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Why on earth did Lisa Marie Presley marry MJ?

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EightMonthsScared · 13/01/2023 19:48

I know this is fully none of my business but I cannot understand why she married Michael Jackson.

Most press coverage alludes to it being a marriage of convenience to distract from the child abuse allegations against Jackson. That makes sense but if that's true, what was in it for her?

I could fully understand it if she was just some nobody trying to break into modelling/acting, or a C lister trying to climb up.

It's baffling.

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Valhalla17 · 14/01/2023 12:58

"Wondering why a beautiful, talented, wealthy woman would marry Michael Jackson is something that I can't comprehend."

You do realise MJ was handsome (ish, eye of the beholder), talented and wealthy too right? What a rude and disrespectful thread.

PenelopeTitsDrop3121 · 14/01/2023 13:00

It was so obviously an arrangement to show MJ in a more wholesome light after the allegations.🙄

bellac11 · 14/01/2023 13:01

Valhalla17 · 14/01/2023 12:58

"Wondering why a beautiful, talented, wealthy woman would marry Michael Jackson is something that I can't comprehend."

You do realise MJ was handsome (ish, eye of the beholder), talented and wealthy too right? What a rude and disrespectful thread.

By the time they married he looked a sight and his lovely looks had gone. He had also just been accused of child abuse

Not the most obvious attractions for a future spouse

Veuvelily · 14/01/2023 13:07

Just read this this morning
thought it was very sweet

Farewell Lisa

As you get a bit older it's sometimes hard to pin specific events to specific years, but 1994 is not that way with me.

Starting in January of 1994 I spent approximately 16 months flying back and forth between LA and New York, as we were doing primary production of Michael Jackson's HIStory album at the Hit Factory in New York following the tragic Northridge Earthquake.
That's why we moved the project to New York.

Early in the project there was a new face in the studio: Lisa Marie Presley.

This was notable for a couple reasons.

First of all, most album projects I had worked on to that point were very male dominated, so when a female was in the room it was... noticed.

Next, when that female happens to be Elvis Presley's daughter, it does take a moment or two for your brain to process it all, but then it's back to work.

There are unwritten "Studio Etiquette" rules that are well-known by people who routinely work on high budget projects, so having both Michael Jackson and Lisa Marie Presley in the room together needs to fade into the background of your mind.

Thankfully selfies, Instagram and social media didn't exist yet, so there was no pressure to prove to the world that you were in a really cool spot with some really interesting people, rather it was just another day in the studio.

The day turned into weeks and the weeks turned into months, and Lisa Marie just became Lisa, a part-time member of our little MJ Studio Family.

I think she loved being in the studio.

Being in a world-class studio like Hit Factory makes one feel very special. Our sessions were welcoming, well-orchestrated and fun. The studios were impeccably clean and there was a trust that was evident almost immediately. These were seasoned pros working on a major project who were more interested in getting great drum sounds than watching her and Michael snuggle on the sofa.
She was in a very safe place.

She was a bit like a little girl, yet at the same time exuded great confidence.

She would sit right next to Michael - or sometimes in his lap.

They would laugh and whisper and call each other silly names, almost like a pair of seventh-graders.

"Doo-doo head, what do you want for dinner?"

They were cute, funny and very comfortable with each other.
It was all very real.

She would eat with us, laugh with us, joke with us.

They might disappear into Michael's lounge for a while, but it was none of our business - we were there to help him create his album.

I was chatting with my buddy Brian Vibberts (who was one of the staff engineers at Hit Factory during that project) about his memories of having Lisa in the studio. He reminded me how Michael and Lisa often held hands.

It's a little thing, but when you see a couple walking together holding hands down the hallway it sends a very sweet message.
They weren't on a red carpet or leaving a restaurant with the press watching - the studio was their little cocoon where they could be themselves.

And they often held hands.

They were safe.

