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Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 24: Calmly through the day

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MissConductUS · 06/11/2022 21:45

I've started a new one. Please join us and share the boring and mundane things happening in your world. It will be calming for all.

Here is the link to the prior thread:

Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 23: Calmly through the day

Apologies that the prior thread filled up before I could create this one. Hopefully everyone will find it. Lurkers are of course welcome to unlurk.

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MissConductUS · 09/12/2022 11:57

Sunrise in Philly. I just spent 45 minutes in the fitness center. Coffee and a shower are next.

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Deathraystare · 09/12/2022 15:55

Well that was a surprise yesterday. I was sitting in a cafe when I noticed my friend had texted me . It was about a theatre visit. I thought it was for today so said I could not come as would be working late but then I realised she meant that night so there was a theatre trip I wasn't expecting!

was perishing out but luckily I had my Seasalt duvet coat on which hugs me warmly!

Lemonsandlemonade · 09/12/2022 16:34

Lovely MissC

Hilda I’ll have to Google those chocolates. Am a bit of a chocolate fan.

The woman was happy I could tell when I handed it in.

mathanxiety · 09/12/2022 17:14

It looks like a much nicer day in Philly than we're having here, MissC. We have ploppy sleet here. There may be a technical term for it that I'm not aware of.

There were traffic accidents yesterday and the day before on the street outside my home. I heard the distinctive short screech of brakes followed immediately by a bang, both times. Wednesday's accident involved someone driving north in the southbound lane and Thursday's was a low speed fender bender. Nobody was hurt either time.

frozendaisy · 09/12/2022 17:38

I turned our kitchen table around today to accommodate more people over the next 6 weeks. It is not a straightforward task.

MissConductUS · 09/12/2022 17:52

Welcome, @frozendaisy and thanks for sharing your furniture reconfiguration news. My dining room table has leaves that can be added to make it longer. It's tricky to do, so I make DH do it.

ZZ, we had Philly cheesesteaks for lunch. The hotel catered them and they were fab.

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Prokupatuscrakedatus · 09/12/2022 18:26

DH is back from Vienna.

I've spent 4 hours detailling DS's therapy and treatment history in a word document to help his transition to a psychiatrist for adults. Luckily I keep good files.

Always4Brenner · 09/12/2022 19:12

Freezing here I just can’t get warm so very early night under the duvet with a talking book I think, fabulous time with bingo friends last night. Thank you for well wishes yes life’s looking fabulous now now.

Lemonsandlemonade · 09/12/2022 19:51

It’s very cold here. -6 this morning.

Watching crap Christmas film here.

Had fish and chips for tea.

Found out a lovely lady who looked after me as a child is riddled with cancer and they are looking for a hospice for her. Sad isn’t the word.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 10/12/2022 11:36

Had a WhatsApp family chat about the qualities of the Dutch keeper (we support the Dutch when our team is deservedly kicked out)

We have about 0,5 mm of snow.

DH is out to get more butter.

And there is probably a mouse visiting our kitchen. There were noises last night when DD went in to get a snack. We are on the 5th floor.

MissConductUS · 10/12/2022 16:05

Lemons, I'm so sorry to hear about the lady who used to look after you. Lots of patients here get hospice care at home.

I'm in NYC waiting to change trains. When I got on the train in Philadelphia I went to the business class car and found a bag and coat on my reserved seat. The car was almost empty but there was a lad standing a few feet away. He asked me in a very rude and aggressive tone if I wanted to sit there. I told him that I did, as it was my reserved seat and showed him my ticket. He took another seat.

A few minutes later the conductor came through and checked his ticket. He had a ticket for coach class and the conductor told him he had to leave. After a brief argument, he left.

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HelenaJustina · 10/12/2022 18:25

I was out running in -4 this morning while DC2 had swim training. This was followed by another morning of Christmas shopping with DC1-3. This afternoon we put together our Advent window for the village trail (we were due to switch on today) and have put the decorations up. Am shattered and looking forward to a soak in the bath while everyone else watches the football!

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/12/2022 18:42

It has warmed up here to about 5c, but has brought rain. I love a cold weather run. Good on you @HelenaJustina !

Lemonsandlemonade · 10/12/2022 21:25

Wow Helena that sounds busy,

MissC unfortunately the lady has no immediate family aside from cousins who are not the most helpful. Took DS to see her today and although she was asleep at start and not quite with it she saw DS and beamed.

That happens on trains here too Miss C with reserved seating. People get very grumpy about it. Sorry he was rude.

DS met his cousin from NZ today. DH saw his step sis for first time in over 10 years.

IWanderedLonely · 10/12/2022 21:37

I've been busy cleaning and cooking all day today for my 2 youngest grandchildren's Baptisms tomorrow morning. We're hosting afterwards. After tomorrow I can think about Christmas Shock.
Now in bed with a night-time tea (Twinings). DH is at his work Christmas party.

Silkierabbit · 10/12/2022 23:10

Had a call for disability discrimination case with Judge and that went well. Had mental health tribunal which was fine but has kept DS sectioned. As he has now been diagnosed with autism he will now have a CETR. The hospital psychiatrist talked of him maybe coming home in a few weeks but then the cahms lady said either a school or residential solution with 24/7 care. And they were both asking for a longer assessment period re psychosis though no sign of it since cctv turned off, quite settled and improving. It sounded like if he came home would be someone medical in house 24/7 to assess him for psychosis. Completely ott, like assessing a sloth. But they reported continued improvements with him smiling and laughing to a few staff members now. And apparently he uses his tent to put his plates and cups in and when he wants ipad charging. So they are now saying there is basic communication via behaviour and settled atm but think they want him leaving room. DH saw him again and he was calm and laughing at him and DH took him some more shoes incase shoes are the issue. We are all playing guess the problem atm. Go to hotel tomorrow and see him x 2 and meeting on Monday.

