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Have you ever been really affected by the death of a celebrity? Is this normal?

224 replies

Redbluelellow · 27/05/2022 09:51

I feel so heartbroken at Ray Liotta passing away. My husband and friends must think I'm crackers but I genuinely have been fond of him for years and years. I always hoped I would meet him one day and believed

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ConsuelaHammock · 27/05/2022 17:36

Honestly no. I can’t say the death of any famous person has affected me in the slightest.

Upsidedownagain · 27/05/2022 17:43

I have never cried over any celeb's death but have been certainly been affected by many - a lot mentioned here.

Princess Diana had a massive effect on many people - I didn't even rate her much in life but found her death very tragic and went out to walk round London the night before her funeral - so many people camping in the streets - that was very moving.

Victoria Wood's was shocking, far too young - I loved her humour and saw her twice at the Albert Hall.

Freddie Mercury's was so sad and AIDS such a terrible disease then with no effective treatments.

John Peel - that was sad too - too young again.

One of my dds was badly affected by the death of Caroline Flack - she was a massive fan and had actually met her several times.

I think any death of a well-known figure reminds us of our mortality. I'm getting on a bit now and lots of actors, rock stars etc that I liked when I was young have died in recent years. It reminds me of how short life is and how quickly it passes.

TheFairyNamedMary · 27/05/2022 17:50

I went ohhhh no when Christopher lee died.. he was (I think) just an old school gent

CHiSOCG · 27/05/2022 17:52

Amy Winehouse - just a sad sad state of affairs and a musical genius. Who knows what else she would have done

Rockbird · 27/05/2022 17:57

I was gutted when Rik Mayall and Victoria Wood died, really gutted.

But there are three people in particular who are all getting on in years, one in his 90s, and I will be devastated when they pass. I have autism, I get very very attached to people I'm a fan of.

esgee · 27/05/2022 18:16

Chester Bennington, cannot, cannot listen to Underground 13 (I'll be Gone)
without a little cry.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 27/05/2022 18:16

Victoria Wood and Ronnie Corbett. Childhood memories and both were so inherently "British" in some way.

Rather morbidly, their deaths got me thinking about other celebs whose death will be irrationally pivotal to me!

AragornsGirl · 27/05/2022 18:30

Stephen Gately. I was a huge boyzone fan and he was my favourite. My brother and his girlfriend were up visiting me the weekend it happened, and my mum messaged him to get him to tell me

butimjayigetaway · 27/05/2022 18:31

When Leonard Cohen died I had a good cry.

DrBrennerFan · 27/05/2022 18:36

Really shit day yesterday so Ray Liotta death did gut me (got his autograph somewhere I’ve six of them Alan Rickman included can I find them? Can I fuck I’ve turned flat inside down over the years looking for them) but ok today.

HorseInTheHouse · 27/05/2022 18:44

I've never particularly cared about deaths of adults I don't know, beyond normal oh that's a shame. Especially not if they'd reached a good age.

I hate hearing about children dying.

NannyOggsWhiskyStash · 27/05/2022 19:31

@QuantumWeatherButterfly Same, I still get really sad when I think about it. Sending them a GNU

Queuing4Fergs · 27/05/2022 19:59

Sean Lock. That one felt like a real sucker punch to the gut.

The whole of 2016 was a terrible cunt of a year.

And not a celeb, but an incredibly talented, formidable sportsman - Jonah Lomu. He was so fantastic to watch on the field, fought back from adversity to be fit enough to make the All Blacks team when he had been so unwell, and died horribly, horribly young. Thanks for everything, Jonah 😪

ThorFull · 27/05/2022 20:07

Caroline Aherne really made me sad. Sobbed when I heard half the world away on the radio at the time. I’d grown up with her, watching her family sat on the sofa while I sat in the sofa with mine.

Bizarrely, footage or photos of Princess Diana with her young sons really upsets me now. I’m a year younger than William. I have 2 sons the same age as his eldest 2. Her death never really bothered me at the time. But now The thought of my 2 boys losing their mother breaks me.

balalake · 27/05/2022 20:38

I was affected by the death of Kirsty MacColl. I think because I had met her less than a year before her death and because of her age, and the age of her sons. I went to her memorial service which was a lovely tribute to her, but my abiding memory is hearing her mum speak.

ShirleyJackson · 27/05/2022 20:43

David Bowie and Prince.

Victoria Wood was shocking, too. 2016 was a foul year. That said, given what’s happened since, I wonder if a bit of sheep/goat sorting was going on.

And weirdly, I properly ugly-sobbed when Prince Philip died. It wasn’t that long after I lost my parents within eight months of each other, and it brought all the memories back of how bereft my
mum was when she lost my dad.

I’m not a royalist or anything. DH found me in a snotty heap in the kitchen and was most perplexed.

HuntingoftheSnark · 27/05/2022 20:47

Princess Diana
Gary Speed
Caroline Flack

ShirleyJackson · 27/05/2022 20:50

I cried for Peaches Geldof and her children, too. A desperately sad situation.

DrEllie · 27/05/2022 20:51

Lemmy. I really did think he was going to live forever!

DontTripPoppy · 27/05/2022 20:58

Paul Hester (crowded house drummer) Just so desperately sad.

MrsJBaptiste · 27/05/2022 20:59

I've never cried about a celebrity death but it always gets to me when I hear the Avicii lyrics "One day, you'll leave this world behind, so live a life you will remember" - he really did.

Annabelle69 · 27/05/2022 21:08

UndertheEagle · 27/05/2022 09:55

David Bowie. I was heartbroken. I've loved him since I was 15, I'm now 60. I saw him in concert many times. He died far too young.

Same. I cried so much when David Bowie died. Obviously I didn't know him, but he was a constant in my life from being a teenager. His music reminded me of so many growing up memories, like audible photos 😢

ClockTooFast · 27/05/2022 21:15

I found myself properly grieving when Dave Greenfield (The Stranglers) died during the first lockdown. I didn't function fully for about a week. The kids were mildly baffled but they were patient with me 😁 RIP Dave

ChillyFloss · 27/05/2022 21:18

Not particularly a fan, but was on hols in Los Angeles when Prince died, and the LA Times ran a full page with a picture of the back of a red corvette with the words "That was much too fast baby" above. Really got to me at the time.

Kindfulness · 27/05/2022 21:19

MintyCedricRidesAgain · 27/05/2022 10:03

Paul Ritter (Friday Night Dinner)

Such an understated and underrated actor in both drama and comic roles and seemed like a lovely bloke in real life.

I was lucky enough to see him on stage back in 2019.

It just seems such a waste.

I was going to say Paul Ritter too. It still makes me tear up when I think he's no longer with us 😭