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Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

272 replies

Soubriquet · 20/04/2023 14:38

I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

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slowquickstep · 20/04/2023 17:05

Married him then divorced him after 20 years (should have done it after 3)

KvotheTheBloodless · 20/04/2023 17:05

Yes, absolutely. I was 19, we were in love, I never told him it was my first time though (Catholic, conflicted about it all). Couldn't tell you the date though.

Simonjt · 20/04/2023 17:05

Yes, but then I was 26 and we almost married him, we’re still very close friends and see each other quite often.

Mirandawrongs · 20/04/2023 17:07

Yes, I was 16. He is a bit older
he is very famous.

so I see him everywhere!
makes me smile to think of him as the nervous young lad!

Bigminnie1 · 20/04/2023 17:08

We were 18 and together for a year. Over 30 years later, we are still good friends and he's married to one of by closest friends!

Littlegoth · 20/04/2023 17:11

The day before my 17th birthday. He sadly died very young. We had split up by then but it was amicable. We had the same friendship group so remained friendly. He was a lovely man and I’m sad he’s gone.

GrandTheftWalrus · 20/04/2023 17:11

Unfortunately yes as I married him.

Last time he spoke to me was over text in July 2018. Silence has been bliss.

ForestofBears · 20/04/2023 17:13

Yes, I was 19.
I haven’t seen him for about 20 years but he messages me regularly on Facebook.

Sewingdufus · 20/04/2023 17:16

Yes. I remember him. We both live in roughly the same area.

Not in contact. Saw him once a couple of months after we split, almost 30 years ago. He left a note through my letterbox a couple of years later, I hid at the back of the house for several weeks after that!

MegaClutterSlut · 20/04/2023 17:18

Yes and no

Acornsoup · 20/04/2023 17:19

Yes and hell no thank you.

SwanPools · 20/04/2023 17:20

Person I did everything but PIV with - yes I remember and I'm not in touch with them directly (as their wife doesn't let them speak to me even think we were friends much longer than we were anything else) but do speak to their parents.

Person I "officially" lost it too, yes remember, no not in contact - it ended badly. I do often wonder how he's getting on though.

Howdoyou · 20/04/2023 17:24

I never really know who to say I lost it to, I know that sounds so stupid. I sort of had sex with someone when I was 15 but it wasn’t really sex because he struggled to penetrate fully Blush so I don’t know if it was him or not. If not, it was a guy who was about 25 when I was 16 and I didn’t speak to him ever again. First guy lives locally to me which is weird because it’s a small village about 30 miles away from our home town. Seen him a couple of times and waved.

mrsDracoMalfoy · 20/04/2023 17:29

Also married to mine

EustaceTheMonk · 20/04/2023 17:33

If a bloke can post:
Yes.
No (but I know she's now a senior police officer).

Tommydoes · 20/04/2023 17:37

My best friends brother - 16 years old, in epping forest. Still see him all the time although we haven't mentioned it since 😂

FluffyPinkSocks · 20/04/2023 17:38

Yes, I remember him. I just looked him up on Facebook, he isn’t quite the Italian stallion he was back then.

FloralWallpaper492 · 20/04/2023 17:39

Yes, now married 😀

Quveas · 20/04/2023 17:39

Yes, no and thank god it's a no. I just looked him up!

CornishGem1975 · 20/04/2023 17:40

I am married to him. (Though we’ve been married to other people inbetween)

Playmobilzoo · 20/04/2023 17:43

He's one of my FB friends but we haven't seen each other or spoken outside of FB in about 10 years (and it's over 20 years since we dated). His daughter (not mine) is the spitting image of him

Badleg85 · 20/04/2023 17:44

We were 16, it was over in about 10 seconds very disappointing. For years after he wanted another shot, I guess to ease his ego but he was a massive dickhead around town. 15 years later he broke the heart of one of my best friends and left her with the worst mental health. I wouldn't speak to him ever again after that

electricmoccasins · 20/04/2023 17:46

Yes, married him.

GoodWithCats2 · 20/04/2023 17:46

I was 17 and he was 21. We had a 12 month relationship then he dumped me. We stayed in contact for about 10 years and in that time I realised he was verging on narcissistic. I lost contact with him for a while and then he tracked me down on social media. He's a pain in the arse and I've ended up blocking him.

TheSaint01 · 20/04/2023 17:47

Majorca, drunk, 1992, never spoke to him again!

Classy!

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