I think its appalling that only those households on the Homes for Ukraine scheme get the £350 scheme. Those on the family sponsorship scheme get fuck all. And those on the family scheme are under pressure to house family.
We've one friend desparately trying to get 3 family members out. He's having a nightmare with it. And will have financial pressure if he does manage it. He fortunate in that he does have a big fuck off house he's doing up but supporting 3 extra people if still gonna be tough on what he earns.
Many of those on the Homes for Ukraine scheme I have spoken to have spent a small fortune before their guests arrived (making sure they have things like beds and bedding or gas safety certificates). Then, because Ukrainians get only £200 per person emergency money when they arrive (its supposed to be within 48 hours of arrival - in many cases its not) until they get Universal Credit payments (6 to 8 weeks after theyve submitted their application - which naturally doesn't tend to be on the day of arrival...), hosts are in a position where they have to feed their guests even though they aren't supposed to either out of sheer necessity or because they feel they have a moral obligation to.
I have also spoken to hosts who have sent their guests to the foodbank already because they their Ukrainians have no money and the host is (quite frankly stubbornly in the case I know about as they damn well can afford it) refusing to help feed them.
I am collecting some fascinating and heartbreaking stories...
... In terms of shared culture, finding out yesterday with the Jubilee Concert that Craig David made it to Ukraine's airwaves tells the story in a nutshell for me. Having just little things like this to talk about is surprisingly important to biilding relationships.