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The head of the IOPC has been charged with raping a girl under 16

232 replies

Clymene · 16/06/2023 10:06

Michael Lockwood.

Fucking hell, the police are riddled with these allegedly rapey men

Post edited by MNHQ

OP posts:
Felix125 · 18/06/2023 17:03

ChateauMargaux

No one is saying that victims/survivors of sexual violence will be classed as a predator

Felix125 · 18/06/2023 17:11

AutumnCrow
What part of 'No' is he struggling with?

The fact that it is a chat forum and I am free to post so long as I adhere to the talk guidelines set by MNHQ

Felix125 · 18/06/2023 17:13

PegasusReturns

Should I share my experiences of barristers and solicitors.........?

I'll leave that to a different thread.

AlisonDonut · 18/06/2023 17:14

AutumnCrow · 18/06/2023 17:00

I can understand that completely.

What part of 'No' is he struggling with?

The part many men struggle with?

Same as many men not allowing women to talk amongst themselves without a man's 'oversight'.

So creepy.

AutumnCrow · 18/06/2023 17:48

AlisonDonut · 18/06/2023 17:14

The part many men struggle with?

Same as many men not allowing women to talk amongst themselves without a man's 'oversight'.

So creepy.

Aye, creepy as fuck.

Felix125 · 18/06/2023 17:52

Equally the same as:

Many women not allowing men to talk without a woman's 'oversight'.

So creepy.

SirQuintusAureliusMaximus · 18/06/2023 17:55

The former director general of the Independent Office for Police Conduct?

What the hell is going on with society?

I understand the principle of innocent until proven guilty but someone in that kind of role shouldn't even be in the bracket of suspicion for charge.

AutumnCrow · 18/06/2023 18:47

SirQuintusAureliusMaximus · 18/06/2023 17:55

The former director general of the Independent Office for Police Conduct?

What the hell is going on with society?

I understand the principle of innocent until proven guilty but someone in that kind of role shouldn't even be in the bracket of suspicion for charge.

It's awful, sickening, shocking and yet not even remotely surprising all in the same bracket these days.

PegasusReturns · 20/06/2023 00:01

@Felix125

”Should I share my experiences of barristers and solicitors.........?”

knock yourself out, but know your desperation to deflect is nauseating.

Consider why you feel compelled to defend a group of men far more likely to be involved in domestic and sexual violence than the general public

justiceandtruth · 20/06/2023 12:06

@coffeedrinkers @medianewbie sounds like we’ve all had the same experiences. At some point it needs to be women like us that challenge it. How that’s done is beyond me at the moment though.

Felix125 · 20/06/2023 13:24

PegasusReturns
Since you're deflecting away from the subject matter of the thread - a male who has never been a police officer being charged, not convicted yet but charged. It isn't a giant step to look at barristers & solicitors moral compass since you brought them into the equation.

Its about 20% of the general public who will be involved in a domestic abuse incident as a perpetrator (ONS). Its about 1% of police who face some sort of criminal charge (for any offence - not just DV cases) as of last year.

So you are far more likely to be a perpetrator of DV as a member of the general public than you are as a police officer.

Clymene · 20/06/2023 13:31

Just leaving this here: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/police-super-complaints-force-response-to-police-perpetrated-domestic-abuse/police-perpetrated-domestic-abuse-report-on-the-centre-for-womens-justice-super-complaint

From the conclusion (PPDA=police perpetrated domestic abuse)

We found that the forces where we conducted case file reviews are not always doing enough to ensure all PPDA cases are properly and impartially investigated. Similarly, these forces were found to not be doing enough to reassure victims that the police response will be impartial and that there are robust safeguards against corruption, collusion and abuse of police powers.

We have found that there are a variety of other risks, beyond corruption, collusion and abuse of police powers, that forces need to take into account in cases of PPDA, as well as additional responsibilities. Police failure to consistently manage all the extra risks and responsibilities associated with PPDA cases is creating and exacerbating poor outcomes for victims and the public.

OP posts:
Felix125 · 20/06/2023 13:47

From the same report:

"....The data we have collected points towards PPDA allegations being no less likely to result in charges being pressed against the suspect than any other domestic abuse allegation..."

medianewbie · 20/06/2023 14:14

PegasusReturns · 18/06/2023 17:03

Agree, rotten to the core.

I’m so sick of police lying. As a barrister I’ve seen police withhold evidence; fabricate evidence; lie about incidents; assault/threaten/harass defendants and witnesses; send rape threats/dick pics to vulnerable women; shag mistresses whilst on duty; engage in gratuitous violence; “lose” original statements; “forget” to switch on/retain cctv; doctor surveillance records and on and on.

If you don’t deal with this stuff day in day out you wouldn’t believe how awful it is.

