 03/09/2023 17:13

Naunet · 03/09/2023 08:59

Jennifer Fairgate/the Oslo woman. Found murdered and alone in a hotel room locked from the inside.

There was a case like this in Dubai where the door was locked from the inside. The murder/assasination was carried out by Israeli security. Once the Emiratis had solved the crime they explained how they Israelis had managed to lock the bedroom door on the inside, whilst they were on the outside.

Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 17:14

tenyearshavegotbehindyou · 02/09/2023 22:29

A personal one: My Dad went missing 24 years ago, Without a trace. They then found his body on the side of a road in rural France. He was found on what would have been his Birthday. He had been murdered and left there for all this time.

Asha Degree, 9 year old girl who left her house in the dark, in the rain, and walked for miles down an unlit road at 3am, Was seen by motorists, She has never been seen since. Her backpack was found 26 miles away but no trace of her. Why did she leave her home at that time in the morning in the pitch darkness on a stormy rainy windy night, What could get a 9 year old to do that?

The Yuba County five has kept me up many a night, Five young men went to a basketball game, took a wrong turn on the way back and got stuck in the snow, Decided to walk towards a cabin, All found dead in and around the cabin, One of the men was never found but his shoes were. It was later found that there was enough food to keep them all going for a while, Spare winter clothing to keep them warm and also a generator they could have used, none of them were used. Each had 'mild intellectual disabilities' (as desciribed at the time they went missing) but were able to drive to the basketball game (something they did often) Nobody knows why they took the wrong turn as they had made the trip many a time, and nobody knows why they decided to walk to the cabin in freezing temps or why they didn't even attempt to eat the food etc One of the men died in the bed in the cabin and had been wrapped up in blankets to try to keep him warm, A watch was found on the side table that didn't belong to any of the men.

I am so sorry about your father. What a horrible thing to happen, for both of you. I hope you find some closure, whatever that might look like 💐

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PollyThePixie · 03/09/2023 17:18

MoiraRosesBaybay · 03/09/2023 09:08

That’s local to me too.

Although I grew up long before this case whenever I went out my dad would leave a £20 note (which was a good amount of money in those days) on the kitchen table. The reason being that if I got stuck somewhere without any money knew the taxi fare was there.

I always put money in a hidey hole in the garden wall so my children could always get a taxi home at the end of an evening. Just in case.

Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 17:18

RoyKentsTieDyeTop · 02/09/2023 22:47

Ruth Wilson’s stepmother was my teacher for almost all of middle school so I think about Ruth often.

One thing that sticks in my mind is Mrs W telling us that they no longer had a tv at home and had stored it away as watching tv was bad for you.

When Ruth disappeared (I didn’t know her; she went to the other secondary school locally) the first thing my 15yo brain thought was that I’d have run away from a house with no telly, too.

Interestingly I also thought the poster on the thread mentioned earlier was her too. I hope she’s having a great life wherever she is.

At 15, it would have been my thought too. Ah the innocence of youth.

I hope wherever she is, she’s happy and healthy. I hope that it was her posting on those threads, as it would be a sign of life at least. Very interesting case, I’d never heard of it before

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Katmai · 03/09/2023 17:21

An ancestor of mine was murdered. I found a report of the inquest in newspaper records, but I don't know whether they ever found out whodunnit.

BigMandsTattooPortfolio · 03/09/2023 17:24

One case that has always disturbed me is the disappearance and death of 24 year old Mitrice Richardson. She disappeared in 2009 after being arrested for being unable to pay a restaurant bill and despite her obvious mental health issues and the fact that her mother begged the police not to release her because her mental health issues made her vulnerable, they released her just after midnight, though she had no belongings and no means of calling for assistance. She was never seen alive again and almost a year later her remains were found, naked and mummified in a creek bed in Malibu Canyon, adjacent to an estate where pornography was produced. A most baffling and disturbing case.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Mitrice_Richardson

Death of Mitrice Richardson - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Mitrice_Richardson

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 03/09/2023 17:25

We have a mystery in our family that will never be solved officially, but we think we know what happened.

When my Grandad went to register the death of a relative in their 80s we were told that was impossible as that person had died when they were 5.

Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 17:25

Neverplayleapfrogwithmrpipes · 02/09/2023 23:07

The fact that the fire department took hours to arrive, the detective on the case disappeared and an insurance salesman was heard shouting (to paraphrase) “Your house will go up in smoke and your children will die” makes me think the salesman did it, and had friends in high places. Or someone else, probably an authority figure, did it knowing the finger would be pointed at the salesman and they could fob it off

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Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 17:27

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 03/09/2023 17:25

We have a mystery in our family that will never be solved officially, but we think we know what happened.

When my Grandad went to register the death of a relative in their 80s we were told that was impossible as that person had died when they were 5.

Oh wow. There’s so many things this could be. Poor organization, mistaken identity, identity theft. It was quite common for people to take the names of dead people and assume their identity when fleeing their own lives. Back then, moving to a new town and introducing yourself as someone else wasn’t exactly investigated. Identity and background checks weren’t really a thing

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Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 17:31

AccidentallyFabulous · 03/09/2023 00:09

Currently, how 18year old ds has managed to lose his house key after locking the door on the inside when he got home.

Oh things like that happen in my house too! I just think the Bermuda Triangle has nothing on my floors 😂😂😂

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RhannionKPSS · 03/09/2023 17:31

There is an interesting book I’m reading at the moment called The Real Life Murder Clubs which is about ordinary people helping to solve true crimes. Often it’s the ordinary people, not the police , who join the dots & find the answers.

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 03/09/2023 17:34

Mimmy352 · 03/09/2023 17:27

Oh wow. There’s so many things this could be. Poor organization, mistaken identity, identity theft. It was quite common for people to take the names of dead people and assume their identity when fleeing their own lives. Back then, moving to a new town and introducing yourself as someone else wasn’t exactly investigated. Identity and background checks weren’t really a thing

We’re about 90% sure she was the illegitimate child of a relative of the couple who brought her up.

There were two babies born within a few days and both had the same first name (called after another relative). We have a feeling the couple looked after both babies (they unofficially adopted three other illegitimate babies in the family as well) and then when their child died they used that identify to save the child any stigma.

The illegitimate baby’s young mother emigrated to the USA a few months after her baby was born and snippets she told her descendants are why we think it wasn’t her child that died.

RhannionKPSS · 03/09/2023 17:35

Amandasummers · 02/09/2023 21:05

I feel terrible not recalling his name but the boy who was caught on cctv several times on his bike and ended up with no clothes on and then died in mysterious circumstances. It’s baffling

That’s Noah Donahue , his family & friends are battling for justice and you can help by supporting them in here & Facebook.

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