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So proud to be British right now

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BayMareAlert · 19/09/2022 15:18

Everything has been amazing , such a great tribute to our Queen
The choristers , the army and the horses
Bloody beautiful

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FurAndFeathers · 19/09/2022 21:31

DownNative · 19/09/2022 21:23

You clearly got this information from the Guardian's 2021 report which is where those quotes were in response to.

Sir Ken Olisa is a good example of a person from a BAME background who was appointed to a high ranking role. One example is enough to show the absolute nature of your comment as incorrect.

You might want to act obtuse, but you knew full well I was using Olisa as an example of a person from a BAME background.

You haven't demonstrated that the Palace is being discriminatory against non-white applicants. Just posted rhetoric following a non-sequitur.

You argued that the Palace "avoid employing people from BAME backgrounds." It doesn't as 8.5% of Buckingham Palace staff are from a BAME background. They plan to increase it to 10% in the coming year or so, IIRC.

My point with the funeral procession in general is that people from a BAME background were involved and represented. Not just in the UK tri-service, but also in the Commonwealth armed forces on parade.

so your argument is the Palace cannot be discriminatory because 8.5% of its employees are from BAME groups in a city where 40.2% of residents identified as belonging to either the Asian, Black, Mixed or Other ethnic group?

Sure, that’s representative 😂

sorry remind me again, what was the problem with the Guardian report describing historical racist hiring practices? Are you using your 8.5% stat to demonstrate how that’s been overcome? Seriously?

Very compelling.

I expect Princess Michael’s brooch was an accident and Harry’s been brainwashed into accusing his family of racism too.

Like I said. It’s probably just a series of unfortunate coincidences 🙄

FurAndFeathers · 19/09/2022 21:33

DownNative · 19/09/2022 21:27

It's relevant in that people from non-white backgrounds played a significant role in the Queen's funeral procession today.

But you carry on ignoring what doesn't suit your narrative.

my point was that the Royal family is inherently racist.

the employment practices of the military are not relevant to that statement.

I’m simply sticking to the point.

FurAndFeathers · 19/09/2022 21:38

DownNative · 19/09/2022 21:29

Blatant Strawman Argument. 👏

After initially denying you got the Palace "avoid employing people from BAME backgrounds" from the Guardian, I note you've used Vanity Fair which was based on it. Again, it isn't claiming the modern day Royal Family are doing that.

No, but actual members of the modern day Royal family are claiming that a family with a strong racist history remains racist.

and Princess Michael is certainly demonstrating racism on a regular basis, as did Prince Philip until he died. They have never apologised for the atrocities committed under colonialism and are still exempt from Equalities legislation, which was my initial
point.

why the need for that exemption?

MrsFezziwig · 19/09/2022 21:50

AndTwoFilmsByFrancoisTruffaut · 19/09/2022 18:13

Nope. Not remotely proud. Bored, yes. Proud? Definitely not. Looking forward to life going back to normal.

Can’t really understand comments like this (and there have been many). People complaining about blanket news coverage, as if catch up and the off button didn’t exist. The majority of my interactions since the queen died have not included any reference to her. No-one has forced you to be interested, so why didn’t you just disengage?

MrsFezziwig · 19/09/2022 22:33

AnneBoIeyn · 19/09/2022 20:27

If they hadn't spent millions and millions of pounds on one funeral, all those millions and millions of pounds could have been put to better use feeding people and keeping them warm.

Would it have been though?

LaraLei · 19/09/2022 22:43

But it should have. That’s the point.

Hawkins001 · 19/09/2022 23:08

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 19/09/2022 21:16

😂All who extol 'pomp', I'm curious as to what real, tangible benefits this brings to the country overall. Where, outside the gilded bubble of the Windsors and their unremarkable birth, marriage and death rites common to us all, do these offer something valuable and useful to the rest of us?

I suspect not much. They provide, say on average, 2-3 weddings/funerals a decade. 3 jubilees in a 70-year reign. Does this justify the ridiculous claims that they pump billions of tourist revenue into our economy, and that ALL this revenue is purely down to their existence?

And even if it did, and the country didn't rejoice in their banal rites of passage as though they were witnessing the second coming whilst others scratch their heads over the inequalities they represent, our colourful history is hardly dependent upon a set of two-dimensional, cardboard cut-outs being there to keep it alive.

Sorry to all who've had your operations, appointments and loved ones' funerals cancelled. You deserved better.

On the flip side, what do the average people being to the world stage that would showcase Britain ?

Furries · 20/09/2022 03:28

No matter your views on today, I am struggling to think of another high profile funeral that would attract so much attention.

Her soft power has resulted in this huge global interest.

For all of us adults - we will never see anything like this again. And it’s highly likely that your children will never see anything like this again. Yes, the ceremony will happen again, but the feeling won’t be the same.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 20/09/2022 07:33

AnneBoIeyn · 19/09/2022 16:27

I hate to piss on people's chips but I'd be far prouder of being British if we'd spent the millions this cost (not to mention the cost of the RF generally) on investing in the NHS, education, MH provision, refuges, making sure people didn't die in poverty and so on. That would be the mark of a truly great country, and somewhere I'd actually be proud to be from.

department of health and social care budget is approx £170bn per year

the Royal Family costs the taxpayer around £100m per year - scrapping it would do nothing to improve the health of the nation

Topgub · 20/09/2022 07:42

@Furries

I'm sure we'll cope

AnneBoIeyn · 20/09/2022 07:45

AlecTrevelyan006 · 20/09/2022 07:33

department of health and social care budget is approx £170bn per year

the Royal Family costs the taxpayer around £100m per year - scrapping it would do nothing to improve the health of the nation

That figure doesn't include things like policing for big events, for example.

