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If you tend to vote conservative can I ask a few questions - let’s keep it light and respectful!

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Holidayhavanas · 27/07/2022 10:58

Full disclosure I tend to vote Labour, but I’m really interested to know if you tend to vote for the tories, what is your reasoning behind. the real shortage of qualified public sector workers for example teachers, social workers, police. A health service and education system on it’s knees. Police forces like Manchester and Met in special forces. I think that it’s symptomatic of years of underfunding. I work in the public sector and feel on a daily basis that the country is absolutely screwed. I assume most tory supporters would say it’s down to austerity but I feel it’s ideological cutting back on public funding. I’mgenuinely open to hear other views as I find it so depressing and just hope that it’s something I am missing. Let’s try and keep this respectful 😊

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AnnPerkins · 27/07/2022 16:56

JustFrustrated · 27/07/2022 14:06

DH and I said the same regarding the NHS the other day.

Between two of us and half an hour we came up with a better system, that still sees the poorest in society getting free healthcare.

But any government that suggests dismantling that sacred cow will never see power again.

Unfortunately.

I am seeing this more and more at the moment, people actually daring to ask if there is a better system than the NHS.

I have talked to a British friend in the Netherlands and a French friend here in the UK and they both much prefer the Dutch and French social insurance systems to our NHS.

I would love to see a cross-party working group set up to look objectively at the NHS and if/how it could be replaced so it's not just handed a few £billion and then kicked down the road yet again by whatever party is in government for short term political gain.

Kennykenkencat · 27/07/2022 16:56

DameHelena · 27/07/2022 15:56

I am interested in people saying that they resent or would resent paying higher taxes to prop up other people.
Unless you're seriously wealthy and could draw on your personal funds to cover any unforeseen issue needing money, up to any limit, at any time, without recourse to e.g. disastrously expensive credit, couldn't those other people be you or your loved ones too?

The problem with raising taxes to cover money spent is that those with any money who are going to be on a super higher rate of tax can afford to leave the country and do so to pay less tax to another country.

That then leaves a large bill which needs paying and then those that can’t afford to leave are left paying huge taxes

I left school in the late 70s and my first pay packet was £80 per month.

I was paying 33% tax

DameHelena · 27/07/2022 17:02

Kennykenkencat · 27/07/2022 16:56

The problem with raising taxes to cover money spent is that those with any money who are going to be on a super higher rate of tax can afford to leave the country and do so to pay less tax to another country.

That then leaves a large bill which needs paying and then those that can’t afford to leave are left paying huge taxes

I left school in the late 70s and my first pay packet was £80 per month.

I was paying 33% tax

To invoke the Nordic countries again (and, again, this is a genuine question; I don't know the answer), do people in e.g. Denmark leave the country if faced with taxes they decide are too high? ie are the Nordic countries seeing this problem?

Interested in this thread?

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ofwarren · 27/07/2022 17:04

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 27/07/2022 11:59

I voted Labour, (Until and since they had such a lack lustre response to Antisemitism) but I think the reason some people are wary can be summed up in one name: Tony Blair. The war in Iraq and his irresponsible spending (all of the gold reserves) cast a long shadow. Now I feel politically homeless and the Tories currently feel like the only viable option to me. Gender Identity is a big concern to me.

This
There is no alternative

MarshaMelrose · 27/07/2022 17:06

I think that is why Blair did well initially as he came across as treating those that were in the lower sections of society as people who wanted to climb up the ladder and make a better life for themselves and he wanted to give them the tools to do so.But also helping those that would find it more difficult.

In the documentary Blair & Brown: the new Labour revolution, Blair said that he'd realised that what made the Tories so appealing to people was that it was considered the party of aspiration. And he wanted the labour party to be the same. I think that's a successful idea. But under Corbyn you heard labour members decrying that success, almost like it's morally wrong. My problem is I have no idea what Starmer thinks. It like he's trying so hard to be everything to everyone that actually he's being no one. Winning the next election should be a walk in the park with Tory shenanigans and chaos, and yet a victory seems far from assured to me.

XingMing · 27/07/2022 17:08

I know two Danes who left Denmark and now live in lower-tax jurisdictions after they were successful as entrepreneurs. Obviously, this is such a tiny sample as to be statistically irrelevant but neither has taken their fortune back to Denmark: one lives in Cyprus and the other in Monaco, so climate could be a factor too.

