@DancingSunflowers we do not have the right to control each others bodies, and we also have NO right to judge each other. Why? Because we have imperfect information about another woman's situation, so to judge them from our perch is breathtakingly arrogant, and also cruel.
For example, you don't know what it is like to be raped as a child by your dad, then left to give birth to your own brother with a body too immature to carry it. Do you?
You don't know what it's like to be told a desperately wanted baby has birth defects so severe that the life of the baby will be hell, full of pain and suffering. Do you?
And you don't know what it's like to be told that if you continue with a pregnancy, you are very likely to die, which would leave your existing 4 and 8 yr old motherless for the rest of their lives, do you?
So the answer is, while on an abstract basis it is fine to feel exactly as you do, and you have every right to hold your opinion for yourself, judging other woman whose shoes you have never walked in is disgusting. Making them feel like murderers is disgusting. And doing all that from the high perch you have assigned yourself, as if you have that right (you dont-none of us do) is just awful.