In mid-July 1994 I boarded my flight from LA to NY and was given a USA Today newspaper.
The headline became almost a catch-phrase in the media:
"King Of Pop Marries The Queen Of Rock".
Michael and Lisa had flown to the Dominican Republic and "secretly" wed on May 26th, several weeks earlier.

I arrived at Hit Factory and walked into Studio 4 with the newspaper under my arm.
There was Michael, sitting on the sofa.
He had a silly grin on his face and walked up to him, rolled up the newspaper and hit him on the head with it.
He laughed and covered his head, and said, "What did I do??"
I opened the paper and held it up for the team to see.
I said, "It might be nice if you're going to get married to tell your friends! Or maybe invite us to the wedding!"

He laughed and was clearly a bit embarrassed, but I gave him a hug and said how happy we were for him - for them!

No one in the studio knew up until then - he hadn't said a word to anyone.

Lisa continued visiting us in the studio from time to time, and it was always a pleasure seeing her.

The press claimed it was all a publicity stunt, but not only do I disagree, I whole-heartedly disagree.

They were two young people who came from remarkably different and difficult childhoods, and they found each other.

Whether it would last a week or a year or a lifetime doesn't change what I saw: Two people in love.
It was no stunt.

We were all happy to see Michael and Lisa happy.

My friend Judi Brisse was on staff at Neverland during that time and she tells a story of Lisa bringing her children Riley and Benjamin to the ranch.
Judi was part of the housekeeping staff and one of the beds needed to be made up for them.
She brought in sheets and blankets, and there was Michael, Lisa and the kids.

The kids were tired, so Lisa cared for them while Michael helped Judi make the bed.
Judi was startled that Michael Jackson would want to help her make a bed, but Michael did it with a smile - hospital corners and all!

He truly loved Lisa and her little family. The whole scene was innocent, safe and loving.

Michael and Lisa were each pulled in 27 directions every day, and the press was relentless.
I don't pretend to know all of the details over that next year, but their marriage came to an end in early 1996.

When I read the news of her passing yesterday I immediately thought of her kids (she lost Benjamin just a few years ago), and her mom.
Clearly she was lost for much of her adult life, but the Lisa I knew back in the mid-90's was a kind, sweet and gentle person.

I consider myself fortunate having known her, hearing her laugh, seeing her happy and watching she and Michael hold hands.

It was a moment in time, and one where I think she could feel safe with him, and he with her.

Rest In Peace Young Lisa.
Rest In Peace.

pictoosh · 14/01/2023 13:09

bellac11 · 14/01/2023 12:57

You must be joking, have you any idea how wealthy she was at the point she married him

Or do you mean why he married her?

Either or. Both are powerhouses of vast wealth.

Clawdy · 14/01/2023 13:11

I remember thinking how amazing if they'd had a child - "Yes, my dad was Michael Jackson and my grandad was Elvis!"

EightMonthsScared · 14/01/2023 13:11

You do realise MJ was handsome (ish, eye of the beholder), talented and wealthy too right? What a rude and disrespectful thread.

He looked like a reanimated nightmare.

His surgeries had pushed him too far into the uncanny valley. It isnt really a point of debate - read any news article about him (or comment from a non-MJ acolyte) from the late 80s onward. And the paedophilia allegations were starting to bite which would've cancelled out any attraction his talent and wealth had - for me personally anyway.

They also stop me from worrying whether I'm being 'disrespectful' to him.

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pictoosh · 14/01/2023 13:11

'Increased' was a deliberate choice of word.

Ursuala · 14/01/2023 13:12

The same could be said for most of the OP’s that starts threads in Relationships

bellac11 · 14/01/2023 13:13

She doesnt strike me as someone who wanted or needed to marry to increase her vast wealth. I got the impression she was a genuine sort of person, as much as you can be in that type of industry and with that history.

EightMonthsScared · 14/01/2023 13:16

@Clawdy Imagine having that legacy 😱There would be so much pressure on that child to be a musical genius.