And actually £100m per year (plus the odd several million for weddings and funerals) would be a serious shot in the arm, wouldn't it?

And either way, the vulgar displays of wealth we're used to from the RF are tone deaf and insulting when people can't afford to heat their homes or feed their families.

FurAndFeathers · 20/09/2022 07:45

Hawkins001 · 19/09/2022 23:08

On the flip side, what do the average people being to the world stage that would showcase Britain ?

’Average people’ excel in maths science and medical breakthroughs, start and run charitable organisations and help the disadvantaged on a regular basis.

there are many many rentable ‘average people’ out there who dedicate their lives to improving things for others with little to no recognition. And they definitely aren’t doing it on a billionaires salary.

I think that work showcases Britain much better than a bunch of rich white folk with questionable values raking in massive salaries.

FurAndFeathers · 20/09/2022 07:54

Furries · 20/09/2022 03:28

No matter your views on today, I am struggling to think of another high profile funeral that would attract so much attention.

Her soft power has resulted in this huge global interest.

For all of us adults - we will never see anything like this again. And it’s highly likely that your children will never see anything like this again. Yes, the ceremony will happen again, but the feeling won’t be the same.

The thing is you could say that about so many things. We’d never seen anything like Diana before. Many of us likely won’t see the death of another King after Charles shuffles off in the not too distant future.

but you can guarantee that won’t stop the mass social hysteria and pissing money away. Only next time it won’t be cos of ‘70 years’ it’ll be cos he’s a penis-holder and we’ll never see a king die again in our lifetimes.

the reasoning really doesn’t matter. It’s hysteria

AlecTrevelyan006 · 20/09/2022 08:01

AnneBoIeyn · 20/09/2022 07:45

That figure doesn't include things like policing for big events, for example.

And actually £100m per year (plus the odd several million for weddings and funerals) would be a serious shot in the arm, wouldn't it?

And either way, the vulgar displays of wealth we're used to from the RF are tone deaf and insulting when people can't afford to heat their homes or feed their families.

your post just proves that most people don’t understand the difference between millions and billions

LaraLei · 20/09/2022 08:16

I struggle to understand why she can’t pay for her funeral if she wants such a massive display. Didn’t we just pay for her jubilee too?

Next up is Charles coronation and presumably again tax payers must pay the bill.

I don’t understand this proud to be British because we can put on a grand display like this and the whole world is watching.

LaraLei · 20/09/2022 08:17

And where is the Daily Mail usually so up in arms every time the tax payers must foot the bill of a refugee family being pulled from the channel?

DysonSpheres · 20/09/2022 08:25

I see this thread has predictable descended into nastiness.

changingstages · 20/09/2022 08:28

Fascinating. Filled me with shame and made me realise I loathe my own country. But... we are all different. And I don't think it's wrong for anyone to feel differently. I just hated it all so much and that took me by surprise.

LadyKenya · 20/09/2022 08:36

LaraLei · 20/09/2022 08:17

And where is the Daily Mail usually so up in arms every time the tax payers must foot the bill of a refugee family being pulled from the channel?

Too busy being proud.

PomRuns · 20/09/2022 08:51

@changingstages that feels so sad to loath your country. There are so many things to be proud of other than this. Science, industry & many more.

Alexandra2001 · 20/09/2022 09:02

Furries · 20/09/2022 03:28

No matter your views on today, I am struggling to think of another high profile funeral that would attract so much attention.

Her soft power has resulted in this huge global interest.

For all of us adults - we will never see anything like this again. And it’s highly likely that your children will never see anything like this again. Yes, the ceremony will happen again, but the feeling won’t be the same.

But what has that "soft power" got us? nothing at all.

Will it even continue under kc3 ?

Sure its a spectacle & it needed to happen but there is more to a country than a funeral, the UK is in decline, none of what has happened during the last 10 days, changes that rather sad fact.

Alexandra2001 · 20/09/2022 09:12

PomRuns · 20/09/2022 08:51

@changingstages that feels so sad to loath your country. There are so many things to be proud of other than this. Science, industry & many more.

Nope, the UK is losing its worlds status of a science super power now we have left the EU, we invest 1/10th of what Germany does in catalyst science start-ups, excluded from all 3 major eu science programs.

Industry? exports falling fast, trade barriers between uk and biggest export market, who owns what little is left of UK car industry?

... Many more? ... They'll be specific niche sectors but no there isn't many more... but we do punch above our weight in sport :)

Would you say the state of the NHS, social care, education, rail, roads & housing is all european class let alone world class?

I'd argue that being concerned about the state of the UK and wanting it to improve is far more "patriotic" than burying your head in the sand and singing "God Save the King"

changingstages · 20/09/2022 10:06

PomRuns · 20/09/2022 08:51

@changingstages that feels so sad to loath your country. There are so many things to be proud of other than this. Science, industry & many more.

It IS sad. I agree. And I wish I could feel prouder of the country but we are not doing well.

Desmorelda · 20/09/2022 10:17

@Alexandra2001 great point. Because of the reluctance of the mainstream media to discuss Brexit so many folk really don't appreciate the effect it has had on many aspects of everyday life.

WildfellAnne · 20/09/2022 10:43

Hawkins001 · 19/09/2022 23:08

On the flip side, what do the average people being to the world stage that would showcase Britain ?

But yesterday’s magnificent pageantry doesn’t showcase Britain in a good way, though. Not necessarily a bad way but definitely not a good way. What exactly did it showcase? That we can put on a good show? What’s the greater good of that?

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