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Paris Mayo convicted of murder (TW)

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Whitakers · 27/06/2023 06:55

NB v distressing content

https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/jun/23/teenager-guilty-baby-herefordshire-hide-pregnancy-paris-mayo

The jury was asked to consider an alternative verdict of infanticide but found her guilty of murder. I’m surprised by this- surprised she wasn’t just charged with infanticide in the first place, to be honest. It’s a terrible case.

Teenager guilty of murdering baby in Herefordshire to hide pregnancy | UK news | The Guardian

Paris Mayo, now 19, violently assaulted newborn in 2019 to stop family finding out about the birth

https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/jun/23/teenager-guilty-baby-herefordshire-hide-pregnancy-paris-mayo

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loislovesstewie · 27/06/2023 17:45

I think, truthfully, that if she does get pregnant again, then the baby might well be taken into care at birth.

ABugWife · 27/06/2023 17:48

I am appalled how many people seem to be making excuses for this person.

She made two attempts on her babies life. I find it hard to believe she suffered labour pains and didn't mention them to anyone if she didn't know she was pregnant and in labour and purposefully concealing it.

I think she deserves the sentence she has been given.

Pythacalling702 · 27/06/2023 17:49

Quveas · 27/06/2023 17:03

@Pythacalling702 Murder is murder but of course the age and maturity of the perpetrator makes a difference. The brain chemistry of a teen is different to that of an adult for a start.

Ah I see. Clearly I have totally misunderstood the MN mentality and the level of support for the following things:

  • we are all in favour of the Scottish government's move to allow young male rapists to escape court because they are young and immature?
  • we didn't all slam down on Verphy Kudi for leaving her baby to starve to death while she partied for six days for her 18th, because it was ok - she was young and immature?
  • We are all very sorry that James Bulgers killers got convictions for murder, because they were young and immature?
  • We should release Craig Mulligan, because he was young and immature when he participated in the murder of Logan Mwangi. Young and immature too?
  • What about Sharon Carr - stabbed a complete stranger to death and wrote afterwards that her victims screams were a turn on. She was 12 years old, so young and immature?
And I could go on - the list is very long. MN is very, very good at picking who is guilty and deserves punishment and who doesn't. That is hypocrisy. If you do the crime, you should do the time; but apparently that only applies to the people we don't like.

I would suggest that:
(a) just because the brain is young and immature does not mean that someone does not know right from wrong, or that they should be excused for their crimes.
(b) if you are going to let off a 15 year old murderer because they are young and immature, you must also let off a 15 year old rapist for the same reason - and I know how well that particular argument will go down here, but if we want equality it must be in all quarters, so female crime is as bad a male crime.
(c) you are confusing the crime with the penalty. I think there are very good arguments for serious and radical overhauls of the prison system and the lack of real initiatives to reform, support and change peoples lives for the better. I would be totally in favour of that. But a killer is still a killer. The fact that she is young and female doesn't change that.

No one is “glossing” over the horror of it!

Have you missed adjectives in my posts such as “unforgivable, cruel and truly abhorrent?”

No one is excusing this awful crime.

But I do think it is reasonable to take her youth and distress in to account - nothing more and nothing less.

As for the wider feminist point; anyone who thinks misogyny isnt part of the criminal justice system should just have a quick look at rape conviction figures.

All the other stuff you have written above has nothing to do with what I believe. You are making huge assumptions and huge leaps of imagination in order to back up your opinion.

Even if I did believe all of that stuff you have written, anyone who has done even the most cursory of studies on prisons and convictions and sentences knows that the UK is one of the countries who locks up the most people in Europe and has some of the highest crime rates; so harsh prison sentences in general have not been found to be terribly effective. Rory Stewart’s findings on the subject when he was Prisons’ Minister also backed this up.

And finally: people are allowed to hold different views on this sentencing without being accused in any way of supporting or condoning infanticide.

x2boys · 27/06/2023 18:03

Pythacalling702 · 27/06/2023 17:49

No one is “glossing” over the horror of it!

Have you missed adjectives in my posts such as “unforgivable, cruel and truly abhorrent?”

No one is excusing this awful crime.

But I do think it is reasonable to take her youth and distress in to account - nothing more and nothing less.

As for the wider feminist point; anyone who thinks misogyny isnt part of the criminal justice system should just have a quick look at rape conviction figures.

All the other stuff you have written above has nothing to do with what I believe. You are making huge assumptions and huge leaps of imagination in order to back up your opinion.

Even if I did believe all of that stuff you have written, anyone who has done even the most cursory of studies on prisons and convictions and sentences knows that the UK is one of the countries who locks up the most people in Europe and has some of the highest crime rates; so harsh prison sentences in general have not been found to be terribly effective. Rory Stewart’s findings on the subject when he was Prisons’ Minister also backed this up.

And finally: people are allowed to hold different views on this sentencing without being accused in any way of supporting or condoning infanticide.

