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Thread 3 - TalkExiles: "The Planet Goes On Being Round"

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Kucingsparkles · 21/12/2022 06:14

Continuation of previous lifeboat threads 1 and 2.

Gather here all ye refugees from the JTT Flat Earth Society, welcome to the reassuringly oblate spheroid of MN! Ye all already know the answers to the questions "How the heck do I format my post?" "Why can't I edit my typos?" "What do those acronyms mean?" and most importantly, "Where is everybody that I used to know?"

So really we're all here just to chat randomly.

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Dotellhimpike · 09/01/2023 10:30

Facebook Marketplace is my go to for second hand stuff.

Dotellhimpike · 09/01/2023 10:45

Got people looking round my current rented house today, so was up from 6:30 hoovering and mopping. Jesus but people are weird. I don't mind them asking about this house but they are asking me why I am moving out? Why I am moving so far away? and why doesn't my partner move nearer me instead?

Mind your own fucking business mate, you don't need to know any of that stuff.

Gonners · 09/01/2023 11:07

... they are asking me why I am moving out? Why I am moving so far away? and why doesn't my partner move nearer me instead?

Did you explain about the serial killer next door, the infestation of killer bunnies, and the vampire in the airing cupboard?

Dotellhimpike · 09/01/2023 11:44

How do you know about them?

SqueakyDinosaur · 09/01/2023 12:53

I can't find the right thread to post this on, but after ovarian cancer, hysterectomy, etc, I've been seeing a pelvic physiotherapist. She is lovely & has really helped me. She's just told me she is leaving because on her salary she can't afford childcare for her 2 small children, and therefore she has to leave the job that she loves and is brilliant at. What the FUCK is wrong with this country?

Tricyrtis2022 · 09/01/2023 12:57

That's awful, Squeaky!

Tricyrtis2022 · 09/01/2023 13:00

I'm hearing echoes of 'How far are you from the nearest lemon?'

A couple of nights ago we sat down to dinner and Mr T wondered what was in his pocket and produced a lemon he'd forgotten about taking out of the fridge. Then a friend dropped round a portion of some dahl she'd made and said in her message 'I have also left you a lemon'. That made me laugh.

CyanCrystalViolet · 09/01/2023 14:05

That’s terrible @SqueakyDinosaur. I’m not sure what it’s like where you are, but here there are so few pelvic physios. I saw one privately after my gynaecologist recommended pelvic floor physio following my endometriosis surgery and she was so incredibly knowledgeable. I had a big problem with painful urinary urgency and she completely cured it. Understandably it’s mostly women who do this job so this sort of thing must be happening more and more now. Really depressing.

angelico53 · 09/01/2023 15:40

Glad to report that our defunct band, laid low by the illness of one of our wonderful female singers, is slowly emerging from extended lockdown. God, what a thing it is to play with a band again! I'd practically decided to sell all my gear and sulk.

angelico53 · 09/01/2023 15:40

Squeaky - that's just awful.

SqueakyDinosaur · 09/01/2023 15:43

As @CyanCrystalViolet says, it's really hard to get an appointment with one. There's a massive shortage of them, and since the government abolished bursaries for physio and occupational therapists, the pipeline is pretty much empty. It's not just short-sighted, it's criminally irresponsible and stupid.

SqueakyDinosaur · 09/01/2023 15:44

(Bursaries for the courses they do at university)

Kucinghitam · 09/01/2023 16:03

Agree with @CyanCrystalViolet and @SqueakyDinosaur, we* just don't seem to value these skills enough.

*The government and the funders, I suppose.

SinnerBoy · 09/01/2023 16:40

SqueakyDinosaur

That's absolutely awful for you, I hope you can get seen soon. The NHS is severely short-staffed in all areas, I suppose general hospitals can take some slack, but for much smaller, specialised personnel, once they've gone, people really notice.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/01/2023 16:59

It is part of my general gripe that successive governments do not prioritise prevention/recovery on the NHS.

When I ruptured my achilles tendon i was advised physio was the best course of action - but there was a massive waiting list on the NHS. The other more feasible option the NHS could offer was to strap it up, wait and if it got worse I could get steroid injections.

Luckily I get private health cover through work so paid for physio.

SqueakyDinosaur · 09/01/2023 17:06

Draft letter to the Wanker Of State for Destroying the Health Sector: any and all comments welcome!

Dear Mr Barclay

I am writing to draw your attention to one person’s experience of NHS salary and conditions.

