Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

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I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

Same. Plus for a time, casual sex was like a hobby for me and so it was a case of ships in the night. [shrug]

Yes I remember him. Not in touch and wouldn't want to be. He was a complete loser. I did Google him once as I wondered what became of him. He has a pretty uncommon name but I couldn't find him so I guess the answer is not much.

Really? Your first time, romantic or not, is there really anyone who doesn't. It usually means something.

I think he was called James. He had blond hair and was studying pharmacy at Aston University. Definitely not still in touch, didn't see him again after that night.

I'd love to say I remember everyone I slept with before I met my husband but it was a long time ago, a lot of beer was always had and it's all a bit hazy.

? Not sure what's funny about my comment

Yes and no

Yes, almost happened in a tent at a festival but we waited a few more weeks.

Yes,he's a mate. Don't see him that often but we're on good terms. It was a long time ago.

Yes, we're married

I remember his name but we aren't in touch. I think it was just before my 18th birthday and he was the same age.

I was the only one of my friends who didn't know he had a girlfriend (he was a friend of a friend from outside the area). Apparently he confessed to his girlfriend straight away.
I didn't keep in touch with that group after college finished a couple of weeks later so no idea what happened to him.

Yes, he's one of my FB friends!

Yes, we were a couple for a few years but we don't keep in touch. I wish him well though. We just grew up and apart, as you do between 16 and 19yrs.

Yes, my first boyfriend and father of my child (I got pregnant when I was 17). Still have sporadic contact but only to do with finances. He has no contact with DS but thinks he's a hero because he pays maintenance.

Yes. I was 16 and we went out for 3 years. We're still in touch 42 years after splitting up. He now lives thousands of miles away but I'm friends with his wife and children and dils. I've not met the grandchildren because they haven't travelled back to the UK yet.

I’m not entirely sure of everyone I slept with. I was very very drunk with some of them.

Me too. I do remember who I lost my virginity to though. He was deeply unpleasant. We're not still in touch.

Yes, and god no. He was a knob and gave me a complex about sex I’ve only really got over in my 40’s!

Wanker.

Yes, and we're still married 35 years later, the only person I've ever slept with.

Yes I remember his name. Bleugh no way, i was 15 he was 25 and he stalked me for a couple of years after we broke up
He did try and connect on Linked in a few years ago

Yes

No

Yes, I was in year 10 and we had been dating for about a month. Carried on dating on and off for about 2 years then split because he was getting heavily into drugs and more violent (not to me) and unpredictable. Definitely not in contact now! I can’t listen to the Blink 182 song that was on when it happened without remembering it 😬

No. Can't even remember his name 😂 was drunk on holiday.

We were together about six months before and carried on for another year's or so.,not still.in touch he has a huge problem.with alcohol and he still.lived with his parents at the age of 50not my finest tbh.

Yes, week 2 of my honeymoon with DH. I was a bit unsophisticated to say the least.

Oh I'll not forget him. After we had sex he snuck off to have sex with someone else an hour later. I dread to think where his dick had been before me!

After he shagged the entire town, he came out as gay

Yes, but then I was 21 and have only had 3 sexual partners so it's not exactly a stretch. We are still very good friends, in fact we only ever were but it was just FWB for a few months. My DH is friends with him too (and knows our history).

Yup - married him.