Your doing now comparing it to.other crimes
I have seen a,lot of that poor girl.comments
Posters suggesting she shouldn't be in prison
Posters making up.excuses for her
Not much compassion for a tiny defenceless baby tbh.

cheerypip · 27/06/2023 18:27

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 15:46

Same here and I posted about the murder of a 67yr old woman for saying “get over it” to her husband who was whinging about lockdown being hard. He admitted he choked the living daylights out of her. Conviction was manslaughter and a sentence of 5yrs.

In that case, the psychiatric evidence was accepted to give him a partial defence, hence he was convicted of manslaughter with diminished responsibility and received a lower sentence.

In PM's case, psychiatric evidence was also presented, but the jury did not accept that it supported a verdict of infanticide, hence a murder conviction.

I do find it interesting that the judge publicly criticised the psychiatrist appointed by the prosecution, and I wonder if there may be any basis for PM's team to appeal there.

AllOfThemWitches · 27/06/2023 18:45

If I'd read anything to suggest she was actually genuinely remorseful, maybe I'd feel some sympathy.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/06/2023 18:56

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 17:21

What is the airspeed velocity of a swallow laden with a coconut?

Your question is just as batshit and is not at all relevant to what I said- which unlike you- I have backed up with even the published works of the very legal expert you picked! As well as other legal reference texts.

You haven’t just failed to understand the chunk of text you posted; you didn’t even read it properly.

Pythacalling702 · 27/06/2023 19:00

x2boys · 27/06/2023 18:03

Your doing now comparing it to.other crimes
I have seen a,lot of that poor girl.comments
Posters suggesting she shouldn't be in prison
Posters making up.excuses for her
Not much compassion for a tiny defenceless baby tbh.

I’m not going to engage in a tit for tat with you x2boys as I am busy with other things now. I hold a different perspective to you. I’m allowed to. And I do very much feel compassion for the baby as well.

Throwncrumbs · 27/06/2023 19:02

I knew a girl who had a baby at home then just hid the baby in a carrier bag in the wardrobe. She did nothing else to the baby. The baby was found to have taken a breath but died due to no care being given. The girl was convicted of manslaughter. This girl murdered the baby in a horrific and violent manner. She murdered the baby and is right where she needs to be!

Quveas · 27/06/2023 19:39

@Pythacalling702 "You are making huge assumptions and huge leaps of imagination in order to back up your opinion."

You really must read your own posts before you accuse others.

This thread is the worst hypocrisy and so typical of this site now.

Florenz · 27/06/2023 19:43

Sentencing in this country is far too lenient. People who commit murder should spend a significant part of their life in prison, not just a few years.

CoralBells · 27/06/2023 19:45

AP5Diva · 27/06/2023 08:06

Although she gave birth in the front room, I completely agree with you OP.
There will be no sort of manslaughter defence like infanticide available to girls or women if this conviction stands. It’s unfair. It’s too harsh a punishment.

This man got 5yrs for violently killing his wife because she said “get over it” when he said he was finding lockdown hard.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/feb/18/anthony-williams-killed-wife-act-of-great-violence-jailed-for-five-years

Yet a CHILD to you for sex gets 12yrs because they found pregnancy and childbirth hard and traumatic?! Something which is well known to psychologists and psychiatrists to be one of the most stressful time of a woman’s life- much less an underage child.

I agree with you. If this man got 5 years why has a vulnerable child got 15?

Bathintheshed · 27/06/2023 19:54

The likelihood is that the baby wasn't planned, but there is no proof it wasn't. The baby was murdered in a brutal way. We have no way to gauge the risk of her reoffending. For all we know she may well have enjoyed murdering the baby, and could become pregnant again with the intent of murdering other babies. I am incredibly pro choice, but no, I do not support brutal child murder.

Pythacalling702 · 27/06/2023 19:55

Quveas · 27/06/2023 19:39

@Pythacalling702 "You are making huge assumptions and huge leaps of imagination in order to back up your opinion."

You really must read your own posts before you accuse others.

This thread is the worst hypocrisy and so typical of this site now.

Respectfully, please try and accept that others may legitimately hold different opinions to you! This is a discussion board!

Pythacalling702 · 27/06/2023 19:59

And just to clarify, feeling compassion for a 15 year old who commits murder doesn’t automatically mean you support brutal child murder either! It is possible to condemn the crime AND feel compassion for the child perpetrator being in that situation. Is that so hard to understand or has all nuance left the building?

LookAtThatArtwork · 27/06/2023 20:05

Anyone capable of murder deserves a lengthy jail term. Just because someone is vulnerable does not allow them to get away with literal murder.

