Do you remember who you lost your virginity to, and are you still in contact with them?

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I was 17 when I lost mine to a guy named Alex. We aren’t in contact anymore.

20 and yes we are still in touch.

I do remember him but we aren't in contact, in fact he is dead.

Yes, boy next door! - I was 16 he was 19, I was madly in lurve (I think in retrospect he was less so, probably...) but it was a good way to lose it, it was his first time too, and while we weren't very good at it, at least it was loving and safe.

Proceeded to have an on/off relationship for a while, but split up permanently in our 20s. I still have dreams about him and still would! We both have kids with other people now (though I'm separated), not in touch and I think he's still married.

52 years ago this September. I was 15 and really wanted to explore sex. We were part of a group of young people, my friends were dating his friends and suddenly the other relationships ended and he lived too far away for me to carry on. We had one long late Summer afternoon saying a very intimate goodbye. I met a school friend on the bus home and thought she would never believe what I’d been up to. I didn’t do it again until a year later when I was established in my first grown up relationship.

Yes I remember when, where and who with.

No I'm not in touch with him any more. I cut all ties when he dumped me, as I did with all of my exes, which, put like that, makes it sound like there are loads but there aren't!

Yes. He was 24, I was 25 and we'd just got married. Still are married, 20+ years on.

Yes, we went out for a year or so. First loves and all that. He was a lovely guy. We're not in touch any more.

On a other end of the experience scale when I was about 21 I met a seriously hot fireman in a club, went back to his place where he > ahem < went downtown and I had my first orgasm and didn't ask anything on return we just cuddled to sleep and he made me the coffee and a bacon sandwich in the morning before ordering a cab.

I occasionally saw him around still looking bloody gorgeous.

I still pinch myself that a guy that fit fancied h me even if it was just wine night stand

So that was a much nicer evening.

I remember him and we would still be in touch but sadly he died when he was only 30.
We were boyfriend and girlfriend at the time and remained the best of friends after we split up.
There was a big age gap between us, I was only 15, but was a dear friend who will always be missed.

Yes I remember him, we were at school together and it happened at a party when we were in 6th Form.

We lost contact when we went to uni but he got in contact recently via Facebook (about 38 years later!)

Still seems like a nice guy, is happily married with grown up children but sounds like he's had some issues to deal with over the years

Yes and yes.
After many years of not being in touch, he contacted me via LinkedIn and we talked a bit. Then he got weird so I stopped. He sent me a Happy New Year or something and I responded and told him why I stopped contact.
There's been some back and forth since.
He seems keen to start chatting again. We dated over 30 years ago and I do have lovely memories of those times.

In the words of Jane Eyre Reader I married him. We were an item for about 18 months aged 17/18. Split when uni took us to opposite ends of the country. 10 years later we bumped into each other by chance and ended up back together. We've been married for 20+ years.

Boyfriend at the time. 17. Not in contact.

I was 16 and no. The last time I saw him was about 20 years ago and last I heard he had gone to prison for assaulting a sex worker and keeping her prisoner. I feel ashamed but he wasn't like this when I knew him.

Yes and yes. We 'went out' for 2 years in high school. On and off obviously, as teens do😂. No contact for 20 years then FB happened and we message 2 or 3 times a year.

Yes, we were together for a couple of years. I broke up with him to go out with my now husband. Not in touch but have looked him up on Facebook. Don't think I would bother to friend or message him though. He was an okay guy just a bit boring.

Yes, we were both students and it was a one night stand. Used to see him around for a bit afterwards but not since graduation and don't have him on fb or anything.
Narrowly avoided losing it aged 16 in Cyprus in very similar circumstances to a previous poster. My dad also worked on the RAF base there.

Yes. 44 years ago.

Yes - to someone I only knew by nickname and I would see him sporadically around the town after that where he would completely ignore me.

Not seen him for decades.

All my friends had done 'it' and I felt like the odd one out.

It hurt, it was meaningless and I have always regretted it.

All the talks I had from my mum, which I will be giving to my dd when the time comes, I took no heed.

Yes I was 15 and he was 21. No we aren't in contact anymore. But met again on a night out when I was 21 and we slept together again and it was AWFUL! Felt quite empowering dumping him after that.

Yes, married to him. I was 18 and we had been together about 7 months at the time

Yep I was 17 and married him when I was 23.
Don't remember the actual event in great detail except that it was a bit rubbish - it's much better now 🤣

Yes, and no.

We were both 17 he was my Italian boyfriend and we were at his parents ski chalet in the mountains in the summer, we were young, tanned and horny. It was actually very romantic.

He does reach out to me on social media sometimes but as we are now both married (to other people) and I still kind of hold a candle for him I don’t follow up.

Yes my bf of the time, for 2 years.

It all ended in tears and I was utterly heartbroken when we broke up.

thank goodness we didn’t stay together, my life would have been a lot different. I do think about him from time to time though, I even thought about reaching out for a catch up but not sure if it’s a bit weird.