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Would you apply for a job that you morally disagree with in my situation?

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Beezknees · 17/07/2023 17:53

Was made redundant not long ago. I'm a single mum, living in rented accommodation. Don't have a huge amount of savings and I'm now having to claim full UC and JSA. DS is 15 so childcare is not an issue, I'm applying for anything and everything that's suitable as I really don't want to be out of work for long. I've got no qualifications or specialist knowledge, I was a lone parent by 18 and have always worked whatever fit around DS, so I can't really afford to be fussy and the market is tough right now.

I have my CV up on various job sites and had a message from somebody who likes my CV and has invited me to apply for a job. The money is probably better than anything I'd get elsewhere but I'm not sure if I could do a job where I morally disagree with some of the fundamentals (it is a charity but there is a religious element to the organisation without being too outing) I am not religious and don't really agree with the notion of organised religion.

Would you apply?

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SueVineer · 17/07/2023 21:52

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/07/2023 20:59

Oh and the idea that principles are only principles for rich people is pretty disgusting. Poor people just have to forget having morals? Yuk.

what a daft thing to say. Why should we pay people benefits because they morally object to the c of e. You could morally object to pretty much anything if you take umbrage with the c of e. You don’t get to have the rest of a support you because you are unwilling to work due to your “morals”.

Indigotree · 17/07/2023 21:53

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/07/2023 20:59

Oh and the idea that principles are only principles for rich people is pretty disgusting. Poor people just have to forget having morals? Yuk.

Exactly.
We should be ensuring our welfare system allows people ethical choices, not insisting people in need should be forced to act against their beliefs. It's our responsibility to create a system that respects ethical beliefs and supports individuals' right to them.

Indigotree · 17/07/2023 21:54

SueVineer · 17/07/2023 21:52

what a daft thing to say. Why should we pay people benefits because they morally object to the c of e. You could morally object to pretty much anything if you take umbrage with the c of e. You don’t get to have the rest of a support you because you are unwilling to work due to your “morals”.

Can't you see how deeply disturbing and horrifying what you're saying here is?

(And by the way, the C of E is in many ways extremely ethically dubious!)

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SueVineer · 17/07/2023 21:57

Indigotree · 17/07/2023 21:53

Exactly.
We should be ensuring our welfare system allows people ethical choices, not insisting people in need should be forced to act against their beliefs. It's our responsibility to create a system that respects ethical beliefs and supports individuals' right to them.

Everyone has the right to their beliefs. You don’t have the right to have the rest of us support you because of them.

SueVineer · 17/07/2023 22:04

Indigotree · 17/07/2023 21:54

Can't you see how deeply disturbing and horrifying what you're saying here is?

(And by the way, the C of E is in many ways extremely ethically dubious!)

No. not really. Maybe you might think that if you were entitled and never had to do anything you didn’t want to. But that’s not adult life for most of us.

I grew up poor and am of a non Christian religion. If I had to, I’d work for the c of e. Why should I pay taxes to support those who are too precious? For the most part in this country there is a variety of work available. There are plenty of options available for reasonable people.

Twyford · 17/07/2023 22:08

Beezknees · 17/07/2023 18:07

They also stand outside abortion centres hassling scared vulnerable women which is a big issue for me.

Are you saying this charity specifically does this, or are you generalising about the C of E? If that is what this charity does then no, I couldn't work for them. But if your objection is some perception that the entire C of E does that, then you're obviously very badly informed.

saraclara · 17/07/2023 22:15

The organisation that I volunteer with was started by a bishop and many of our volunteers are Anglican church goers. I'm atheist. My organisation does valuable and caring work with people of all religions and none, and our staff are likewise diverse.

I'd be horrified if someone judged us as immoral because of our beginnings and because or volunteered tend to hear about us via their churches. I'd also be concerned that this person wouldn't respect the multiple religions of our service users who are from many different countries and cultures, many of whom are religious.

I'm regularly asked by our service users (who are desperate straits) if I could pray for them. They need that in their hour of need. I would never say no to them, and while I don't pray in the way they do, at the end of the day I reflect on how it went and think of the people I've seen and their needs.

Beezknees · 17/07/2023 22:17

SueVineer · 17/07/2023 21:52

what a daft thing to say. Why should we pay people benefits because they morally object to the c of e. You could morally object to pretty much anything if you take umbrage with the c of e. You don’t get to have the rest of a support you because you are unwilling to work due to your “morals”.

Unwilling to work? I've been out of work less than 2 weeks and I want to work 😂 I have applied for many jobs and am just questioning this particular one as I might not be a good fit. Stop creating some fictional narrative.

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mnahmnah · 17/07/2023 22:17

The Church of England’s official statement on abortion in 2019.

Each individual within the church will have their own stance though. A separate charity isn’t necessarily representative of all C of E.

Which charity is it? We can give better opinions then. I wouldn’t be able to work for someone who thinks protesting outside clinics is acceptable. I can’t think the C of E would be ok with it either.

Would you apply for a job that you morally disagree with in my situation?
Twyford · 17/07/2023 22:20

Is this charity actually involved in the abortion debate in any way?

Kingsparkle · 17/07/2023 22:21

SueVineer · 17/07/2023 21:57

Everyone has the right to their beliefs. You don’t have the right to have the rest of us support you because of them.

Where would you like to draw the line? Should an unemployed Muslim be forced to work in a pub? should a Jewish person have to serve up bacon rolls in a cafe?

TimesRwo · 17/07/2023 22:21

EvenLess · 17/07/2023 20:40

@TimesRwo I bet you're talking about the Salvation Army... It is cult like. I attended as a child and what I experienced there is still affecting me 20+ years later. I also know of others in my position. It isn't talked enough about- very difficult to find people willing to talk about the negatives of the organisation and how it takes over people's lives.