DameHelena · 27/07/2022 17:34

XingMing · 27/07/2022 17:08

I know two Danes who left Denmark and now live in lower-tax jurisdictions after they were successful as entrepreneurs. Obviously, this is such a tiny sample as to be statistically irrelevant but neither has taken their fortune back to Denmark: one lives in Cyprus and the other in Monaco, so climate could be a factor too.

Thank you; yes, I agree, maybe climate/lifestyle. Interesting though.

balalake · 27/07/2022 17:37

The question to me is whether you will have the option to vote Conservative, or for something calling itself the Conservative Party but is not conservative.

Standing for family values, sound finance, respecting the monarchy, understanding business, none of which remotely apply to the current government.

completelyunderwhelmed · 27/07/2022 17:40

DameHelena · 27/07/2022 16:38

I think one way in which we address that issue is education. And I don't mean Michael Gove's beloved model of focusing on having kids read pre-20th-century 'classic' literature and hammering in dates in history and strict grammar. I mean enabling and encouraging children to find what they're good at, which flows into allowing and enabling them to be engaged and responsible citizens.

For the record, I don't think the Nordic countries are a 'social utopia'; I do though think they seem to do better in things like childcare, wages and healthcare than the UK.

I have to say I struggle to find a 'characterisation of anyone wealthy as being evil' in general life or in Labour discourse. And it's interesting that this narrative exists alongside the 'champagne socialist' one that, if anyone is a bit left-wing but also doesn't live in a hovel, they're a hypocrite; do left-wingers also become 'evil' if they're comfortably off?

Yes I agree on education. As pp said, Blair did well to look to aspiration but everyone going to uni hasn't worked out very well either!

Ok, so 'evil' might be a step too far but there's so much antipathy to people who have wealth of any kind. You see it on mumsnet constantly. 'Tory' is an insult. If you've done well for yourself, it's always because you were privileged in some way, never any recognition of personal agency. And equally poverty is always structural and never the result of poor choices. Its fantasy land.

XingMing · 27/07/2022 17:47

balalake, I think there are a lot of us One Nation Tories who hang our heads in despair over the current shower.

MarshaBradyo · 27/07/2022 17:53

balalake · 27/07/2022 17:37

The question to me is whether you will have the option to vote Conservative, or for something calling itself the Conservative Party but is not conservative.

Standing for family values, sound finance, respecting the monarchy, understanding business, none of which remotely apply to the current government.

Badenoch mentioned something close to family values but it didn’t go down well with a few on the left here

Personally this doesn’t grab me. The monarchy is ok but having to respect it is not a selling point and Starmer’s recent article about duty to celebrate Jubilee did nothing either

It mostly centres around opportunity for me - so Blair captured that but Corbyn and now Starmer have not

The latter is too fixated on sound bite policies such as removing charity status from private which will force more into state whereas Blair said education line with penury

gryilla · 27/07/2022 17:53

balalake · 27/07/2022 17:37

The question to me is whether you will have the option to vote Conservative, or for something calling itself the Conservative Party but is not conservative.

Standing for family values, sound finance, respecting the monarchy, understanding business, none of which remotely apply to the current government.

This is why I wanted to join the party and not just vote for whoever is running under the banner. And meet the people who are on selection committees, policy forums etc.

Decisions get made by the people who show up.

MarshaBradyo · 27/07/2022 17:54

..Without penury

jesusmaryjosephandtheweedonkey · 27/07/2022 17:54

I've always voted Tory and the reason is completely bonkers but...
As a child, living on a rough estate with my mother who was useless, I always remember the Labour Party, knocking on the door, offering to give people a lift to the poling station and back. Telling them that it would be good for the local area.
Well it wasn't good. And they talked shit!
At least if I vote for a toff who doesn't live in the real world, I'm getting exactly what I'm voting for!

AndreaC74 · 27/07/2022 17:59

@completelyunderwhelmed I don't understand the "Brown put millions on Benefits" comment or the "Labour hate anyone who is wealthy..."

I follow politics and don't recognise either statement.

Before the last two elections, i spent quite a bit of time reading Labours manifesto and even under McDonald, i didn't see any hatred toward the rich... just that he would crack down on tax evasion and loopholes.

Even the higher rate stuff got dropped and corporation tax was to be raised by a similar amount to what Sunak has proposed.

Reeve is a multimillionaire, i doubt she hates herself!

