Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

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I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

Yes, I was 17 and he was 20, that age gap felt huge at the time. He was an absolute weirdo and looking back I don’t know what was going through my mind 😂 not been in contact for a long time.

My husband

Yes, I remember. He dumped me within about a month for something I had told him about myself soon after we met. (This was a medical issue, not something I had done or had any control over.)

He was very late twenties, not a teenager.

Same and same

Yes I remember him.. I was 17 (I still remember what the date was! And I’m 39 now). We dated for 3 years afterwards. No longer in contact with him but I still am with his Mum and we meet up for coffee a few times a year.

We are still Facebook friends. We stayed in contact on and off for a few years but now only send birthday wishes.

which time?

Yes 17 with my dd's father. We are still friends

My university boyfriend. Haven't had contact with him for about 37 years but I know where he lives and what he does for a living.

I’m married to him 😳

Yes, I married him.

Yes and no

I remember him very well …. I’ve been married to him for over thirty years!

Yes and no, though my sister is still Facebook 'friends' with him so I could contact him via her if I wanted to.

Yes, despite it being a very long time ago as I was 8

no

Yep, married him and we have 2 kids now

Yes we knew each other from when we were at school. He is now married to a friend I had from the same school.
I don't know if she knows 😏

I remember but thankfully not in touch anymore. I was 17 and he was very controlling and manipulative.

We're FB friends, but I haven't spoken to him in years.

I did actually bump into him a couple of times when I first worked in London in the early 2000s (we are not from London). Then, very randomly, I saw his name pop up in relation to some work he did in my local area last year that a friend (who doesn't know him) posted about.

My ex-husband! We are no longer in contact

Yes, I was 19 and met him at my part time work...he tried for weeks to date me but I resisted... finally convinced me to sleep with him...to then dump me on the day he was meant to meet my parents (made up a bullshit excuse)...obviously not in contact anymore but im sure hes still a piece of 💩...

This experience has made me very cautious, suspicious and untrusting of men...

Yes, at 16. He was the love of my life. We were engaged and he broke it off. I was devastated. For some reason I started randomly dreaming about him, and then I found out he had died of a heart attack a few years before. I probably dodged a bullet because he was married twice, but his second wife was the spitting image of me 😂
I'm nearly 70 now!

I'm sorry this happened to you

No. I was 15, we were together 5 months and he was my first love, but we never stayed in touch after we split up. Too painful at the time, although obviously I don't care for him now as it was 20 years ago.

Reader, I married him!