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Is there truth in when someone says something when they're drunk? friend texted me whilst drunk.

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juyeti · 27/07/2023 23:44

Friend is away for a couple of days for a stag do. He doesn't normally drink so guessing not much would render him quite drunk. Last night I received a text at 1am but didn't see it till this morning. It was written terribly with a lot of typos and repeated letters in words so took me a few moments to understand what it said. The coherent version...without some random stuff at the beginning..

"Juyetii, poppy. I miss you. I wish you were here with me. Its so fucking beautiful. So so beautiful. Is it too late to tell you how I feel. You're the one. Let's go back to the beginning. I'm just wasting time. I know it might be complicated but it doesn't matter. it will be okay. I'm too fucking scared to tell you. I wish you feel the same.

I haven't received anything from him yet nor have I replied. I don't know what to make it of it really. Im pretty sure he was drunk when he sent it. Does he actually mean it if he was drunk? Do I bring it up / ignore it?! I've been thinking about it all day!

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Chichimcgee · 29/07/2023 00:24

Alcohol tends to be a truth drug!
reply ‘how’s the hangover? When you’ve recovered let me know where you’re taking me for a first date 😉’

Chichimcgee · 29/07/2023 00:27

Aw I’ve just caught up and that’s so cute! I don’t think it matters one jot that he’s white and you’re Asian! The religion aspect might be a bit tricky but I’m sure things will go so well for you!

Birdienumnumm · 29/07/2023 00:31

Ffs. Waited all day and still no update on the MOT.

VivaciousRadish · 29/07/2023 02:10

I’m so happy for you. Both of you. You sound so lovely

3luckystars · 29/07/2023 05:10

@Birdienumnumm 😂

WellPlaced · 29/07/2023 05:14

TheCakeConspiracy · 28/07/2023 23:07

Are you including this one in your sometimes

😂

WellPlaced · 29/07/2023 05:18

Birdienumnumm · 29/07/2023 00:31

Ffs. Waited all day and still no update on the MOT.

RTFT 🙄
“ mot did not go well.”

😂

Toooldtoworry · 29/07/2023 06:00

So pleased for you @juyeti. I wish you both all the happiness.

Jillybloop393 · 29/07/2023 06:07

WellPlaced · 29/07/2023 05:14

😂

🤣🤣🤣

Nanaof1 · 29/07/2023 06:19

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Projecting much? Geeze Louise! Did someone do a wee in your Wheaties or are you always this "optimistic"? /s

JeandeServiette · 29/07/2023 06:39

Are you including this one in your sometimes

😂

WellPlaced · 29/07/2023 06:49

It seems from your comments that you’re not a strict Muslim @juyeti so I’m sure you will be able to work through it.

Good Luck

ThatFraggle · 29/07/2023 07:18

Sugarfree23 · 28/07/2023 22:45

Agnostic, so believes in the creator God, but not sure what other bits are the right bits.

Op I get it will be complicated but I think it could be worked through.

That's not what agnostic means

Frenchthing · 29/07/2023 07:23

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My advice is get home from the Co-op before entering the stupor.

stayingcool · 29/07/2023 07:37

This reminds me a bit of the film ( on Netflix) "What's love got to do with it?" About a mixed race couple of friends. And the amazing Emma Thomson

Angry Feminist, your comment is completely barking! 😂

ScuttleMcButtle · 29/07/2023 07:45

We are mixed race couple. No one eve mentions. I'm Asian. Not Muslim, but same pressures. Best thing ever I have done.

Maxstress3 · 29/07/2023 08:37

Like I said work on it but don't lose your deen over it.

LadyGAgain · 29/07/2023 08:48

Him sending that song it literally one of the most romantic things I have read for a long time. It's rare for a man to be so vulnerable. Good luck!!!

monsteramunch · 29/07/2023 09:00

@Sugarfree23

Agnostic, so believes in the creator God, but not sure what other bits are the right bits.

That isn't at all what it means though?

Agnostic definition:

"a person who believes that nothing is known or can be known of the existence or nature of God."

NeverThatSerious · 29/07/2023 09:17

Well I love this, I’m a soppy romantic at heart and just think this is beyond sweet

BitOutOfPractice · 29/07/2023 09:29

aww how adorable is this? Im off to buy a hat.

sorry about the mot though!

VelvetUndergrounds · 29/07/2023 09:37

This was me and my friend. We both secretly liked each other for 6 years. We both watched each other get with other people and never said anything, just remained the best of friends. Then I couldn't handle it any longer and got drunk and told him that I loved him. He called me twat...

...then kissed me. And now we're married with a 12 year old son.

AGovernmentOfLawsAndNotMen · 29/07/2023 09:52

WunWun · 28/07/2023 19:59

No it doesn't 😂

Ok so to be more specific
Its someone who doesn’t believe there’s enough proof either way.

KinooOrKinog · 29/07/2023 10:23

Why are people arguing over the definition of agnostic? It's irrelevant. OP's situation would be the same if the guy was Catholic, Jewish, Christian, or whatever. The complication is that he's not Muslim & she is.

juyeti · 29/07/2023 11:41

I have no idea what the proper definition of agnostic is but that's what he describes himself as. There might be a god, there might not be, that's how he sees it. He's not really spiritual but when his nan passed away a few years ago he did do a bit of reading on various stuff.

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