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So fed up of having no money.

207 replies

BananaSun1989 · 16/08/2023 17:16

That's it.
That's the thread.

OP posts:
FrogsWormsandCaterpillars · 16/08/2023 19:23

Oh I’m with you. I have 60p in the bank. That’s it until payday. Someone at work told me they were skint the other day and I thought that someone understood, then she said she had to dip into her savings to get through the month.

LindorDoubleChoc · 16/08/2023 19:24

Yeah, it sucks.

Estelle74uk · 16/08/2023 19:26

What are savings ?!

Nomoremoves · 16/08/2023 19:32

FrogsWormsandCaterpillars · 16/08/2023 19:23

Oh I’m with you. I have 60p in the bank. That’s it until payday. Someone at work told me they were skint the other day and I thought that someone understood, then she said she had to dip into her savings to get through the month.

So many people don't get it 💐

Beaniebeemer · 16/08/2023 19:34

I’m with you. I’m a single parent with two kids. I’ve got a precarious job, huge debts and a mortgage. At one point my mortgage had gone up 55% luckily I fixed it and brought this down a bit. Kids NEED stuff to go back to school with. I’ve stopped paying some of my debts cause I had no choice and my credit is now buggered. My car is very old and is on its last legs. The stress has really taken its toll on me over the last year in particular. Doing basic things exhausts me. I spent much of my time in bed or sleeping to escape. It’s no life. Yes there is an element of depression, but I don’t really know how to change that unless my circumstances change.

ComeOnThenFanny · 16/08/2023 19:34

FrogsWormsandCaterpillars · 16/08/2023 19:23

Oh I’m with you. I have 60p in the bank. That’s it until payday. Someone at work told me they were skint the other day and I thought that someone understood, then she said she had to dip into her savings to get through the month.

It amazes me that so many people have such different ideas of being skint. They really seem to have no idea what it's like trying to make a meal out of next to nothing, and not being able to afford what should be simple things like haircuts and new shoes.

I have been skint my whole life, and I'm in my fifties, it's never going to be any different. Life can be such a struggle.

lincolnmumof3 · 16/08/2023 19:38

TrayBaker1955 · 16/08/2023 19:23

Side hustles changed my life from this being my reality. There’s always something you can do to bring in more money

What do you do?

ComeOnThenFanny · 16/08/2023 19:40

lincolnmumof3 · 16/08/2023 19:38

What do you do?

I'd like to know this too. I've thought about selling used knickers online, but then remember that I'm 53 and my knickers are like parachutes 😂

Nomoremoves · 16/08/2023 19:44

ComeOnThenFanny · 16/08/2023 19:40

I'd like to know this too. I've thought about selling used knickers online, but then remember that I'm 53 and my knickers are like parachutes 😂

Buy cheap ones from primark in small size leave them mixed in dirty washing for a bit .

And yep comfy all the way 😅

fisherhatesgravel · 16/08/2023 19:46

@ComeOnThenFanny mature lady with big pants? Pretty sure that's very popular too !

MrsTired1983 · 16/08/2023 19:47

Where are people selling their knickers? 😆

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/08/2023 19:47

Me too, I feel genuinely suicidal. I actually would do Only Fans if I knew how to.

ComeOnThenFanny · 16/08/2023 19:47

Nomoremoves · 16/08/2023 19:44

Buy cheap ones from primark in small size leave them mixed in dirty washing for a bit .

And yep comfy all the way 😅

I mean, in fairness, I'd happily wear a pair a few sizes too small for a few hours for the right remuneration!

ComeOnThenFanny · 16/08/2023 19:48

fisherhatesgravel · 16/08/2023 19:46

@ComeOnThenFanny mature lady with big pants? Pretty sure that's very popular too !

I like your style. Maybe there's a market... 😁

caramacyears · 16/08/2023 19:48

fullbloom87 · 16/08/2023 18:59

But this is mumsnet where everyone earns £100k a year and has £100000000 in savings 🤣🤣🤣🤣

That is the impression I got at first

ComeOnThenFanny · 16/08/2023 19:50

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/08/2023 19:47

Me too, I feel genuinely suicidal. I actually would do Only Fans if I knew how to.

I was being flippant before, but please, please don't feel like you're alone. I am always here to talk if you need to - I just haven't got any money to give you Thanks

caramacyears · 16/08/2023 19:51

I'm shocked every time the till goes ker'ching with how much things are costing me

Nomoremoves · 16/08/2023 19:51

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/08/2023 19:47

Me too, I feel genuinely suicidal. I actually would do Only Fans if I knew how to.

Have you contacted your gp? About how you feel. That's a big feeling to manage

Sandals94 · 16/08/2023 19:52

I sympathise op. It's never nice to have no money.
Just a thought but one way To save a little bit, have you considered batch cooking meals? For example, I will make A Lasagne, a cottage pie and a curry. Which will make me eighteen meals in the freezer. I appreciate it's not going to change your life financially. But every little bit helps.

bonzaitree · 16/08/2023 19:53

We’re with you OP it’s fucking shit!

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/08/2023 19:54

Nomoremoves · 16/08/2023 19:51

Have you contacted your gp? About how you feel. That's a big feeling to manage

I’m already on Sertraline but it can’t solve the absolute, endless shit that my life has become unfortunately ☹️.

@ComeOnThenFanny thanks 🥰 luckily I have my dog to make things tolerable. I was crying before and he gave me the biggest cuddle and face lick. He knows as soon as I’m upset.

washingmachineslivelongerwithcalgon · 16/08/2023 19:55

BananaSun1989 · 16/08/2023 17:23

I'm longing for the summer holidays to finish! Cried every day over a lack of funds. Poor DD!

I feel your pain. I've literally signed up to do adult chat lines to put fucking food on the table. Times are hard.

Jellyx · 16/08/2023 19:56

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 16/08/2023 17:26

You don't have to be young and beautiful, I do Adultwork when I need to. Sometimes you have to do what you need to do to get by. And if you have other options that make you feel horrified by my comment - good for you, and don't hang out on poor people threads. x

Oh gosh.
Nooo- there are consequences you need to think about before sex work.

I'd rather be poor.

Halfemptyhalfling · 16/08/2023 19:57

This is what voting conservative means . Recommend registering to vote at the next election

ComeOnThenFanny · 16/08/2023 19:58

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 16/08/2023 19:54

I’m already on Sertraline but it can’t solve the absolute, endless shit that my life has become unfortunately ☹️.

@ComeOnThenFanny thanks 🥰 luckily I have my dog to make things tolerable. I was crying before and he gave me the biggest cuddle and face lick. He knows as soon as I’m upset.

Absolutely @Idratherbepaddleboarding My dogs are everything. They're my best friends. I count them as my blessings x