@danni0509
Yes! Just exactly that!
I haven’t been able to get my hair cut (our savings are classed as savings though they are going to our builder now).
I wish I could work. More than anything.
and I would do anything for my child, like you: I mean we did by giving up work etc!!
Pity those who think employment is such a chore that they refer to it as working their arse off and it’s not fair that some people literally cannot work.
I wonder would they swap standing over the grave of their child after years of endless caring for that few quid extra “for nothing”.
I have a deceased child too. Like another poster said if my disabled DD dies I will just end my own life. She is my life.
there isn’t going to be a nice house for us in the future or weddings or even parties - she does not understand what a birthday is or Christmas, does not like toys so she can’t even enjoy that side of those occasions..
She’ll never get a swimming badge or tell me about her best friend (or gave a best friend) or gave sleepovers or eat birthday cake.
What is wrong with people that they think this is a life I would choose for her, or me.
Relying on government decisions and their patronising shite about carer’s allowance not being a wage (well maybe in 1902 it would have been at its current rate) to be able to buy a pair of next jogging a (that’ll last me another two years).
Ah life is good