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Family missing with newborn....

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ChocChocYum · 07/01/2023 21:49

www.theboltonnews.co.uk/news/23233264.bolton-m61-appeal-help-finding-missing-family-newborn-baby/

Where are they? How can they go missing? Hope they are ok

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Getinajollymood · 18/01/2023 20:08

Well, rape is horrific. Awful crime. But - he was very, very young for such a lengthy sentence.

VincaBlue · 18/01/2023 20:09

We don't know that the crime he was jailed for is the only time he's raised concerns and he's been fine since he was released. Her kids were probably removed because of ongoing abuse.

PritiPatelsMaker · 18/01/2023 20:16

I've just read the latest Daily Fail article.

200 Officers are working on the case. That's a huge expense.

freezingpompoms · 18/01/2023 20:17

I imagine they haven't willingly cooperated with SS and this is what has lead to them being on the run. Poor baby

SpinningFloppa · 18/01/2023 20:19

Yeah I guess there must be more to it than just the crime as that on its own doesn't make sense he was a child and the crime wasn't towards children (again im not defending it!) Bizarre case

MermaidEyes · 18/01/2023 20:20

OneFrenchEgg · 18/01/2023 19:56

I do wonder if there is also a medical issue for the baby that maybe is hereditary or genetic because it seems weird to refer to checking the baby over. If they do have other children that don't live with them it's just a very sad situation.

There was speculation in another newspaper (can't remember which) that drugs might be involved. They've lived a dysfunctional life the past few years in the not so nice parts of London, been evicted and left flats damaged.

kittykutty · 18/01/2023 20:22

Wondering how on earth they met in the first place Shock

Tamarindtree · 18/01/2023 20:25

kittykutty · 18/01/2023 20:22

Wondering how on earth they met in the first place Shock

EasterIssland · 18/01/2023 21:22

I just saw it in the bbc as well
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-64320904
haven’t they been found ??

picklemewalnuts · 18/01/2023 21:28

@Tamarindtree I've not seen that before Grin

picklemewalnuts · 18/01/2023 21:29

I'm shocked this is being so intensively worked. I don't remember other cases where so much care was taken.

LastOfTheChristmasWine · 18/01/2023 21:32

I heard it on the Radio 4 Six O'clock News too.

I suspect they've released the information about him being a sex offender as some people take the attitude that SS will snatch children for no reason and will therefore be withholding information from the police. Him being a sex offender might provide someone with a good enough reason to come forward.

PritiPatelsMaker · 18/01/2023 21:34

@EasterIssland no they're still on the run with the baby. Seems like an extraordinary amount of resources are being used to find them.

OneFrenchEgg · 18/01/2023 21:35

picklemewalnuts · 18/01/2023 21:29

I'm shocked this is being so intensively worked. I don't remember other cases where so much care was taken.

Same here. There must be so much more we don't know.

ReluctantCourier · 18/01/2023 22:33

Sentencing is a lot harsher stateside. But yeah, the police clearly know something…

rrrrrreatt · 18/01/2023 23:27

Getinajollymood · 18/01/2023 20:08

Well, rape is horrific. Awful crime. But - he was very, very young for such a lengthy sentence.

It was a rape and kidnapping of a woman in her 20s during a burglary according to the Times. All three of those are serious crimes on their own, when combined it’s quite alarming a 14 year old could do that.

RabbitHoleOfHell · 18/01/2023 23:33

Lots of background info about ‘talented actress and linguist’ Constance Marten’s aristocratic connections emerging in the media plus the fact that ‘100 officers’ are working the case. Not sure that her background is germane but the way it’s being reported suggests that it’s why the case is getting so much police attention. There must be more to this than is being reported. Hope they find them safe.

vinoandbrie · 18/01/2023 23:48

The photo released of Constance looks to be a mug shot, so she must have been in custody too at some point, presumably.

So sad. Where are their other children I wonder, who is looking after them?

MichaelFabricantWig · 18/01/2023 23:55

It is very strange

I wonder if the evidence suggests she might have some retained placenta which would obviously make it much more critical to find her as she could end up extremely ill

Forthelast · 19/01/2023 00:47

I'm just coming to the seriousness of this... How much danger is the baby thought to be in?

Hard to hide very long in GB.

rrrrrreatt · 19/01/2023 00:50

I think it’s more likely the evidence suggests they aren’t able to met their baby’s needs rather than the placenta has been retained.

It’s been two weeks since she gave birth so she’d probably be quite poorly now if she had a retained placenta and the risk to her baby would be negligible but they keep saying it needs to be checked over.

I used to work in a hospital and we had a very similar situation to this. A heavily pregnant mum went missing from A&E and police appealed for help finding her, even using similar language to this appeal. The mum was actually a drug addict who’d already given birth to multiple babies who were addicted to heroin and didn’t have custody. She’d been told her baby would be removed at birth (best practice is to discuss well in advance if planned) so she ran when she thought labour was starting. She didn’t have the same resources at Constance so didn’t get too far before they found her.

I don’t have any idea if they’re using drugs but it doesn’t look great either way. They’ve been living a chaotic lifestyle in temporary accommodation after being evicted from a flat they trashed and damaged with fire, don’t seem to have custody of their other kids and the father is a registered sex offender. Those are just the details we know, there could be much more. And the police obviously feel it’s a high risk scenario, 200 is a lot of people.

Tamarindtree · 19/01/2023 00:54

@Forthelast sadly I can see drugs being a factor in all of this.

Forthelast · 19/01/2023 00:59

Tamarindtree · 19/01/2023 00:54

@Forthelast sadly I can see drugs being a factor in all of this.

So tiny to be at the center of so much controversy. I hope they're found and brought to a safe place quickly.

OneFrenchEgg · 19/01/2023 06:50

'There is nothing to suggest that any of them have come to any sort of intentional harm – we just need to ensure they are OK, especially the baby, and do not require any medical assistance for any underlying issues'

It seems so disproportionate, the messaging and the actual response. Would this happen for other missing families? I don't know, I've never seen it.

searchingforme · 19/01/2023 06:54

@rrrrrreatt i think you’re spot on! I’ve seen these cases a few times! Drugs l, abusive partner with criminal past social services have probably wanted her lots of times she needs to leave him/clean up her act they knew the baby would be taken away that’s why they are on the run. I hope they are found soon. She’s a white upper class woman that’s why this is getting so much coverage.

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