what are you doing that no one knows about

[bingowings36]

(light hearted thread ) As the title says what are you doing or up to that no one knows about .
I got my passport i told no one i was getting one as im planing a nice holiday by my self but will say im working away when the time comes .😁

How did you start on this? I'd like to do similar but am a bit overwhelmed by different options out there. Well done for going for it!

I pay for my son to stay a extra hour at playschool on a Friday and sit in the cafe next door with a black forest hot chocolate, its one of the only breaks I get from my eldest ds (18 and has Adhd, ASD, agrophobia and lots more ) as my eldest dd (22) looks after him for that hour on her day off, she's the only one who knows about my cafe hour.

I’m having a baby in 2 and a bit months. Nobody but my partner knows💙

And here! When we do those ice breakers at work where they say tell us something no-one knows about you, erm …..

I've been offered a new job. Have only told a few people in work until get paperwork etc. Feel bad not saying anything to nice collegues yet but don't want to tempt fate!

‘I’m having a baby in 2 and a bit months. Nobody but my partner knows💙’

@Tropicaliyes congratulations! But why and how are you hiding this?!

@Move22 Thank you,

I am estranged from my family members (they are extremely toxic) and don’t keep any company around me so providing I keep my mouth quiet, nobody knows.

I’m managing to hide it from literally everyone on the outside world because my bump still hasn’t popped properly yet! I’m going into my third trimester a little over a week from now and still waiting😅🤦🏽‍♀️ (first child so I have been told it’s completely normal).

secretly doing our house over and creating a nursery and such.

Under investigation for bowel cancer. Only DH knows and I’ve brushed it off as probably IBS anyway. It’s only my mum I’d normally tell anyway, but don’t want to worry my mum because she’s amazing and has enough on her plate.

I’m 36 with 2 DS’- 1 is 5 and the other 18 months. The 5 year old has ASD and I’m so needed by everyone it’s suffocating sometimes but I have to be here for my family. They all need me more than I can put into words and DH (and therefore the children) will crumble without me- I know I’m the one that holds this whole thing together.

I don’t want to have the conversation out loud because the ‘what if’s’ scare me too much, but I’m terrified.

A coding course and singing lessons (have told a couple people I’m back into it as sang previously for years) and trying to lose weight.

I just like to focus and do stuff on my own.

Applying for a PhD. DH knows, nobody else does.

I’m doing this through Treehouse. Seems good, might move on to something else once I’ve completed my ‘track’. DH is high up in tech and says it looks good!

I too am ‘the least techy person’ - very very creative and not logical. But I am surprised to be really enjoying it and I hate not understanding stuff so I’m finding it fulfilling finally understanding wtf coding is all about. Just need to keep creative stuff going alongside!!

I'm in AA, sober nearly a year. Close family know, and one friend, but other people keep asking me what I've done, have I lost weight etc, because apparently I seem so 'well'.

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Congratulations! That's brilliant.

Educatingarti..........aahh! that explains it!

Rekindling my love life with DH. I had a total abdominal hysterectomy last September, was put on testosterone by the wonderful Newson Health team and bingo! Hello, libido! 😁

I am long term sahm applying for jobs. Only
my best friend knows. I haven't said anything to DH (he wont be happy) or family.

Loving this thread. Only on page 2 but must do some housework. Congratulations to the new pregnant ladies I’ve come across so far (I’m sure there must be more). Will catch up later.

Attending counselling and considering leaving DH. I love him desperately but he doesn't respect me and calls me names. I haven't been able to get through to him that this isnt OK. I need to build up my self worth a little and expect more for myself but I am very sad. 😔

Wow what a lovely idea. I volunteer in a charity shop, hope we get some of your books in.

Secretly playing sims mobile whenever I get a minute 😳

i live with a secret,i am a relocated battered wife,escaped years ago,to go on facebook so i can do my hobby entering competition . i use a fake name with few details and photo of a random dog,few years ago i donated a prize i had won to a local charity,they kept in touch and call me fake name, feels odd but i have a good reason,fast forward a few years they bump into me odd time ,and always call me fake name.now a few other people who i have donated unwanted prizes to call me that name as well.feels odd.but have tp protect myself .once in the next town heard someone shouting my fake first name ignored it i was at a bank cash machine,then i turned round someone from charity group stood there, i just laughed and said i was not with it today ,

Being desperately lonely

I came on to say the same! 😁That game is addictive!

I'm also partial to a bit of Royal Match when my Sims are all busy. 😁

Doing a second masters whilst working which should set me up for a good promotion and pay rise next year