Two years ago, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I was very lucky to be referred to the Royal Marsden Hospital, whose care of me has been absolutely superb. I am still regularly seeing several different departments as part of their monitoring programme.

As part of my recovery I was referred to a pelvic physiotherapist. She has helped and encouraged me enormously and I am deeply grateful to her.

She has just told me that she is leaving her post. The reason? She cannot afford childcare for her two young children on her NHS salary.

This brings shame on the Government and the Conservative party on several fronts:

  1. The pitifully poor pay of highly skilled NHS professionals, who do a great deal more to improve the lives of those they are responsible for than any politician I have ever encountered;
  2. The inadequate response of the current government to the cost of living crisis for public sector workers, whose pay has been effectively frozen in most cases for the last decade;
  3. The abandonment of childcare provision to the private sector, with nonsensical piecemeal initiatives here and there that take no account of the reality of working parents’ (and let’s be honest here, mostly working mothers’) lives. I would love to see someone challenge government policies under the Equality Act 2010, as this amounts in my view to sex discrimination – you are erecting barriers that prevent women from working and then punishing them for it.

Please don’t spout the standard inanities about the economy. The UK is in a worse situation than any other G7 nation, or European nation, and that is directly down to the catastrophically stupid and financially illiterate positions adopted by various different Conservative administrations since 2010.

You should be ashamed of yourselves, but as you collectively seem to have had your shame glands removed, perhaps you could at least stop enriching your chums like Baroness Mone at the expense of the taxpayer, including those taxpayers who are also public sector workers.

Yours, SqueakyDinosaur

MavisMcMinty · 09/01/2023 17:13

Fucking brilliant letter, well done Squeaky.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 09/01/2023 17:15

Clear setting out of the issues, and a nice steady escalation of rage.

My suggestion is to copy in your own MP, and possibly a few newspapers.

IReallyLikeCrows · 09/01/2023 17:23

I LOVE that letter!

Kucinghitam · 09/01/2023 17:31

SqueakyDinosaur · 09/01/2023 17:06

Draft letter to the Wanker Of State for Destroying the Health Sector: any and all comments welcome!

Dear Mr Barclay

I am writing to draw your attention to one person’s experience of NHS salary and conditions.

Two years ago, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I was very lucky to be referred to the Royal Marsden Hospital, whose care of me has been absolutely superb. I am still regularly seeing several different departments as part of their monitoring programme.

As part of my recovery I was referred to a pelvic physiotherapist. She has helped and encouraged me enormously and I am deeply grateful to her.

She has just told me that she is leaving her post. The reason? She cannot afford childcare for her two young children on her NHS salary.

This brings shame on the Government and the Conservative party on several fronts:

  1. The pitifully poor pay of highly skilled NHS professionals, who do a great deal more to improve the lives of those they are responsible for than any politician I have ever encountered;
  2. The inadequate response of the current government to the cost of living crisis for public sector workers, whose pay has been effectively frozen in most cases for the last decade;
  3. The abandonment of childcare provision to the private sector, with nonsensical piecemeal initiatives here and there that take no account of the reality of working parents’ (and let’s be honest here, mostly working mothers’) lives. I would love to see someone challenge government policies under the Equality Act 2010, as this amounts in my view to sex discrimination – you are erecting barriers that prevent women from working and then punishing them for it.

Please don’t spout the standard inanities about the economy. The UK is in a worse situation than any other G7 nation, or European nation, and that is directly down to the catastrophically stupid and financially illiterate positions adopted by various different Conservative administrations since 2010.

You should be ashamed of yourselves, but as you collectively seem to have had your shame glands removed, perhaps you could at least stop enriching your chums like Baroness Mone at the expense of the taxpayer, including those taxpayers who are also public sector workers.

Yours, SqueakyDinosaur

<Standing ovation>

mach2 · 09/01/2023 18:01

Copy to a newspaper too!

Britinme · 09/01/2023 18:08

Brilliant letter! Attach a screenshot to a tweet too.

angelico53 · 09/01/2023 18:19

Fantastic!

A roaring dinosaur, though. No squeaks there!

DeanVolecapeAKAelderberry · 09/01/2023 18:24

That's a brilliant letter. I wish you didn't have to write it.

Bearing in mind that this is a very big, searchable site, and that you'll be signing that with your real name, maybe you should ask the mods to delete the original and re-post it under a temporary new name. I wouldn't want the Tories to hunt you down.

Ginmonkeyagain · 09/01/2023 18:34

That is a masterful letter.