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Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

272 replies

Soubriquet · 20/04/2023 14:38

I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

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skippy67 · 20/04/2023 15:15

Yep, I'm married to him.

pontipinemum · 20/04/2023 15:15

Both 16. I haven't talked to him/ seen him in years. I'd love to have a stalk on SM but I wouldn't. I want to look because I'm a nose bag, not because I want to get back with him!!

Celia24 · 20/04/2023 15:16

Yes, he was my first love. Only now in infrequent contact - saw him recently at his sibling's funeral, very sad but nice to see him.

DramaAlpaca · 20/04/2023 15:17

Yes and no

SockQueen · 20/04/2023 15:18

Yes, I was 20, he was my boyfriend for 2 years or so afterwards. No longer in contact though.

SnappilyMarried · 20/04/2023 15:19

I remember him. I was 16, he was 15. It was June 2002.

I dated him for several months when I was 16.
I fancied him rotten at first but got the ick pretty quickly.
But he had a super, super hot friend so I kept dating him to get at his mate.

We haven't been in touch since I unceremoniously binned him when his super, super hot mate sent me a message on MSN Messenger saying he fancied me.

😬😬😬😬😬😬

Elderflower14 · 20/04/2023 15:19

Not going to answer as this is perfect Daily Mail fodder!!!

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Soubriquet · 20/04/2023 15:19

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 20/04/2023 15:12

Oh I'll not forget him. After we had sex he snuck off to have sex with someone else an hour later. I dread to think where his dick had been before me!

After he shagged the entire town, he came out as gay

Yeah…..mine had sex with me…and then fucked off to play WOW whilst I mopped up the blood and moped in his room.

The relationship didn’t last long, and he wondered why at the time.

Considering we lived miles away from each other, it meant me travelling to see him. Was a kick in the teeth when I get a quick kiss and then he had to go play WOW whilst I stayed in his room and watched tv

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Minikievs · 20/04/2023 15:23

Yes, aged 18. Remember his name. Still in contact with his sister. Bumped into his parents at Aldi a few weeks ago. Apparently he's still an arsehole 25 years later 🙄

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 20/04/2023 15:24

Soubriquet · 20/04/2023 15:19

Yeah…..mine had sex with me…and then fucked off to play WOW whilst I mopped up the blood and moped in his room.

The relationship didn’t last long, and he wondered why at the time.

Considering we lived miles away from each other, it meant me travelling to see him. Was a kick in the teeth when I get a quick kiss and then he had to go play WOW whilst I stayed in his room and watched tv

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Ah young love 🙄

swedex · 20/04/2023 15:25

Yes we were 17, he was my first boyfriend and in his parents caravan (they weren't there 😂😂) we had strawberry flavored condoms 😬

Friends on Facebook now but don't speak now!

mrsblueskyeye · 20/04/2023 15:25

Yes, friends on Facebook but haven't seen him for 23 years. Lost virginity was 46 years ago...

ArianahX · 20/04/2023 15:28

His name was Malik & we were dating but I wasn't really into him, I'd wanted to sleep with my previous boyfriend but hadn't for some reason so was wanting now to just get it over with & Malik was there.

Just looked him up on Facebook, not difficult as he has an unusual name, & he still lives locally, has a partner & looks happy so all good for him.

Seesawmarjorydaw · 20/04/2023 15:29

Reader, I married him.

ModestMoon · 20/04/2023 15:39

Yes. I was 16, we are still friends 20 years later.

daisydaisy21 · 20/04/2023 15:40

Yes I remember. I was in a relationship with him in high school for about 2.5yrs. He turned really nasty when I went to the US with him and his family. I dumped him when we got home. Haven't had contact ever since

Hiddendoor · 20/04/2023 15:40

I was 17, he was 6 years older.

No contact since just after we split up. Part of me at the time we split up wished he had died like he threatened, but now I'm a lot older I don't really think about him.

iwantavuvezela · 20/04/2023 15:42

Yes - 19 - he and his wife just stayed with me for a week recently! He remains one of my best friends

Lovelyring · 20/04/2023 15:42

Yes, we are married.

ToBeOrNotToBee · 20/04/2023 15:42

Yes.
He ended up raping me.

No we are not in touch.

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 20/04/2023 15:42

Yes

His name was lee and he was 24 and a soldier on the base my dad was stationed at abroad. I had a huge crush on him (I was a few months off16) and he used this to fuel a short romance where he told me I was amazing, he'd never met anyone like me, he was falling in love with me. This then progressed quite quickly to pressure to have sex.

A few days before my birthday I went for a boozy night out with mates in ayia napa which was not far from where we lived and we arranged to meet at an apartment he'd rented. I got very drunk, we had sex. It hurt and I cried. The minute it was over - literally, he said this as he was getting dressed - he told me to get dressed and leave as I was a drunken mess and he was embarrassed he'd been with me. Then he left to go clubbing.

I cried a bit more then fell asleep in his apartment.

I woke up to one of his friends on top of me with my skirt and knickers removed. I E no idea if he did anything. I pushed him off and managed to leave. My friends found me wandering about and got me home.

At the time (30ish years ago) and on that island this behaviour from soldiers was horribly common, I later found out.

Messed me up for a bit, I won't lie

Lottieskeeper · 20/04/2023 15:45

Yes I remember him I lost my virginity on the first night of meeting him but went on to spend 10 years together married for 4 years.

I like to think I'm something special because every man I've slept with has proposed to me.

Charlottewebsbabies · 20/04/2023 15:46

I was 17 him 24 and we slept together in his grotty flat
We broke up and his life took a downward spiral
He hit the drugs and is now on the streets
Last I saw of him,he looked just like death-he was having a row in the street with someone
He swears blind I was the love of his life and he was a fool to have let me go
I'm just amazed he's still alive-sooner later I'll hear he took a bad bag and is dead-its only a matter of time

aSofaNearYou · 20/04/2023 15:46

Yes, just some student loser when I was 19. No we aren't still in touch 😂

mast0650 · 20/04/2023 15:48

Yes. When I was 17. Not had contact since breaking up with him when I was 18, though bumped into him a couple of times when I used to go back home. Not for over 30 years though.