AndreaC74 · 27/07/2022 18:07

Ok, so 'evil' might be a step too far but there's so much antipathy to people who have wealth of any kind. You see it on mumsnet constantly. 'Tory' is an insult. If you've done well for yourself, it's always because you were privileged in some way, never any recognition of personal agency. And equally poverty is always structural and never the result of poor choices. Its fantasy land

Isn't there a middle way?

Thats what missing today, it's all extremes.

I was bought up in poverty and have done well for myself (because i could get free FE and evening classes) however, i also get that some people don't have the opportunity, luck, drive or ability plus if everyone becomes a rocket scientist, who does the shite jobs?

Yes people make bad choices, even so called intelligent people but i also wouldn't judge them.

Tory is no more an insult than Cons (its just quicker than typing Conservative) however "Leftie" most definitely is & for balance, so is Scum.

completelyunderwhelmed · 27/07/2022 18:34

I'm talking about the huge expansion of tax credits under Blair/Brown which may have appeared to redistribute wealth but, in the view of many, just maintained low pay in certain sectors.

I'm not saying the Labour Party are necessarily antagonistic towards the rich (though maybe Corbyn was), I'm saying that tends to be the attitude and perception of many Labour supporters and probably rightly so given Labour's historical basis. So, yes, I perhaps conflated popular rhetoric with manifesto which isn't necessarily accurate. Though, does anyone know what the hell Starmer wants to do?!

lot123 · 27/07/2022 18:35

I vote Conservative due to lack of an alternative that fits my ethos.

I think the Labour government spent a lot of money in Blair's time, some of which was wasted. I believe paying 50% odd income/NI tax is enough to fund public services and don't want to pay any more tax (self-interest but I'm being honest). I don't think the state is particularly efficient or effective at running large businesses. I support choice, whether comprehensive, grammar or private schools.

completelyunderwhelmed · 27/07/2022 18:37

@AndreaC74 I agree with you! There should be a middle way and that is where I sit. Unfortunately I feel like there is no nuance and some things we are not meant to discuss... even if it is the harsh reality. Perhaps mumsnet is not representative but I find the discourse so polarised.

completelyunderwhelmed · 27/07/2022 18:45

And I will say that I think the insults have different connotations.

Tory = nasty, hate poor people, out for yourself
Leftie = too stupid to understand fiscal reality / deluded Marxist.

lot123 · 27/07/2022 18:47

Perhaps mumsnet is not representative but I find the discourse so polarised.

I agree. It's also frustrating when what starts as a respectful exchange of views descend into Labour = good, Conservative = evil. Which has happened in most posts on this topic recently.

I'd never vote Labour but I understand why people might choose to. There's no need for the level of vitriol and abuse directed at Conservative voters, who are equally decent and upstanding but with a different political leaning.

Florenz · 27/07/2022 18:47

The main problem is that party members hold too much sway within the parties and are not representitive of the public as a while. So you end up with extremists getting voted in for party leader who then have to try to appeal to the average voter.

completelyunderwhelmed · 27/07/2022 18:49

@lot123 yes, you said it better. Conservative seems to be a position to be defended, whereas Labour is the default 'nice' vote. So reductive.

MsPincher · 27/07/2022 18:53

AndreaC74 · 27/07/2022 15:22

Yes food banks are common throughout Europe but at about 50% of the numbers the UK has.

But the point here is it doesn't matter, we all (mostly) live in the UK and i find the idea that working British people, folk doing a 37 or 40 week (often more) have to resort to basically begging to get food.

It should be something we are ashamed of but it appears that its a thing of pride, judging by my Tory MP FB posts.

But why is that and how is it caused by Tory policies? As I understand it they have increased the minimum wage above inflation over their term in government. Unemployment is very low. Is it that UC hasn’t risen with inflation?

MsPincher · 27/07/2022 18:58

lot123 · 27/07/2022 18:47

Perhaps mumsnet is not representative but I find the discourse so polarised.

I agree. It's also frustrating when what starts as a respectful exchange of views descend into Labour = good, Conservative = evil. Which has happened in most posts on this topic recently.

I'd never vote Labour but I understand why people might choose to. There's no need for the level of vitriol and abuse directed at Conservative voters, who are equally decent and upstanding but with a different political leaning.

I agree- I would prefer to discuss the actual issues than insults, sound bites and exaggeration.