I get that performative activism isn't usually helpful, it really irks me. This thread relates to some of that performative activism by its own subject matter though, doesn't it? However, I don't feel that white people should have to completely sit out of discussion, as long as they are aware there is a privilege of not knowing what it's really like for others and they may not actually see the racism but it didn't mean it doesn't exist. Plus, as a PP said, the issue of mortality rates for ethnic minorities needs more attention.
How do you change unconscious bias/racism/ ignorance (or even ignorance) that can lead to a higher number of deaths among ethnic minorities when you don't change the very staff that could be responsible for it? It would be fine if it were fixed by training but more often it's a fixed mindset that's hard to change, especially within staff that have been doing a job for years. I am sure it will change over time with newer recruits but the training and overall culture needs to change as well.
I've sat in workplace H&S training with people who've been doing their job for years in a particular way that could be done safer and smarter. They will all be shown pictures of accidents sometimes related to their own behaviours and it's explained why we don't do some things anymore for an hour or two. Afterwards, the majority will often say that people just shouldn't be so idiotic and nothing needs to change, they've never had an accident, etc. They will carry on the same risky behaviours when someone junior may fall victim to it. They then claim ignorance whilst grumbling about having to fill in a form with someone from health and safety. Then there would be someone from HR highlighting the fact they did this training and it is misconduct. The scenarios are different in terms of scale but you get my drift.
It would be great if training could help. However, if a staff member has listened to someone explaining in personal, real terms how their race impacted the healthcare they received and claimed to have read books but still didn't believe it, and said they were aggressive and used their race card will a module at work or some staff training really change that? I can't know for sure but it's not unreasonable to doubt it, even just a bit.
Again, I'm not wishing ill of her. I hold no opinion on her husband or family.