Once again, you are left without an answer about DS's education, Silkies. Nobody you are talking to seems to have any sense that they have a responsibility to DS.
Prok it seems all wrong that someone over a certain age can't get an older cat from a shelter. It would seem to be a perfect match, to me anyway. One of my DDs fosters cats and kittens, and DS and his exGF did so too. DD has ended up with two cats of her own, and also a puppy, through the fostering.
We bought a fur comb thingy to try to relieve Dcat of some of her heavy coat (like My Floof she is 2/3 fur and 1/3 cat and it's too much for her in the heat). We harvested enough fur to knit at least one more cat. Dcat got a bit annoyed with us after a few hours of happy purring, so we stopped.
I may well need to go without sedation, MissC as my alternative is to sit in the lobby of the hospital and wait until DS gets back from his day of emergency med rotation to take me home. I can go in an Uber with DD3 (who narrowly missed totaling my car and killing herself twice and now understandably doesn't want to drive) if I go without sedation.
The GI doctor who will be doing the procedure sent me instructions for the necessary prep - he wants me to buy and prepare a concoction of Miralax and Gatorade, and kick off a marathon bathroom session by taking a whopping dose of Dulcolax at 3pm the day before, which will absolutely not be possible due to the fact that I will be at work, can't take time off, and am expected to be 100% on duty and not drinking exact quantities of refrigerated drinks at specific intervals, alternating with dashing to the loo all afternoon, with nausea a distinct possibility too. I'm going to ask if I can take Suprep instead, which they'll have to prescribe.