Cleaner came for a one-off clean and she told Floof he was the most beautiful cat she had ever seen and the most beautiful cat in the world and that she wanted him. He loved the compliments. He is currently on my bed.

mathanxiety · 11/12/2022 04:51

I went out with DS and bought the Christmas tree today at the second place we looked, which is where we always get the tree, but as usual we tried the Home Depot first, and as expected they were almost cleaned out.

DD4 helped me carry the Boston ferns and the small armchair to her room to make room for the tree. She's not very enthusiastic about an extra piece of furniture in a small bedroom, and the four big ferns have really taken over in the spot where we put them.

I'm pretty sure all the insects that came in with the ferns a month ago have been detected and dispatched to their next incarnation by Dcat, but I didn't mention this aspect of fern care to DD as she freaks out at the sight of anything with more than four legs in her room or the bathroom . This is the ferns' second second year of wintering over indoors.

We left the tree to soak in a basin of water on the deck and stuck it into its stand at about 8pm. Dcat settled in under it immediately. We've given it some water and covered the water and stand with the tree skirt which used to be part of a Halloween costume - Little Red Riding Hood's cloak has lived to fight another day. The hope is that Dcat won't be able to reach the water. It's been eight years, but the memory of the effect on Dcat's digestive system of drinking tree water is still fresh in my mind.

DS also checked my tyre pressure and inflated my tyres.

MissConductUS · 11/12/2022 18:48

Lemons, I'm sorry home hospice care isn't an option for her. I think it's often a good choice for people who have the right support. I'm glad the rudeness over reserved seats on the train isn't exclusively a US issue. It may have something to do with the fact that commuter trains, which people are more familiar with, don't have reserved seat.

The brief argument between the lad on the train and the conductor was amusing. The lad didn't understand why he couldn't just sit in one of the unused seats in business class. The conductor, with admirable patience, explained to him that a) he hadn't paid for a business class ticket, and b), those seats were unused now, but people getting on at the next stop or the one after had reserved them and would be in use later. I think this was a good life lesson for the lad. He certainly wasn't expecting the reaction he got from me.

Silkie, that all sounds fairly hopeful regarding your DS.

Well done on the tree, Math. They are in short supply here too. Our dear cats like to hide under the tree too, but thankfully there's no water to get into. When they were younger, they liked climbing the tree and looking out from the branches.

It's snowing here, for the first time this winter. The ground-level temperature is just above freezing, so nothing is sticking yet. I've unpacked from my trip and caught up on laundry. Remarkably, I've lost a bit of weight, which I wasn't expecting given all of the eating out I did. It's lovely to be home.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/12/2022 21:00

I'm eating a second slice of the apple lavender cake I baked yesterday. Must bake another banana bread with the sad rotting bananas in the kitchen. Little Havoc ate two cut up spears asparagus! Proud mum am I! Havoc is now quite amused saying, "Dodi" ad infinitum.

prok I don't understand apple-pears. Tastes like neither. 🤷‍♀️

math lovely post of support on another thread

HildaTablet · 11/12/2022 21:39

We were away from Wednesday to late yesterday afternoon and didn’t leave the hearing on the timer. It was 6 degrees inside when we got back, and so cold that we could practically see our own breath. It took all evening to get up to 11 degrees, when we switched the heating off to go to bed.

I put it back on this morning at 7:30 and it’s been on all day till a couple of hours ago. It’s so cold that we've decided we're just going to have it on and hang the expense.

I went outside this morning to fill up the many bird feeders we have. The poor birds were down in about a nanosecond after I’d filled up the peanuts and sunflower seed feeders, frantic for food. The water tray I have for them was just a solid block of ice.

RhubarbFairy · 11/12/2022 21:40

Oooh. Hello! There you are!

Silkierabbit · 11/12/2022 21:54

Hope you are warmer now Hilda

We have snow today too MissC first of the season.

We are at the hotel to see DS and have been swimming and jacuzzi I swam a mile again. Just had a meal I had veg curry and chocolate brownie and clotted cream ice cream. Tomorrow is swimming hotel breakfast meeting then see DS.

dh has made hot water bottles for the silkies, Floof inspected.

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HildaTablet · 11/12/2022 22:57

Thanks Silkie - I hope the meeting goes as well as possible.

In bed now now and thankfully it’s much warmer after having the heating on all day. It’s snowing lightly here too.

HildaTablet · 12/12/2022 10:44

Woke up this morning to this!

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ZZTopGuitarSolo · 12/12/2022 19:33

MissConductUS · 09/12/2022 17:52

Welcome, @frozendaisy and thanks for sharing your furniture reconfiguration news. My dining room table has leaves that can be added to make it longer. It's tricky to do, so I make DH do it.

ZZ, we had Philly cheesesteaks for lunch. The hotel catered them and they were fab.

I want one now! I'm trying to eat super healthily for a week or two before the Christmas carnage, so of course I'm craving things like melting cheese and salty loveliness.

We got a bit of snow last night, but only about an inch. My family in the UK has far more than I do, as does my daughter at college in Massachusetts - she sent me some really gorgeous photos of her campus.

I'm sure it will arrive here eventually, but for now I'm quite enjoying things not being white and slippery :-)

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