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Would you let 8yo walk 0.3 miles part of school run on their own?

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SchoolRunQ · 15/05/2023 10:15

I'm contemplating changing my work hours that will mean one day a week I won't be around for the school dropoff. We have two children that go to separate schools so DH and I usually take one each. There aren't any other parents that go from where we are to school to team up with.

So one day a week DH will be doing drop off for both and to minimise walking distance for the smallest one, planning to drop off DD age 8 (and a half!) on the pavement where she will have to walk 0.3 miles (about 6 mins) straight up that pavement then will arrive at the school. No crossing involved. We currently leave her further up that road anyway to walk the last few metres alone (there is a steady stream of kids and parents going the same way). She's bright and sensible but can be oblivious to surroundings so that's why I wanted to gauge opinion! It's a 20mph road with some traffic but never fast as there are traffic queues at the end of the road.

Don't know if I'm being overly precious even questioning this - she's my first child so not left them alone to walk anywhere before but might be good to start building a little bit of independence!

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usernother · 18/05/2023 12:32

From the age of 5 (reception class) we walked the 10 min walk to and from school alone. Inner city so plenty of people around.

GingerNutMe · 18/05/2023 12:47

You clearly have some concern about it given that your posting about it - but I'm not sure I understand why hubby can't drive the extra 0.3 of a mile to drop them off?!

Natsku · 18/05/2023 12:52

GingerNutMe · 18/05/2023 12:47

You clearly have some concern about it given that your posting about it - but I'm not sure I understand why hubby can't drive the extra 0.3 of a mile to drop them off?!

He's walking to drop the children off, not driving. Driving short distances is really not good.

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SchoolRunQ · 18/05/2023 12:53

Driving is not an option.
The thread is about walking.

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liveforsummer · 18/05/2023 16:50

MadMadaMim · 18/05/2023 09:29

You can't take her, DH can't take her, nobody near you goes to the school (weird in a village).

Plus the sci-fi scenario where everyone 'beams' to the gate (star trek style) as soon as they open.

You've no choice. DD has to walk alone whether she's ready or not.

This or dd and the toddler could suck it up and walk the few extra minutes as it's the distance not the timings that are the apparent issue

Macinae · 18/05/2023 21:29

I walked about that distance at that age from school, where my older brother would meet me at the bottom of the hill on his way from secondary school to continue the walk home. I would say it's fine. No stop offs, no talking to strangers etc.

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