Hi all - I just had a long catch-up read. Lots of love to Silkie and Prok, I'm so sorry for all you are both going through.
I'm still struggling with the new site. Either long threads don't load fully, or my typing keeps stopping while ads load. Anyway, enough moaning.
I nodded along to lots of things I read above but too many to reply to all. You are definitely my people.
MissC, I'm one of those mums who refused to let my son play American football in high school. I wince when I watch it!
It's fall here in New England, and it is absolutely glorious. Really really beautiful. I have house guests over from England and they are mostly driving around the place gasping and taking photos - I'm glad they managed to come at exactly the right time. We're going up to Acadia National Park for a few days soon for more leaf-peeping and hiking. (My computer corrected leaf-peeping to leaf-peeing which is something quite different.)
I am going to family weekend at DD2's college in a couple of weeks, which means I will hear her sing in the choral concert in the beautiful chapel there. I will cry... She is so much happier at college this year. She's made some great friends and she has a room with a beautiful view over the lake. She just came home for a couple of days and she was keen to get back to college, which kind of warms my heart because last year she would have been desperately delaying her drive back.
Then it's Thanksgiving, so DD2 will be home, but DD1 has to stay at college for an event, so we won't see her.
DS is at the stage of applying for college. I think he'll do 1.5 years at community college then he might end up back in the UK as there are more courses there that he's interested in.
DD is also looking at doing a semester abroad, so I may end up with two kids in the UK, which would give me a great excuse to visit. I went this summer and for the first time in 15 years of living in the US, I've been quite homesick. It was so lovely - the weather was beautiful, and I saw almost all of my family and lots of friends.
Other than that I'm just pootling along with work and life, and it's all quite peaceful. Doesn't life just rush by?