I don’t get why MNers are so against surrogacy.
IMO it’s no different than organ donation, giving blood, donating a kidney, semen or egg donations etc.
Most women would give anything to carry their own baby as that is one of the biggest parts of it. So it’s absolute BS when people claim women choose this as the easier option.
But many women cannot carry a baby so their options are adoption or surrogacy.
There was a very good AMA thread about a women who used a surrogate.