If I knew I’d be ok, I would…………..

[kgfreo]

Take myself off to a cottage in the country for a couple of months and finally write that novel that’s rumbling around in my head.

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Hilarious! I'm upthread stating my free pass behaviour would be to shag my colleague.

Spoiler alert: I didn't, he's a twat, I'm over my midlife crisis 😂😂

My free pass now is having a breast reduction, which I'm actually doing! Feel the fear etc.

@Doyouthinktheyknow " didn't pay. Just changed my name on everything. Bank account, uni degree (done post divorce). Nothing I'm married name."

You can do it yourself for free using the form of words on the website-but if you want it "official" and some organisations do, you have to pay.