Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

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I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

Oh god, yes I remember, although I wish I didn’t.

I was in America on holiday with my family. I was 16, and he was on his Honeymoon. He was probably in his 40’s.
Looking back, I was 100% coerced into it. But I never said no.

It’s one of the most shameful things I’ve ever done.

I was 16 I can’t even remember his name 😳so defiantly don’t have any contact

Boo you were so young, you shouldn't feel ashamed that's on him.

Sorry meant to say Book

19
Yes and we are still together and married
I'm 54 now

Yes, aged 17 to a guy called Nick who was 29 (😬) and an ex marine.....had jelly legs for hours afterwards!
No...not in touch...
I do sometimes wonder what happened to him..

16, he was one of the most sought after guys in town and he offered me a ride home when I'd had too much to drink and he took a detour and parked up. I happily had 5 second sex with him but next day regretted it. Even worse when I found out he'd told absolutely everyone about it. It was awful as I was labelled a bit easy and he was a hero of course.

This was almost 25 years ago and his wife gives me utterly filthy looks still! He didn't even meet her til about 6 years after the deed so I am stumped as to why. I see her often but have only seen him 2/3 times since.

Yes. We are married.

Yep, I remember him. After a few twists and turns, we're still together 40odd years on!

19, at uni and wanted to get it over with. Hardly felt a thing so not sure if he was micro or not getting it in properly. He was my bf for a while, but I'm not sure why as I didn't feel anything much for him and he was a figure of fun for my friends - bit of a weirdo I guess, looking back. Can't remember now how long we saw each other, how we broke up or what we did together except for the dastardly deed.

Despite the underwhelming sex, I was glad not to be a virgin anymore. Had had a previous bf where we did a lot of very heavy and passionate 'petting' but neither of us dared mention 'it'- such innocence!

Yes I do remember his name in full, but won't post it. No idea where he is now, no interest whatsoever in finding out. Don't think I've ever even put his name into an internet search. (Maybe I will now ....)

Yes. I was 17, I had a massive crush on him for 3 years at school and finally plucked up the courage to ask him out. He was the most popular guy in school and I wasn't part of the cool club - I had known all along he was the person I wanted to lose my virginity to, although I wasn't his first. Watching Normal People reminded me so much of my first love - the intensity of it. We were together for a few years, he was a homebird, he wanted to get married but I ended it to move away to go to university and pursue my dream career and I never saw him again. I often wonder what happened to him, he's not on social media so I have no idea. In my younger years I had hoped fate might bring us back together but it never did. I went on to do everything I'd dreamed of and have no regrets. I'm happily married with my own family.

Yes. I was too young but I adored him.
Not in touch now but he and his second DW had their house featured in one of those lifestyle magazines sometime during the last two years.
I didn't like it.

Oh yes, Steve. I was 17, he was 24. That should have been my red flag but alas no, another 3 years together after that.

We are in sporadic contact now. Not Facebook friends but send each other a fb message on birthdays and have a little catch up.

It was an intense and toxic young love but he wasn't an inherently bad guy, just incredibly immature and I was just incredibly naive. Now approaching 40 he has got his shit together and I'm proud of what he's accomplished when things were very much against him for a long time.

Yes married him

Father of my first son.
Met him at college when I was 16 and lost my virginity to him.
He cheated the whole three years then ignored me when I told him I was pregnant at 19. Was in and out of his life.
A really narcissistic selfish tight twat and no thank God my son is now 22 I do not have to speak to him or see him ever.

Yes, cool lad from school let's call him Liam - we did it in an old folks home garden! No shame 🤦🏼‍♀️ Drunk and it was shite as it usually is first time. Push on three years, it was early hours of Christmas Eve and I was walking home alone after falling out with then BF, saw Liam who was heading to a house party - tagged along and ended up having an amazing threesome with his friend. Certainly made up for the first time! Seen him maybe 4 times since and we just have a cheeky smile and say hi. He's aged well!

Facebook friends. Did the deed once when we were 15. Nearly 35 years ago.
I even remember what I was wearing

Yes. No, he’s dead. Nothing to do with me btw!

Yes, we were way too young but the same age. He was nice. We’re Facebook friends and he’s still good looking 30 years later, he looks happily married with two children (as am I!). It was fine, awkward (it was his first time too) but I had read Forever, so I was well primed for everything during and after.

I married him.

Yes, still married to him, it was nearly 40 years ago i lost my virginity to him

Ooh whats he famous for?

I can remember alright! I was 17,he was 19 and his name was Mark. My first ever boyfriend and I'd had a massive crush on him for months at the college we both attended. We're not in touch any more although I've looked on Facebook for him

I remember him. We were together from about 15-19yrs old (he was about 18 months older). He was pretty good in bed and had a massive knob. Unfortunately it turned out that he also was a massive knob. I left him when I found out he'd been lying about various things.

Then got talking to some bloke online about a week later, thought sod it I'll meet him (back in the days when meeting people online was taboo), drove to his home town 200 miles away in the middle of the night, didn't tell anyone. To be honest I was at rock bottom and if he turned out to be an axe murderer he'd be saving me a job as I was heavily suicidal at that time.
Fast forward 20 years, married, couple of kids, he wasn't a murderer after all.

We were both 16 and he was a very posh boy from the local private school. We lasted three weeks.

He then popped up on Blind Date (chooser) in the early 90s and then became a Conservative MP.

Two years ago he and his (seemingly lovely) wife sat next to me in our local cafe. We managed to not make any eye contact.