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I need somebody to edit a read only pdf!

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NavyBlue2023 · 02/08/2023 09:51

Please no bashing I feel terrible enough.
My partner and me have been very on and off for the last 4 years of our relationship if you can call it that, sometimes hes gone months at a time and I dont hear anything from him.
3 years ago I slept with somebody else during a 5 month break, I never told him because he would say this is cheating. He has now decided he wants us to get back together properly move home and start again on the condition I do a lie detector test that says I have never slept with anybody else in the 12 years we have been together.
The pdf is read only and cannot be edited without special software. Obviously I dont want him finding out it was a mistake and I fully regret it but I'm not going to pass the test.
Where could I get the pdf edited? I will of course pay for the time of the person doing it.
I know this is really terrible of me but I want nothing more than us to work, no good will come of him finding out.

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GoodChat · 03/08/2023 06:20

@Hawkins009 I think they're yes or no answers and he's going to set the questions to catch her out regardless.

It's immoral of the company to even allow this to happen.

Bonelly · 03/08/2023 07:02

He's a maniac. Get rid of him and his nightmarish drama.

Hawkins009 · 03/08/2023 07:33

GoodChat · 03/08/2023 06:20

@Hawkins009 I think they're yes or no answers and he's going to set the questions to catch her out regardless.

It's immoral of the company to even allow this to happen.

I guess then based on how the question is worded you can be honest and say no or yes if the question is not asked exactly as you believe would be the "truth"

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Daniki · 03/08/2023 12:28

Jesus please get out of there. Imagine this is what your daughter sees every day and will start to think is normal to be treated as such.
Please contact woman's aid, and I know you said you have no relationship with your family but I bet you anything if you told them what was happening they would welcome you back in a second.
The cheek that you have to pay 500 quid for each test. You realise this will never end?

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/08/2023 14:51

If life was like a film you could write your questions for his lie detector test and give them to the police:

Am I abusive
Did I physically hurt my ex
Do I stalk my ex
Am I a total scumbag who deserves to rot in prison
Am I only free because of a shit justice system

IRL you get advice from Women's Aid, you send every picture to the police until they do something, you have no contact at all, you protect yourself and your child so she doesn't pick an arse in 10 years.

Missingpup · 03/08/2023 15:40

Daniki · 03/08/2023 12:28

Jesus please get out of there. Imagine this is what your daughter sees every day and will start to think is normal to be treated as such.
Please contact woman's aid, and I know you said you have no relationship with your family but I bet you anything if you told them what was happening they would welcome you back in a second.
The cheek that you have to pay 500 quid for each test. You realise this will never end?

The Op doesn’t “have to”, she chooses to because she’s desperate to make it work as per her op

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