If it's not them and I'm barking up the wrong tree, I do apologise.

Spot on. Perhaps my description of my experience working there was too obvious, but it’s interesting you recognised it. I’m sorry your experience as a child has left you so scarred but at the same time, I’m not surprised. I was only an employee but it definitely changed my impression of the organisation and the work they do. It’s a very interesting place.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 17/07/2023 22:23

Kingsparkle · 17/07/2023 22:21

Where would you like to draw the line? Should an unemployed Muslim be forced to work in a pub? should a Jewish person have to serve up bacon rolls in a cafe?

Next up, DWP Captive Bolt Pistol training for Hindus.

EvenLess · 17/07/2023 22:28

@TimesRwo I knew straight away! Hierarchical, inward looking, suspicious of anyone deemed an outsider (not from an Army family, not in uniform etc). I do not envy anyone going to work there.

Am very glad to be out but even despite the terrible things that happened to me there still have strange pangs for it. It definitely gets under your skin.

Canidoitreally · 17/07/2023 22:36

It would hugely depend. Some jobs, if I really needed the money, I might consider it. But there are some I like to think I never would, no matter what. I couldn't perform abortions for example. Or work in homeopathy.

I could work for a faith based charity though, even if I am of another faith. I have seen many good things come from religious groups and people and would have respect for their aims (I'm assuming mainstream religion here. Not a cult or terrorist group!). I'd find it interesting too. But it doesn't sound like that's true for you.

FFSwhatisthis · 17/07/2023 22:46

@Beezknees I would apply in your situation. I'm atheist so wouldn't feel comfortable about it, but not so uncomfortable I'd rather be in benefits. I'd see how it went & if I was uncomfortable I'd keep job hunting, but if I liked the job & religion wasn't pushed on me, I'd stay.

there are jobs I couldn't do and if benefits were an option I'd go/stay on them.

it's also easier to get a job when you have a job. I think you'd be mad not to apply.

crew2022 · 17/07/2023 22:48

I would apply, if I was selected for interviews then use that as an opportunity to see if the culture seemed a good fit. Working with the right people might mean you can still express your personal views safely as long as it doesn't mean you can't perform in your role. However if the culture seems oppressive think again or you don't think you'd be able to do the job with the views you hold then no

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/07/2023 22:51

Next up, DWP Captive Bolt Pistol training for Hindus.

Everyone has a line, surely. The rest is just debate about where the line is.

Kingsparkle · 17/07/2023 22:55

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/07/2023 22:51

Next up, DWP Captive Bolt Pistol training for Hindus.

Everyone has a line, surely. The rest is just debate about where the line is.

It’s not about having a line, it’s about telling other people they can’t have one if they don’t earn enough.

Whatthediddlyfeck · 17/07/2023 22:55

Kingsparkle · 17/07/2023 21:33

Well I am guessing you must be unemployed and on benefits then because I can’t imagine anyone with a working moral compass having such a repugnant attitude.

I’ve worked since I was 14, with a 2 week period of unemployment 30+ years ago when graduated

Sunsetandsunrise · 17/07/2023 22:57

Mamansparkles · 17/07/2023 18:50

I'd suggest if you do apply, do some research. You are making general swipes against religion based on some minority views that are really quite rare in the UK church (are you thinking of the US Bible belt? Or some minority Catholic organisations?) The CofE has its failings and its occasional dodgy individual just like any large organisation but it is generally mainstream and teaches non offensive values like 'love each other'. It also does a LOT of charity work (recently valued at several million pounds worth of charity and social justice work a year, that's just CofE and just UK).
I've worked for the CofE in the past (although I'm not CofE) and our contract included that we were 'in sympathy with the values of the Church of England'. You don't seem to know what those values even are, and I certainly wouldn't have hired you with that attitude to and ignorance of the CofE.

Yea I was about to say, OP - I don’t think you’d be a good fit for this organisation. And majority of staff would be Christians and probably in that kind of role they’d expect an environment where their views are not being scoffed at which is understandable. Keep looking for something else!

Kingsparkle · 17/07/2023 23:00

Whatthediddlyfeck · 17/07/2023 22:55

I’ve worked since I was 14, with a 2 week period of unemployment 30+ years ago when graduated

But you previously said you claimed benefits. You claimed benefits for 2 weeks of unemployment?

Still I find your views pretty gross.

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/07/2023 23:03

It’s not about having a line, it’s about telling other people they can’t have one if they don’t earn enough.

I agree with you BTW. Grin

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 17/07/2023 23:11

Kingsparkle · 17/07/2023 22:55

It’s not about having a line, it’s about telling other people they can’t have one if they don’t earn enough.

Indeed.

I'm as atheist as they come, probably verging towards antitheist because I'm really sceptical of all organised religion, but I'm also a strident believer in that a secular society you permit individuals complete freedom of expression, and with that comes a respect for the right of the individual to their beliefs.

The logical end point of the 'you don't have the right to be supported' argument is that Muslim women will be censured for refusing to take cleaning jobs in male toilets/changing rooms, Hindus for refusing to take work in abattoirs if it's available, Jews for refusing to handle pork, ham, and sausages in deli counters, certain Christians for refusing to work weekends, and so on.

The 'taxpayer' argument is banal, as the exponents of it quite clearly have no issue with the prospect of people being forced into roles they are completely unsuited for either, to the detriment of both themselves and the employer. It smacks of the old 'a good stint in the army' lunacy, because yes, I'm sure the MOD is just desperate for a load of demotivated, recalcitrant teens to deal with.

Lolasgame · 17/07/2023 23:11

Whatthediddlyfeck · 17/07/2023 21:30

When they’re not unemployed and in receipt of benefits

Torie vibes 🤮