Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

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I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

I was 15, he was 20 and an absolute twat. Together for 3 years and I wish I had seen the light sooner! Haven’t spoken in years

Haha yes, we are Facebook friends and we would pass the time of day in Tesco I guess. Wouldn't call him a friend in real life these days but wouldn't cross the street to avoid him either.

I was 19, he was my first serious boyfriend and we were together ten years. We're still in touch very occasionally - like the odd birthday message.

I remember his name, I was 16 and he was 18. I remember the experience too, which was dreadful, and put me off trying it again for a couple of years! I haven't seen him since he moved away to university, no idea where he is now.

I was 15, his name was Billy and we were together for about 3 years on and off. Not still in contact but he does still live in the area and have seen him occasionally. I don't give him the time of day. He was my first love and treated me terribly towards the end and smashed my heart in to a million pieces. He also borrowed money from my parents and never paid it back. He was also bit of a sex pest and doubt that's changed. He's now in the police. Says it all!

Yes. I'm married to him.

Yes and No. I was 13 and didn’t actually know what I was doing (wasn’t drunk - just young). Nowadays it would probably be classed as rape tbh.

Yes I remember who and no I'm not in touch with him as he is dead.

Yes. I was 16 and it was a good experience, thankfully – it very easily could have not been, I was a stupid 16 year old. He's occasionally on TV, and his (more famous) partner is quite regularly, which is very bizarre! We're not in touch regularly but did exchange messages a few years ago and it was all friendly.

...and having done a quick Google, I've discovered that his partner is in fact now his wife. Missed that!

Yes and no he was an arsehole of the highest order.

I was 15 (pretending to be 16) he was 26 - yuk!

Definitely not in contact

Yes. He was (and still is) lovely.

We’ve kept sporadic contact over the intervening 28 (jeepers!) years and if I’m in his part of London we sometimes meet for lunch.

His DH is a specialist in a medical condition DS has and was very kind in supporting us a few years ago.

DH is in touch with his first girlfriend, an architect who did the amazing redesign on DBIL’s house.

I now think we might be a bit strange!

Yes. I'm with him now 30 years later. It hasn't been continuous though!

Yes. On my 16th birthday, he was 22 (we'd already been going out for several months). So all kinds of wrong. It was rubbish as he was so inexperienced and teensy tiny tackle. But it did improve and we stayed together for another 2 years.

I broke it off to start seeing a really hot guy at my Sixth Form. My ex went absolutely postal, turning up at college, stalking, leaving flowers under my windscreen wipers in the middle of the night.

First time I had sex with new hot boyfriend I was <ahem> shocked at the size of him, also it really hurt and there was blood! So technically I think I actually lost my virginity to him?

Hot boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years and broke my heart. Briefly got back in touch with Teensy Tiny which was a huge mistake. He was still stalkerish and proposed within days. I ran a mile.

No longer in contact with Teensy Tiny Todger. I did hear that he moved to Hull about 30 years ago.

Still sometimes see Hot Boyfriend as he's my now best friend's cousin. He's still great company but not remotely hot anymore. DH and him get on well as both are obsessed with rugby, cricket and golf!

Over 43 years ago still remember her name, often wonder how she fared in life. Not in contact in any way.

Yes, I was 19, he was my first serious boyfriend and we are still in touch and went to each other's weddings.

Aren't in much contact but do send each other the odd Whatsapp message to say happy birthday and the like. I last saw him about two years ago, at a parkrun!

It's my 30 year virginity losing anniversary this year 😂I was 17 at the time and we're friends on FB , he lives on the other side of the world now.

Probably 17, and an Alex, too.

No contact for decades. In fact I googled him a couple of years ago (distinctive surname) and found he’d gone bankrupt in the 90s. 😱

I am married to him, but we didn't see each other for a couple of decades in-between!

Yes, and no. Sadly he died in his mid 30s

Yes and no. Apart from vaguely remembering the day in question, I can barely remember anything else about being with him. I think we 'dated' for a few weeks / months.