If I knew I’d be ok, I would…………..

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Take myself off to a cottage in the country for a couple of months and finally write that novel that’s rumbling around in my head.

I am really sorry read this. I hope you find some peace however you can

If I knew he/ she would be ok, I would have another baby.

Well done, and thank you. I'm graining the courage, slowly.

Start smoking again. God, I miss it sometimes!

Do a bungee jump and a plane jump! And eat what I want when I want how I want

I thought the same thing Everyonehasavoice!

Take antidepressants.
It’s unhelpful when you are too anxious about the side effects and withdrawal to take medication for your anxiety and depression.

Jump off a tall building and flyyyyyy….

And have another biscuit

I'd love to do these too, plus Iraq, Ukraine & Pakistan.

Will definitely do Ukraine once the war is over as feel they'll need the tourists / money to help rebuild.

Would go totally nc with my sister
Stay with my child home not for a year, but 2 or 3 years if I could afford it

"Legally go back to my maiden name"
You can do that on line for 20 quid.

I worded that very badly!
I’d like to return to my maiden name without issues from certain people. I should just do it.

Can you really do it for £20?

@MiaMoor Sorry-it's gone up. But still only 40 quid. Go for it! www.gov.uk/change-name-deed-poll/enrol-a-deed-poll-with-the-courts

@MiaMoor If you live in Kent, I'll witness if for you!

Visit North Korea, Iran, Iraq and Afghanistan. Sell the house, and move to the Cotswolds or Cornwall, and get a part time job to see me through to retirement.

I don’t, but thank you 😁

Walk out of the house and go for a long distance hike/bike ride/horse ride - not sure on the transport and haven’t sat on a horse for 20 years but I’d just like a break from my life, to see new places and have time to think.

@MrsTerryPratchett Algeria is a gorgeous country, my ex ILs live there and when I left ExH I think I was more sad about never seeing them again and never going back to Algeria than actually getting divorced! I never felt unsafe there although I only went to the north coast which is the safest part.

Ooooo I'll put Algeria back on the list.

Retire

Train as a florist, buy that house with eight acres of land near Oban, get more cats.

Horseride again

I would up sticks, leave my job and move to Whitby. I’m a southerner so it would be a big move and frankly I don’t have the guts to do it. Definitely not now and I don’t think I ever will. Too far from family and friends and I worry as a southerner, I wouldn’t be very welcome.

I didn't pay. Just changed my name on everything. Bank account, uni degree (done post divorce). Nothing I'm married name.