Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

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I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

Yes and no because it was a holiday fling. I was 15 and he was one of many blokes cruising the beach. Which was where it happened.

I remember his name (think I have a beer mat with name and address on!) and have a photo of us, I liked to think he looked a bit like George Michael 😂 I just desperately wanted to know what sex was like. I fancied one of the other boys a lot more but was scared by that feeling.

Yes, I remember. He was pushy and I can see now that was wrong of him. He was very well-endowed, which wasn’t ideal given the circumstances, but having no one to compare him to, I didn’t realise that for years.

We’re not in contact anymore, which is fine by me. I don’t hate him, but part of me hopes he’s now fat and bald.

Yes - one of a wider friendship group. We dated for a while after. He was another one who was very well endowed and it hurt so much, I refused to try again for a few months 😂. He proposed to me so I wouldn’t leave Revolutions to go back to school for double biology. I remember we got free White Russians for that! We haven’t been in contact for 20 years but sure he’s knocking around somewhere. Lovely lad.

16 at a very posh 21st birthday party. I do remember the guy, but I remember the setting more, in a folly by a lake. I never saw him again which was fine.

Yes, and we’re still together 41 years later, married for 38.

Yes. We later married and divorced. As far as still being in contact, I'd rather chew glass.

Met him at 15. Shagged him at 16. Pregnant at 17. Married him at 18. Divorced him at 20.

Still in contact for the sake of DS.

Yes, I was 17 and we are still very much in contact because I married him. ❤️

I do. We're not in contact any more but I still have very fond memories of him.

Yes. We are still FB friends and chat occasionally, 40 years later!

Yes.

Two decades later, still getting it on!

No and yes still remember Deirdre, we were 15 very intense teen romance. 42yr ago... Sometimes wonder how she fared in life.

16th birthday, he was 28.. i wanted to see what all the fuss was about.
I used to see and chat with him in the town i lived in, but never went back for 2nds..

I was 16, he was 24 Always bumped into him numerous times over the years and would always stop to chat. Sadly he died from Covid shortly after lockdown started.

First boyfriend, in school from 16 to 18, we even sat together in our Maths class. No contact for the following 30+ years but I did go to his funeral.

Yes, I sadly can’t forget his name. We were together for 3 years and I was 17 when I lost my virginity to him. Not in contact; he was horrible.

Yes I remember his name. I was 15 and it was an act of drunken self destruction. I was a bit messed up back then, thankfully it's 50million years ago and worked through all that low self esteem crap.

I was 15, he was 16. Many, many years ago now but we happily chat if we spot each other out.

Yes I remember and no, as he’s dead.

We were both 17. He was my first boyfriend. He got in touch with me via FB a few years back.
His name is the same as the guy I am seeing now... which does weird me out a little.

Yes. I married him, still married to him.

I would assume most of us know who we lost our virginity to as it's such a huge step! Mine was my 19 year boyfriend, I was also 19, we had been together for about 18 months. Previously I had gone to bed with a few guys but didn't go all the way, just didn't feel ready. I didn't tell him he was my first, felt too embarrassed as he had had a couple of girlfriends before he who he had sex with. Oh being young and naive eh x

Yes, high school boyfriend after two years together. It was very special. And I hope my child has a healthy relationship like that when he's older.

We are still friends now- not super close as I live abroad- but keep in touch and still make the effort to meet when we can, usually with partners. He came to my wedding. I didn't with his but it was Covid and I was pregnant. I really like his wife.

We both have small kids now under a year apart and cannot wait for them to meet when I'm back!

Yes, we were both 17.

Broke up aged 18, had a few years doing our own thing (uni, travelling etc) but met up again and have been together since 2007. Now have 3 DC.

Yes and no - we were at uni, he was my friend's housemate and he pursued me for ages, only to completely ignore me afterwards, the twat. It was a great shag though, no complaints. I've not seen him since although a friend did bump into him once and he asked how I was. Having stalked him on social media I'd definitely still go there if the chance arose. Still hot.