Faybian · 27/06/2023 20:22

The judge actually increased her sentence because she was his mother saying 'you were guilty of a fundamental abuse of the trust that is placed in every mother by her child. Taken with the vulnerability of the child this is a very significantly aggravating feature' . The whole point of infanticide is that it applies to mothers killing their children, especially imediately after birth. This was a classic case of infanticide, she was vulnerable, she was in denial about the pregnancy, she had just given birth and she cannot remember what happened clearly. This is a miscarriage of justice. She is guilty but 12 years for this type of crime committed at 15 is just plain wrong. https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/murder-or-infanticide-understanding-the-causes-behind-the-most-shocking-of-crimes-a7820806.html

Understanding the causes behind the most shocking of crimes

The killing of a newborn baby by its mother is both shocking and rare - but more needs to be done to understand the mental condition of the women that commit it

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/murder-or-infanticide-understanding-the-causes-behind-the-most-shocking-of-crimes-a7820806.html

AllOfThemWitches · 27/06/2023 21:31

Bathintheshed · 27/06/2023 19:54

The likelihood is that the baby wasn't planned, but there is no proof it wasn't. The baby was murdered in a brutal way. We have no way to gauge the risk of her reoffending. For all we know she may well have enjoyed murdering the baby, and could become pregnant again with the intent of murdering other babies. I am incredibly pro choice, but no, I do not support brutal child murder.

I doubt the baby was planned but unless they are incredibly sheltered, most 14 year olds know that sex = possible pregnancy.

Quveas · 27/06/2023 22:09

Pythacalling702 · 27/06/2023 19:55

Respectfully, please try and accept that others may legitimately hold different opinions to you! This is a discussion board!

Oh I see - my opinion doesn't count but yours does? There really isn't any respect in your continuing to try to shut down any opinion that isn't yours. You use a lot of words, but no evidence of anything except your opinion. Wheras I have used facts that are verifiable. But facts aren't something much in evidence around here at times. My opinion is that this is hypocrisy, and you still haven't countered a single argument based on fact that I or anyone else have made. She murdered a baby, over several hours, tried to hide that fact, and has shown not a shred of remorse. Those are facts which a judge and jury have weighed over a great deal of time. But of course you know better than they do because you read a couple of articles.

You do realise that "discussion" involves a variety of views and not just the one that you adhere to? Again, please read your own posts before attacking others for something that you are guilty of.

I asked some questions - why don't you answer them? Or just one of them... do you or do you not support the Scottish changes to penal law that enable young rapists to avoid the legal system because their brains are not fully developed and are immature and there are better ways of dealing with them than imprisoning them? Because it is exactly the same principle. I do not accept that rapists should go free, and nor do I agree that murderers should.

Quveas · 27/06/2023 22:10

AllOfThemWitches · 27/06/2023 21:31

I doubt the baby was planned but unless they are incredibly sheltered, most 14 year olds know that sex = possible pregnancy.

And most 14 year olds know that a sustained attack on a child designed to kill it is murder.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/06/2023 22:18

Bathintheshed · 27/06/2023 19:54

The likelihood is that the baby wasn't planned, but there is no proof it wasn't. The baby was murdered in a brutal way. We have no way to gauge the risk of her reoffending. For all we know she may well have enjoyed murdering the baby, and could become pregnant again with the intent of murdering other babies. I am incredibly pro choice, but no, I do not support brutal child murder.

This post is proper mad stuff eh

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/06/2023 22:20

Pythacalling702 · 27/06/2023 19:59

And just to clarify, feeling compassion for a 15 year old who commits murder doesn’t automatically mean you support brutal child murder either! It is possible to condemn the crime AND feel compassion for the child perpetrator being in that situation. Is that so hard to understand or has all nuance left the building?

Yes. Yes it has. Together with its friends, balance and factual accuracy

christmassausages · 27/06/2023 22:20

Why was she named if this happened when she was 15 years old?

AP5Diva · 28/06/2023 09:21

CoralBells · 27/06/2023 19:45

I agree with you. If this man got 5 years why has a vulnerable child got 15?

The cynic in me thinks outcomes so inconsistent mean that the life of a baby boy is worth 3x more than the life of a woman past childbearing age. It seems to me that society still thinks women are for making babies, especially boy babies, and the worst type of killing is that of a baby boy. But killing a 67yr old woman who is no longer useful to society, she’s past it, can’t make babies is merely an ooopsy, oh well here’s 5yrs. Whereas a girl who kills a baby cannot be trusted to fulfill her function as a woman of making babies so lock her up and throw away the key with a life sentence that has a minimum custodial tariff of 12yrs.

There’s misogyny in our justice system.

AP5Diva · 28/06/2023 09:29

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/06/2023 18:56

You haven’t just failed to understand the chunk of text you posted; you didn’t even read it properly.

You’ve got nothing but personal attacks and batshit questions that aren’t even vaguely related to the point I made that you initially objected to. A point that I have more than supported with linked legal texts, even quoted from the one textbook on Amazon which you told me to go and read like I was some student- you probably had no idea that I have that book and it actually supports my point…did you randomly Google “legal case law textbook” and then link the book on Amazon thinking you could get away with it? And you’ve posted nothing else to back up your dismissal of my point. Nada. If “every English lawyer” agreed with you, wouldn’t it be in a legal text somewhere? The reason you haven’t linked anything else is because it does not exist.

Now it’s just you stubbornly calling me stupid in different ways. But carry on, I think readers have cottoned on to you.

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