Just been called a fat bitch for no reason

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I was walking to collect DS from school and whilst on my way some ‘man’ for absolutely no reason at all, decided to shout “fat bitch” at me out of his car window. What’s hurt me the most is that I’ve recently lost a bit of weight and am continuing doing so, which has sparked a little bit of confidence back in me. I’ve started making more of an effort with my hair and makeup and have bought myself some new clothes. How can I not let this arsehole get to me and make me not want to carry on losing weight😔 I don’t understand why you would do that to somebody!?

Because he's one of those men that sees women doing great things and being his boss and wearing the trousers.and just generally not giving a fuck...and his tiny, shrivelled penis just can't take it. #menwhohatewomen

I hope his next shit's a hedgehog

This made me chuckle!

What a Prick

I remember years ago now (1996 or so) I was at a crossing waiting for the lights to change and some idiot male sprayed water at my face from a water pistol . Could have been worse, these days it could be acid !
They are bullies Men like that

I’m sorry it happened op, everyone here is right though and you shouldn’t take it personally. I started a thread last week after hearing comments while on my run - I am so over it now! The shouters get ignored by me!

Being a woman going about your day is enough to trigger some men to be abusive.

I echo all the above sentiments (especially @Tryhard40 ). Imagine what a dark place his head and heart are in to do something so vile. Decent people do not behave in this way. I know it must have hurt a lot, though. You happened to be there at that point in time - it couldn’t be been anyone.

Take heart from the consensus on here. We are here to listen.

I’m such a gob id have shouted “skinny cock” back

What an awful thing for him to have done. If it’s any small consolation at all, think how very unhappy he must be to behave that way. Happy people who enjoy their lives don’t insult strangers like that. He’s very screwed up.

Try not to let that vile excuse for a human being dent your confidence 🌺

This is spot on ^^

Also note the use of such slurs whilst he's in a vehicle;a distance from us and moving quickly;daring to say such crap to a woman's face may earn him a well deserved slap or even a punch.

What a disgusting man he is.

I know it hurts, but this is honestly not about you, it’s about him being a nasty, insecure, weak minded bully and general prick. If you got his number plate, report him to the police. Fucking idiot.

Please don't worry about this absolute bellend's shitty little shout out from his car window. He sounds like a creepy psychopath/narc.

(((HUG))). I know it hurts, even when your sensible brain says 'it's not about you'!!

I AM fat. I dread the local gobby teens calling shit out when I have to walk past them.

the other week one gobby little twat, trying to show off in front of his mates came up to me & asked if he could have my phone number. I totally put him on the spot, he won't be doing it again in hurry. Little twat.

it depends how vulgar you are happy to be ...if you don't mind then just say something like 'you didn't seem to mind last week when you wanted to get your dick wet'

What kind of sad, nasty, unintelligent type needs to shout insults at strangers from a car to make themselves feel big?? What a waste of a sperm and egg!

I've done the 'little finger waggle' at them before now.
Or a variation of the Winston Churchill response --
"I can lose weight tomorrow -- what are you going to do, get a brain implant?"

Yes I agree with this too:
@RevoltingHumanHead

"He’s an inadequate little misogynistic scrote, who deep down is full of self-loathing. No well-adjusted person happily going about their Friday afternoon feels the need to wound a total stranger like that. He's a failure of a human."

Try not to give him the power over you to feel bad about it - he is inconsequential and vile.

The guy is so obviously a total jerk. Reflect on what kind of a person takes the time to yell insults at random passers by. That type of person, does their opinion matter to you, is their judgement important or trustworthy? NO. You’re great. Sod him.

Hes a dickhead, I hope he catches herpes :)

He's a horrible man. Men are trash. He doesn't matter.

A stranger once shouted I had a massive vagina. I was with my dm in a busy town.

So awful! Nobody deserves that, even if they were enormous and not losing a single pound. There are some really horrible people around these days. It definitely isn't anything to do with you or your weight 💐

I’m not a violent woman but I hope someone smashes his teeth in one day,please don’t think on it,it’s all on him not you.

I imagine most women have experienced similar OP. It's not personal to you, it's just another vile man who hates women. The world is full of them. I still remember the video footage of that poor woman being pushed off the pavement in front of a bus by a man. All she was doing was walking along the street!

Can you imagine women going around yelling vile abuse at random men? Or attacking random men? Violence against women and girls is so normalised we all just think, oh no there's another one. There's a huge problem with men in our society. I don't know what the answer is really.

Its got absolutely nothing to do with you - it's all him and he clearly has mental health problems to shout at someone in that way for no reason.

Well done on your weight loss - keep going with it. Move on from this.

Thanks again everyone. You’ve all made me feel tonnes better! I really appreciate it. It’s sad to hear a few of you have also had to deal with something like this.

He's probably got a thimble size penis.