@PegasusReturns Thank you for posting this. It is as I suspected, having worked with the Police when employed by Women's Aid during which observed inappropriate 'banter' & a very slack approach to evidence & Court.
Later having experience of the Police as a DV survivor myself I saw how bad it could be from a survivors point of view. Both times, when I expressed my concerns, I was told to shut up. I felt there was some professional collusion outwith the Police (as well as within) so it's helpful to hear a Barrister being honest about their experiences too.

medianewbie · 20/06/2023 14:38

@Felix125 the subject of the thread is the Head of the IOPC, one Micheal Lockwood, being charged with both indecent Assault & Rape. This is both true & relevant. There is an early comment about out 'disgusting rapey men' being in the Police. This is both true & relevant.
Various posters, including myself, then discuss their appalling experiences of the 'justice' system in the UK. This is both true & relevant.

Felix125 · 20/06/2023 14:50

medianewbie

I agree - so it follows that if the discussion then moves to how bad police are in the courts & judicial process as being true and relevant - then the behaviour of barristers and solicitors in the court & judicial process becomes true and relevant. Particularly when barristers were brought into the discussion by another poster.

AlisonDonut · 20/06/2023 14:55

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Felix125 · 20/06/2023 14:58

AlisonDonut
Well no, as women not allowing men to talk without oversight doesn't happen does it?

It seems to on here.

Nightlystroll · 20/06/2023 15:10

Felix125 · 18/06/2023 17:11

AutumnCrow
What part of 'No' is he struggling with?

The fact that it is a chat forum and I am free to post so long as I adhere to the talk guidelines set by MNHQ

Of course you are. If we only listen to opinions or information that echo what's already in our head, then we can never expand outside our own world. We can all learn from other people's experience and knowledge. It's good to be challenged by other people's opinions, as long as they're not abusive or oppressive. That's how we test and develop our own beliefs.

Brefugee · 20/06/2023 15:13

Felix125 · 20/06/2023 14:58

AlisonDonut
Well no, as women not allowing men to talk without oversight doesn't happen does it?

It seems to on here.

my heart, as we used to say in the army, pumps purple piss (for you)

You can't handle the fact that we know men in positions of authority (ab)use that authority (given to them by society) to abuse women. You know that too, and certainly many senior police know that too.

So in this tiny corner of internetland where we do have the power to call you out on every single statement, you don't like it? You know where the exit is.

Brefugee · 20/06/2023 15:14

We found that the forces where we conducted case file reviews are not always doing enough to ensure all PPDA cases are properly and impartially investigated.

I'll also draw resident plod's attention to this part. again. (it's from the post by @Clymene )

Felix125 · 20/06/2023 15:40

Brefugee

There are all sorts of people who are placed in positions of authority, who abuse that position. Its not just men. We have already mentioned on here women teachers, nurses, carers & cleaners who steal from vulnerable people and caught on hidden cameras. Both men & women do this, its not just a 'men' problem.

I'm not saying I don't like being called out or argued with over the relevant subject matter. That's how a discussion forum works. What I don't agree with is not being allowed to talk on here and simply receiving abusive comments (as above).

And if you want to mock that by saying "...my heart, as we used to say in the army, pumps purple piss (for you)..." and not calling it out then are you condoning it? Its a bit like your references to police not calling out the bad behaviour of other cops.

We found that the forces where we conducted case file reviews are not always doing enough to ensure all PPDA cases are properly and impartially investigated.

However:

"....The data we have collected points towards PPDA allegations being no less likely to result in charges being pressed against the suspect than any other domestic abuse allegation..."

So there is no conspiracy here then.

Lost of cases are not properly investigated. They should be, but there are a whole host of reasons for that. A lot of that is down to resources, time, safeguarding issues taking police away from that investigation and being able to cover all lines of enquiry. We are under resourced and can't cope with the jobs coming in - let alone investigate the ones we already have.

We go to a pub fight - in theory all 200 people in that pub are witnesses to it (if they are not suspects). Would you expect us to get statements from all 200 people? And if so, when do we get the time to do that especially if the offence is time barred?

PegasusReturns · 20/06/2023 15:55

@Felix125

you seem to be struggling with comprehension. The subject of the thread is the depravity of the person responsible for overseeing the organisation mandated with investigating serious police conduct.

Naturally, that has led to a discussion of police misconduct, due to his role in setting standards for the police through the recommendation of remediation. That’s not deflecting.

I didn’t bring barristers and solicitors into the equation, other than to specify how I have directly experienced so much police conduct. But as I say if you want to share your experiences go for it. Unlike you, I won’t be supporting men who commit male violence, whatever they might do for a living.

Felix125 · 20/06/2023 16:00

PegasusReturns
Unlike you, I won’t be supporting men who commit male violence, whatever they might do for a living.

And where have I done this exactly - since you're accusing me of it?

I won't deflect from the subject matter further - but if people want to know my experiences of solicitors & barristers, they can ask.

medianewbie · 20/06/2023 16:25

Felix125 · 20/06/2023 14:50

medianewbie

I agree - so it follows that if the discussion then moves to how bad police are in the courts & judicial process as being true and relevant - then the behaviour of barristers and solicitors in the court & judicial process becomes true and relevant. Particularly when barristers were brought into the discussion by another poster.

@Felix125 so, you 'agree' with me that, eg the behaviour of barristers / the judicial process is relevant. Yet in your further post very shortly after you refer to any discussion of barristers as thread 'deflection' but say we can 'ask you if we want to know'. I think you've got a bit muddled here ?

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