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Is there truth in when someone says something when they're drunk? friend texted me whilst drunk.

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juyeti · 27/07/2023 23:44

Friend is away for a couple of days for a stag do. He doesn't normally drink so guessing not much would render him quite drunk. Last night I received a text at 1am but didn't see it till this morning. It was written terribly with a lot of typos and repeated letters in words so took me a few moments to understand what it said. The coherent version...without some random stuff at the beginning..

"Juyetii, poppy. I miss you. I wish you were here with me. Its so fucking beautiful. So so beautiful. Is it too late to tell you how I feel. You're the one. Let's go back to the beginning. I'm just wasting time. I know it might be complicated but it doesn't matter. it will be okay. I'm too fucking scared to tell you. I wish you feel the same.

I haven't received anything from him yet nor have I replied. I don't know what to make it of it really. Im pretty sure he was drunk when he sent it. Does he actually mean it if he was drunk? Do I bring it up / ignore it?! I've been thinking about it all day!

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FlamingoQueen · 28/07/2023 09:34

Perhaps suggest that you have a sober conversation when he’s back.

Chimchar · 28/07/2023 09:37

Loving this thread! Fully invested in following and hoping that it brings happy days for you op. 🥰

HopityHope · 28/07/2023 09:38

I need this to have a lovely outcome!

1stTimeMama · 28/07/2023 09:40

Totally invested in this. It may the most exciting thing that's happened to me, ahem, you, in a while!

Theonlyoneiknow · 28/07/2023 09:47

How exciting OP, when does he get back?

Roselilly36 · 28/07/2023 09:53

Aww OP, I hope it all works out lovely for both of you Flowers

HollaHolla · 28/07/2023 09:56

Very exciting if you both feel the same way!!

Allthecheeseplease · 28/07/2023 09:57

MeinKraft · 28/07/2023 08:54

We need to know what the texts were about. Hopefully not all car safety based?

I need to know too 😂

Also ignore the hater posts. Jesus some people are just miserable.

MzHz · 28/07/2023 09:59

MeinKraft · 28/07/2023 08:54

We need to know what the texts were about. Hopefully not all car safety based?

😆 if they’re texting about the MOT until 2am… definitely gonna fail it!

@juyeti cant wait to hear how it’s going. Excited for you!

Campervangirl · 28/07/2023 10:00

Totally invested in this.
Hope it ends in a romance, an engagement, a wedding, a new house and babies!🙏
I lurve a happy ending ❤️

NeverThatSerious · 28/07/2023 10:01

MeinKraft · 28/07/2023 08:54

We need to know what the texts were about. Hopefully not all car safety based?

😂

Gensola · 28/07/2023 10:08

Why are people so negative? 😆

YoSof · 28/07/2023 10:09

Just here for the update Grin

SheRaaaaa · 28/07/2023 10:09

Shameless placemark

Dee00 · 28/07/2023 10:15

Aww this is so cute, keep us updated!

Okaaaay · 28/07/2023 10:31

I am fully invested!! Hope this works out OP x

Aubree17 · 28/07/2023 10:37

It was a great response. Positive without laying all your cards out. Balls in his court!

Blondeshavemorefun · 28/07/2023 10:37

Sounds promising if texting till 2am

We need an update @juyeti

Wingingit11 · 28/07/2023 10:37

Come back OP (also hoping he’s single though)!

Aubree17 · 28/07/2023 10:37

By contrast his whole decks on the table 😂

AliceOlive · 28/07/2023 10:43

It’s going to be a long day here at Mumsnet, one of the longer ones while we wait for an update. Normally, we are waiting for an update to find out the reply from a mean SIL, a bridezilla or a neighbor with no boundaries. This is so much better.

Superfood · 28/07/2023 10:43

Why is everyone losing their shit over how 'lovely' and 'romantic' this is when the op has very obviously avoided answering the question is he single?

Downatthefarm · 28/07/2023 10:44

Following with interest! How exciting

DoubleTime · 28/07/2023 10:44

Ah but maybe he asked about the MOT to check if you could drive to join him...

babbscrabbs · 28/07/2023 10:46

Superfood · 28/07/2023 10:43

Why is everyone losing their shit over how 'lovely' and 'romantic' this is when the op has very obviously avoided answering the question is he single?

Hmm good point