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Sex not gender. Sex not gender. Sex not gender.

141 replies

LindorDoubleChoc · 17/01/2023 20:04

Please!

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BastardtheCat · 17/01/2023 20:06

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Sparklingbrook · 17/01/2023 20:06

What the what now.

Wine
CheshireSplat · 17/01/2023 20:06

I think it is unfortunate that the word in English for someone's sex is the same as the word for doing the deed. If they were two different words, people wouldn't be so squeamish about saying "sex" when talking about male and female.

KohlaParasaurus · 17/01/2023 20:13

I blame my parents' generation. They were the ones who thought it was hilarious to write "yes please" instead of "male" or "female" when a questionnaire asked about sex.

(But yes. Once we could have used gender interchangeably with sex, but not now.)

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/01/2023 20:22

Sex not gender except when it's actually about gender.

Clear language is our friend.

Soontobe60 · 17/01/2023 20:24

CheshireSplat · 17/01/2023 20:06

I think it is unfortunate that the word in English for someone's sex is the same as the word for doing the deed. If they were two different words, people wouldn't be so squeamish about saying "sex" when talking about male and female.

I’m going to use sex to mean male or female, and intercourse to mean shagging from now on.

smileladiesplease · 17/01/2023 20:34

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ReluctantCourier · 17/01/2023 20:42

At the baby scan place they were selling ‘gender cannons’ and I was gonna correct them until I realised no one wants a sex cannon going off at a family event

CaramelMach · 17/01/2023 20:45

Similarly the thread entitled gender reveal ruined might have attracted different audiences if it were sex reveal ruined !

Mafelicent · 17/01/2023 20:49

The whole thing's such a mess. How can a GENDER recognition certificate allow you to change your legal SEX on your birth certificate (when it's precisely NOT the sex you were born?!) I wonder if the issues would become more apparent if they renamed it the Sex Recognition Act/Sex Recognition Certificate.

MithrilCostsMore · 17/01/2023 20:51

Always. Any form I fill in when it asks me my gender, I cross out and wrote sex.

JamMakingWannaBe · 17/01/2023 20:55

MithrilCostsMore · 17/01/2023 20:51

Always. Any form I fill in when it asks me my gender, I cross out and wrote sex.

Me too.

Leadbypencils · 17/01/2023 20:55

Biological sex as a descriptor is more "scientific" and less ahem, salacious than sex written down on its own I think.

"What is your Biological Sex" M/F
"What gender do you want to be today.....?" ABCDLBGTQXY or Z?

noisepack · 17/01/2023 20:57

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All of this.

Oblomov22 · 17/01/2023 20:57

You can't change your sex. Gender is a totally different thing.

No. One. Cares.

WandaWomblesaurus · 17/01/2023 20:59

Yes yes yes.
What is gender anyway?
Bloody stereotypes!

grapehyacinthisactuallyblue · 17/01/2023 21:00

If you are born with a cock you are a male if you have a vagina you are female. always.

What about the people born with both testicles and ovary? The organs you mention isn't the part that determines your sex/gender, really.

watcherintherye · 17/01/2023 21:02

At the baby scan place they were selling ‘gender cannons’ and I was gonna correct them until I realised no one wants a sex cannon going off at a family event

Oh, I don’t know… Grin

Oblomov22 · 17/01/2023 21:03

Sex and gender and entirely duffest things.

Please stop going on about those born with testicles and ovary, because that is a very very tiny % of the population, not the norm.

SparklyThrow · 17/01/2023 21:10

CaramelMach · 17/01/2023 20:45

Similarly the thread entitled gender reveal ruined might have attracted different audiences if it were sex reveal ruined !

I think you'll find that should be Sex Revelation.

Ladybrrrd · 17/01/2023 21:12

Nah, both please in separate situations. I don't have one (a gender) but it's very important to some of my dearest mates. Thanks.

NotHotToday · 17/01/2023 21:14

sex to mean male or female, and intercourse to mean shagging from now on.

This

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 17/01/2023 21:16

MrsTerryPratchett · 17/01/2023 20:22

Sex not gender except when it's actually about gender.

Clear language is our friend.

Yep

NotHotToday · 17/01/2023 21:17

Y chromosomes = man

born with both testicles and ovary?

VerveClique · 17/01/2023 21:17

Natal sex.

Sexual intercourse.

Gendered behaviour.