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Who else is staying in by themselves tonight?

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Lostinlove817 · 31/12/2022 17:43

I was supposed to have 2 friends coming over to mine and then we were going to go out for some drinks. But both of them have come down with the flu that’s going round, so now my NYE is me staying in by myself (I live alone).

And to be honest, I am very happy with that! I am going to have some nice food, a glass of Prosecco maybe and might even just go to bed before midnight.

Who else is by themselves tonight?

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SerenaB12 · 31/12/2022 18:20

Meeeee!! And the 🐈
I've had a takeaway ( turkish loads leftover) don't fancy wine, likely be in bed and asleep by 10pm.. bliss

Hevasparkle · 31/12/2022 18:22

Working the night shift as a nurse! I volunteered to work it because I’ve never liked NYE much. Find it overrrated and will be happier at work than getting drunk somewhere! Love a New Year’s Day walk though, that tends to be how I celebrate 😀

Squaffle · 31/12/2022 18:25

Yes! And I’m very happy about it! DH is off visiting friends a few hours away who like to stay up until 4am… those days are long gone for me! Will get DC tucked up in bed and then sofa, a glass of fizz, food & tv for me before sleeping on my own in clean sheets. Will make a big lasagne tomorrow for his inevitable hangover, and DC and I will spend the morning in our fave park as there’s finally no rain forecast!

Happy New Year everyone 🥂

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ChristineCagney11 · 31/12/2022 18:25

Just me and the animals, same as Xmas. Just sat down to watch Kathleen Madigan (again) stand up comedian and about to pour a drink.

Babe2807 · 31/12/2022 18:25

Me. My husband left me for another woman. Its very sad and i cant stop crying. Children with him tonight. They'll be back in the morning.

TwilightSkies · 31/12/2022 18:29

Me, love it! DD2 is going to bed soon so I’ll chill, watch a bit of TV with some snacks and head to bed about 9 😊
I hate NYE. Always found it depressing, a party to celebrate ‘new year’ but you wake up the next day and it’s still the dead of winter. I’d prefer a party to welcome Spring!

AuntieEntity · 31/12/2022 18:29

Me! DD will be in bed within the hour & I have a frozen pizza in my future. Probably bed by 10pm, I'm in work tomorrow in any case.

Largethighsbadeyes · 31/12/2022 18:29

Me.

We were supposed to be driving to stay with friends but the bug I thought I'd got rid of on Boxing day came back last night.

I told DH and the kids to go without me. It's more important that they have fun than sit around while I'm feeling ill AND guilty.

So now I'm just here with FOMO. Not sure how I feel about starting the new year alone but at least there's no guilt

VioletLemon · 31/12/2022 18:30

Sorry @Dayandnightreunite 💐. You're not alone though, my DP has locked himself in spare room all day refusing to speak.

Squaffle · 31/12/2022 18:33

@babe I’m so sorry x

SomeonesRealName · 31/12/2022 18:33

Babe2807 · 31/12/2022 18:25

Me. My husband left me for another woman. Its very sad and i cant stop crying. Children with him tonight. They'll be back in the morning.

I'm so sorry to hear it. What a shit.

SomeonesRealName · 31/12/2022 18:35

@Dayandnightreunite and @VioletLemon hears to a better year! 🍷

Newwardrobe · 31/12/2022 18:35

I'm on my own , no pets or kids . I've just ordered a celebratory Mcdonalds 🤣

Mrsfussypants1 · 31/12/2022 18:35

@Babe2807 . It may not seem like it now, but it could turn our to be the best thing that's happened to you. I was in your position many many years ago on new years eve. If that hadn't happened I wouldn't have the life I have now, which I am incredibly thankful for everyday. I wish you all the best for 2023.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 31/12/2022 18:36

Me. Well and my 9 yr old. DH has a gig. We were invited to a party but would've had to stay over and round some friends but DH not there so thought just stay in with dd. We have some games and pamper stuff so we'll be fine.

LeopardPrintHo · 31/12/2022 18:37

Dayandnightreunite · 31/12/2022 17:56

Despite having a family of my own I'm spending NYE alone. Our relationship has been on the rocks for a while, our marriage is struggling. We were going to take the kids for dinner but eldest has ranted and raved at me for something which wasn't my doing so I've bowed out of the evening and left them to it. I realise it's not the best way but my health has taken a battering and all this made me feel like I can't cope anymore.
Never felt so alone in my life.

Sorry to hear this, and to the others on this thread alone when they don't particularly want to be.
Stay strong and use this thread to keep you company GinFlowersCake

Spect8 · 31/12/2022 18:40

Despite invites from various family members to join them, as usual I will happily be on my own in my pyjamas and fleece, heat turned up, moussaka about 8 that I made yesterday, Lyres Italian Spritz in a proper glass (non alcoholic and absolutely gorgeous). Bed and Netflix around 9.30.

NYE is nothing to me. Tomorrow is the same as today except I'm one day older!

newtb · 31/12/2022 18:40

Me, not yet decided what to eat. Had an offer of a 'no strings' evening with a frenchman a bit younger than me, but chickened out.

NotRightNowNo · 31/12/2022 18:40

Me! House is tidy, twinkly lights are on, just going to pour myself a glass to go with the meal that's almost ready. Perfect. Don't get me wrong, I live socialising but tonight it's too much of a faff.
Happy New Year everyone ✨️

NotAdultingToday · 31/12/2022 18:42

Me and ds1 and ds2 for now, dh is at work and said hopefully be home by midnight (though i probably will be soundo ds2 is 7 weeks!)
We have just had frozen pizza and got lots of sweet snacks and we will have snuggles on the sofa, where ds1 and i will argue over what to watch. Hes 5 but rules the tv 🤦🏼‍♀️

Hawkins001 · 31/12/2022 18:42

to be honest I don't mind, either or really

PopUpMoon · 31/12/2022 18:46

Yep, same as every year.

DD1&2 (teens) have gone to ExMILs; she’s Italian and NYD has always been a big deal for her. She brings DDs home with excellent leftovers for me Grin

DD3 is 6 (she’s just mine) and will be in bed around 7:30pm.

I’ve still got post-Christmas shit to do and some flatpack to build tomorrow, so tonight I will be firing up the PS4 and playing the DLC I downloaded this morning, and will be in bed around 11:30pm. Sometimes I just like to feel like I’m in my early 20s again, pre kids.

Toddlerteaplease · 31/12/2022 18:47

Me. Usually do t have anyone to spend it with. Working at 7 am tomorrow anyway.

Toddlerteaplease · 31/12/2022 18:48

Was really looking forward to going to my cousin For lunch tomorrow, but they've got colds and cancelled.

scaredysquiggle · 31/12/2022 18:49

Me. Partner broke up with me today and I'm now in bed with Covid. Happy New Year.

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