@Nonchalent I'm not sure either. I have a bull breed. A rescue. Staffy x. He weighs 30kg. So if I need to, I can of course over power him. Thankfully in the 12 years since I adopted him, he's never showed a hint of aggression apart from when I was being attacked.
I adopted him as I love his face and his sad little backstory. He actually looked small on the fb photos, but when I went to meet him he was a big boy. He's been the most loyal and loving boy and got me through a lot of tough times.
If he weighed 60kg plus I'd have no hope of controlling him if he didn't want me to.
But then I don't own him to scare or intimidate people. I had no children at the time I got him. I still don't but do have a stepson now. I'd never leave them unattended together.
I had an XL bully break into my house not so long ago. Smashed a hole through the fence, the back door was open and in it came. Thankfully she was a friendly girl towards me and my dogs - but it did give me a shock when I found her in the kitchen! She was huge and her size and power was off putting.
I did think for a second, if she attacks my dogs and I try to help them, I'll get hurt. The man who owns her sells drugs, say no more 🤦♀️
I'm so sorry for your loss.