@Veuvelily despite my feelings about Jackson, that is a lovely read. If I'm honest, I believe Jackson and his team took advantage of Lisa Marie with that marriage and the timing of it. It's nice to see that there was genuine happiness there.

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pictoosh · 14/01/2023 13:25

bellac11 · 14/01/2023 13:13

She doesnt strike me as someone who wanted or needed to marry to increase her vast wealth. I got the impression she was a genuine sort of person, as much as you can be in that type of industry and with that history.

Given MJ was a thoroughly strange and repulsive creature, I can't imagine she did it for love. Or compassion.

pictoosh · 14/01/2023 13:27

I should add...thoroughly strange and repulsive at the best of times.

RosaMoline · 14/01/2023 13:32

There is no absolute solid gold proof that MJ was a paedophile.

pictoosh · 14/01/2023 13:39

He certainly wasn't anything like in love with her.

So then. Money, attention, more money, business interests, increased power, greater intimidation and sheer self-interest.

EightMonthsScared · 14/01/2023 13:45

There is no absolute solid gold proof that MJ was a paedophile.

😂

I'm not even touching that argument. We'll be playing tit for tat for days. Let's just say that we appear to have different perspectives on that whole thing.

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HaroldandWilly · 14/01/2023 13:55

RosaMoline · 14/01/2023 13:32

There is no absolute solid gold proof that MJ was a paedophile.

Fuck off with this disgusting narrative! Most child sexual abuse that goes on has no physical evidence. That does not mean it isn't happening! There is extensive evidence that he was manipulating and coercing children and their families into spending alone time with him. Just because no one videoed him touching or raping children does not mean he's innocent!

bellac11 · 14/01/2023 13:57

RosaMoline · 14/01/2023 13:32

There is no absolute solid gold proof that MJ was a paedophile.

Apart from his own words where he admits to sleeping with children and was friends with children

Adults are not friends with children, they dont have sleepovers with children, its a cover for sexual abuse every single time.

EightMonthsScared · 14/01/2023 13:59

"There is extensive evidence that he was manipulating and coercing children and their families into spending alone time with him."

And of course (and I realise that I said I would get involved in this side of things but I changed my mind)... there are the multi million dollar settlement payments. And for those cynics who say people exploited him for said millions, there are also accusations from people who are already incredibly wealthy and no need of a bank balance boost. Like Wade Robson for example.

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Theunamedcat · 14/01/2023 14:06

She loved him and she knew he was broken she thought she could fix that she said her marriage was a normal physical marriage and that he tried as hard as HE could to make it work

Her interviews are on YouTube they are so sad people were fucking awful to her over it she finally thought she could be something other than elvis little girl only to become Michael Jacksons wife they were shadows she could never come out from under

ShimmeringShirts · 14/01/2023 14:11

I can’t understand how you would be this oblivious and ignorant OP. Do you really have no concept of people or love at all? Are you really that ignorant as to not understand why asking that at this time is out of order?

EightMonthsScared · 14/01/2023 14:19

I didn't know her @ShimmeringShirts so I'm not in mourning. And I doubt the Presley family are reading MN.

She married the most famous man in the world. It was her choice and it's a point of discussion, both then and now.

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welcome2023 · 14/01/2023 14:20

Never occurred to me before but you know her eldest son commited suicide age 28 I wonder if MJ molested him?

Several of the boys MJ molested commited suicide and have long term trauma / mental health issues as a result

Tinkerbyebye · 14/01/2023 14:20

@EightMonthsScared

IRL, everybody finds the partnership weird. It's pps who are being disingenuous.

how do you know everybody finds it weird? Look on the net, lots don’t

EightMonthsScared · 14/01/2023 14:22

"Her interviews are on YouTube they are so sad people were fucking awful to her over it she finally thought she could be something other than elvis little girl."

Poor woman. I do feel sorry for her. She must've been so vulnerable.

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